KathyRN Family's Trip Report: Adventures in Autism: WDW... A FEW PICS, FINALLY! pg 13

Linnie: :thanks: for your feedback; I really appreciate it! This report is probably a snoozer for most DISers, but I'm writing it mostly for the parents of kids like Billy and Trey...especially if they haven't been to WDW because they are afraid that their child will not do well there.

If I can convince just one AS parent of the pixiedust: then I will be happy!

csuzannet: HDDR is the best! HDDR is the best! (Did I repeat myself again?? :laughing: )

halloweenqueen: Thanks for coming out of lurkdom...I sometimes think that Buzz and Linnie are my only readers!!

SueM in MN: I've learned so much from you and the others on the DISability board...thanks! There is no other place on Earth that is as accommodating as WDW...aren't the CM's terrific?

Kathy
 
Day Six, Saturday Evening, 11/11/06 : Magic Kingdom

We arrived “home” and because we had left the park a bit later than we had planned, we wasted no time settling in for a nap. Normally I find myself puttering around a bit when we come back for our break. Today all I did was transfer some wet clothes from the washer to the dryer, take off my shoes, close the blinds and slip into bed.

Tonight would be a late night at MK: there were two SpectroMagic parades scheduled (8pm & 10pm) and I wanted to stay for the later, less crowded one. Even Eddie tried to rest. He snuggled with Billy on the pull-out sofa and tried to get him to settle down. Billy was not cooperating. :rolleyes: Naturally.

Every time Ed and I began drifting off to sleep, Billy would wake us. He got up about three times to use the bathroom. Normally a child doing this might not disturb a parent, but Billy was in the habit of announcing, at the top of his lungs, “I need to go to the bathroom, PLEEESE!” It must be a habit from school. He always asks for permission, even at home.

After each trip, he would return to the pull-out and start giggling loudly b/c Eddie was there. After repeated rounds of,

E: “Billy, be quiet!”
B: “Quiet!” (Giggle Giggle)
E: “Billy, go to sleep!”
B: “Go to sleep!” (Giggle Giggle)
E: “Billy…” (Rustling sounds)
B: (Very loud) “No! No! Noooooo!

Ed had had enough. He brought Billy in with us so Eddie, at least, could get some rest. Billy would get quiet for a while and we would fall asleep. Then he would begin stimming: humming, singing, and scripting to himself, and it would wake us. Then he would be quiet and the cycle would begin again.

Sleep. Wake. Sleep. Wake. :confused3 I thought about putting Billy in the whirlpool since he obviously was not going to nap, but I was so groggy by now that I just couldn’t get up!

The alarm went off. Of course, by this time, Billy had finally crashed! :rolleyes2 I groaned and opened one eye to look at the clock. I knew that I now felt ten times worse than I would have if I had just skipped the nap altogether. I would have to seriously reconsider this whole nap idea. It may have worked for Billy when he was 5 or 6, but it sure wasn’t working now!

I reset the alarm to give us another half hour. Seemingly in an instant, the alarm went off again. It was now 4:30 and we had a 5:30 character meal at Liberty Tree Tavern that I did not want us to miss.

With superhuman effort I got myself out of bed, staggered to the sink and splashed my face. I first went across the hall. AR was already up and dressed and Tricia woke easily. Well, at least they got their naps! I then moved to the living room and shook Eddie—hard. He grunted.

I shook him again and told him it was time to get up. We’ve always called him the Log because he sleeps like a log! Even when he was little, you could send a marching band through his bedroom while he was sleeping and he still wouldn’t wake up! And now the Log was a Teenage Log. Oh boy. I shook him once more. He grunted again and sat up. Good.

Now came the really hard part: I had to deal with the other two! Ed was like a grizzly bear that had been disturbed during hibernation. :chewy: (Okay, that's not a bear, its Chewy, but its the best I could do.) He must have felt even worse than I did. (Remember, his body was used to working through the night and then sleeping during the day.) I know he truly loves me :lovestruc b/c he dragged himself out of bed to take me back to my beloved MK; he would have liked nothing more that to roll over and go back to sleep!

And now, it was time to wake the sweet little boy. Ahem! I pulled back the covers. He pulled them back, his eyes still closed. “It’s time to sleep!” he muttered. Uh, negative.
“Let’s go, Billy-Boy”, I coaxed. “It’s time to sleep!” he responded, pulling the covers over his head.

“BILLY, GET UP RIGHT NOW!!” barked Ed, in his best Drill Instructor voice. ::cop:

Billy shot out of bed and ran to the bathroom! “Go to Magic Kingdom?” he asked, sleepily as he pulled off his pajamas.
“Yes, Billy” we said.
“First, Hall of Presidents, then Mickey’s Philharmagic, please!”
“Oh no, not again!” we groaned in unison.

