Nancyg56
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Well, it is my contention that the only "legitimate" reason for opposing gay marriage is on the basis of religious beliefs. If we remove the religious component of it by eliminating the term marriage from the discussion, then that reason for opposition is removed. And then the bigots will not have any rocks to hide behind and would just have to attempt to support it via their bigotry. Not a good place to be, in this country.
I have seen many people that state they would not be opposed to civil unions, it is the word Marriage that is the hang up. So, I'm more interested in getting people the rights they desire than being hung up on the word.
But that is the real issue here. We are supposed to have a real separation between Church and State but as you state, religious beliefs are the real roadblock to legalizing same sex marriage. If the only way to remove this roadblock is to stop issuing marriage licenses and begin issuing a license for civil unions then I would have no problem with that either. But you an I both know that the same people who are so freaked out by gays marrying will be just as opposed to them having the same legal license they enjoy. Remove the Bible and individual religious beliefs from the argument and there will be another argument to be made. Same people, same fears, same outrage.