We gathered our things and I packed some bologna and goldfish crackers for Billy to eat, since I knew that LTT did not serve chicken fingers or pizza! We all donned the YOMD t-shirts that AR got for us, (except for Eddie…he was a poop and wanted to wear his HS t-shirt…teenagers!) Well, I try not to sweat the small stuff!

Naturally, b/c we were running late this time, the bus did not come right away! Tick Tock! Tick Tock! Ed was getting his Grump on; lack of sleep AND running late! It was almost 5:30 and we were still en route to MK. We weren’t going to make it.

I called the Disney Dining number and explained that we were running late for our character dinner. The CM told me that she would call the LTT and let them know. There, problem solved!

“First, Hall of Presidents, then Mickey’s Philharmagic, please!” Ugh! I lost count of how many times he repeated this. :crazy: Social stories were not working tonight.

We breezed through security and then the turnstiles. My heart got that little flutter as we emerged through the tunnel and onto Main St. USA. It was twilight and the street was hung with twinkling Christmas garlands. The hanging planters were filled with poinsettias and the shop windows glistened with holiday delights.

But there was no time to linger.

We turned left at the Crystal Palace and then over the bridge into Liberty Square. We approached LTT and found people sitting all along the front steps and, inside, even more were standing about, waiting for tables. It was now 6pm and we were ½ hour late for our ADR. :rolleyes1

I checked in and, yes, they had been informed that we were going to be late and, yes, they would still honor our reservation. I gave Ed an “I told you not to worry” look, which I really shouldn’t have (it annoys the heck out of him) and he raised an eyebrow. Just as he opened his mouth to speak, Billy announced to everyone there, “I have to go to the bathroom, please!” Ed took him by the hand and led him to the restroom, and I was saved from another I-hate-being-late lecture!

I put in my usual request for a quiet table and ten minutes later we were led to a large round table in one of the intimate side rooms that was far less noisy than the larger main dining area. It was the Ben Franklin room to be exact. His countenance gazed down upon us from his portrait as we gave our beverage orders to the waiter in Colonial garb.

The characters began circulating immediately. First came Minnie ::MinnieMo in a gown and mobcap. So sweet and perky! She greeted each of us and posed for pictures.

Billy wasn’t too interested in her, which was unusual. Perhaps he was hungry, he just kept stuffing goldfish in his mouth while she went ‘round the table! The waiter brought fresh rolls and a family-style salad bowl and we served ourselves.

Then came Dale, who did a quick round of photos and hugs. Next came pluto: Pluto, who was very playful. Billy seemed more interested now. Pluto let Billy pat him and kiss his nose…which can be quite a maneuver around those big rubber whiskers of his!

By now, we were served our main course, family style. Moist turkey, ham, and flank steak with mashed potatoes, stuffing, and vegetable was set before us and we all dug in. Then came Chip (nose looks like a chocolate chip!), who was as mischievous as ever! He greeted everyone and struck a pose with Eddie: Back to back; arms folded in “cool dude” stance. :cool2:


Then Minnie came around a second time and spent a little time with everyone. Dale crept up and grabbed Eddie’s baseball cap and ran around the table with Eddie running after him! He finally retrieved the cap and sat down. No sooner did he begin eating again when Goofy came along and took his cap and put it on Tricia’s head! He posed with everyone, kissed Aunt Rae’s hand and gave me a big hug. A really big hug.

“Hey Goofy, stay away from my wife!” Ed laughed. (The food must have revived him.) Goofy responded by pointing to himself, and then to me, as it to say, “She’s mine, now!” He grabbed me and led me away to the next room. Ed played along and followed us! He took out his wallet and showed Goofy his badge. Goofy put both his hands in the air, surrendered, and “gave” me back! He even put both hands up against the wall in case Ed wanted to search him! It was a lot of fun and AR and the kids got a real kick out of seeing “the parents” playing with Goofy!

Pluto came around again, as did Chip. They spent more time playing with the kids. Of all the character meals we have enjoyed, this one had the most character interaction, by far. Most often, characters would give a hug, pose for a picture, and then move on to the next table. The other exception on this trip was Pooh at the CP last Wednesday. Here they not only came around twice, they really took time to play with everyone at all the tables.

It was a slower, more leisurely meal, not recommended if you want to get in and get out quick, but definitely worth it if you want a lot of character interaction.

Dessert was warm apple cobbler with vanilla ice cream. Billy was getting fidgety by now and repeating his mantra of “Hall of Presidents, then Mickey’s Philharmagic, please!” over and over. Even though it was a fun time, we had been sitting at the table for a l-o-n-g time, so Ed decided to take him over to the HOP while the rest of us (AR) finished dessert. We finally finished our meal and, after a little rest room stop, walked across the square to the HOP to join the others.

We arrived just a little too late; the 7:30 show had just begun. Ed and Billy were inside and I didn’t want to make Ed’s cell phone ring now that the show had started. Eddie and Tricia were itching to go do something and didn’t want to wait the 25 min for the show to end. Eddie wanted to see the new POC since he’s a big Captain Jack fan. I wavered a moment, then decided we should go for it. We walked over to POC and saw the wait posted as 20 min.

Now, I had read before that WDW uses 20 minutes as their “default” wait-time and that the actual time is often much less. Hmmm. It didn’t seem too crowded in Caribbean Square; perhaps people were staking out their viewing spots for the 8pm Spectro. Hmmm. :scratchin Finally, at the urging of the two older kids, I decided to take a chance.

We started our way down into the underground pirate cave and seemed to be moving along pretty well until, Bam! We hit a wall of people waiting in the queue. Uh, it looked like the wait was going to be about 20 min after all.

I checked my watch and when it hit 7:55 and I knew Ed and Billy would be done with HOP, I tried to call Ed. Nothing. No service. Well, duh! :rolleyes: We’re in an underground “cave”, after all! It was exactly 8pm as we boarded our boat and while Eddie really enjoyed the new effects, I was stressing b/c Ed had no idea where we had gone.

When we emerged outside we found that we ALL had several voice messages on our phones and they were not nice ones! Ugh! I called Ed and got an earful. By now, Spectro was in full swing and was running from Frontierland toward Main Street. We literally fought our way through the crowd, using the little wooden walkway by the water in Frontierland because the main walkway was impassible.

We finally met up with Ed in front of the Liberty Belle Riverboat and he was :furious: that we had gone off without telling him where we were going. It didn’t help that Billy was chanting “Mickey’s Philharmagic, please” over and over. That would get on anyone’s nerves after awhile. I apologized and tried to explain that I didn’t want his phone to start ringing in the HOP, so I thought I would wait until he and Billy were done with the show.

“Why didn’t you just text me before you went on the ride?”
“Huh?”
“You know, leave a text message!”
“What? Oh, sorry, I forgot I could do that.” (I am a techno-phobe.)

“I can’t believe you just took off like that!” “Why bother carrying a cell phone if you can’t remember how to use it!” “Grumpity-Grump-Grump…” His eyebrows knitted together in a scowl and I believe I even saw actual steam coming out of his ears.:mad:

Aunt Rae wisely busied herself by intently studying the tail end of the parade. Eddie and Tricia exchanged guilty looks. Eddie tried to explain that he had tried to TM him, but by the time he remembered, he could no longer get service. It didn’t help. Ed was just in a really bad mood now.

Well, it seems that every family vacation we ever had included one “big miscommunication” episode that resulted in one of us getting really peeved. Now that we had just experienced the requisite blowout, I was anxious to patch things up and get rolling again. I apologized once more and tried to take Billy’s hand from his. “Let’s just go”, he grumbled, as he held tight to Billy’s hand and stalked off.

“Mickey’s Philharmagic, pleeeese!”

I glanced over toward the Liberty Tree Tavern and wondered, briefly, if Goofy would still be interested in running away together.

Deciding that this was improbable, I joined the others as they trotted off after Ed, who was power walking toward FantasyLand. Oh, well. Billy really needed to get Mickey’s Philharmagic out of his system, and I think we all needed a little levity at this point.

Now, before you come down too hard on my poor old grumpy DH, try to remember that he has good reason to feel irritable. Assuming that you have a normal work shift, imagine for a moment how it would feel doing all this “vacationing” on a nighttime schedule:

At eight-thirty in the evening, you would head out the door to start your tour of whatever park you were visiting that day. You would stop to eat just before midnight, then try to take a short nap around 3am. You are back out in the parks at about 5am and tour until 9 or 10 in the morning. Hopefully, you would be in bed before noon. You would wake up at 6:30pm, go for a run, and then do it all over again! :upsidedow


After a few days of that, you’d be Grumpy, too!

And because, for the most part, I am a wonderful wife, I chalked up my husband’s grumpiness to his change-of-shift lag and let it go.

Much to everyone’s relief, the next showing of MP was just about to begin. We entered the “Concert Hall” and were able to find great seats in the middle. Soon we were laughing at Donald’s misadventures once more. I never get tired of this attraction. (Neither does Billy!) Even 16 yr old Eddie was impressed with all the 3D effects, smells, and sensations. I especially like “flying” on the magic carpet with the “wind” in my hair!

I glanced inside the gift shop as we passed by on the way out and got a laugh. I never noticed before that Donald’s “other half” was sticking out on the other side of the wall! :lmao: We dropped off our glasses and backtracked into Liberty Square so we could do the Haunted Mansion again, this time with Eddie.

No matter how many times you go through the Haunted Mansion,there are always new gags to find. I sat with Billy, who, as usual, giggled the entire time. I still couldn’t find those elusive hidden Mickeys; I’m going to have to break down and buy the book!

AR sat with Ed, and Tricia sat with Eddie. When the holographic ghost appeared between them, Eddie pretended to pummel him and kick him out of the doom-buggy, much to his sister’s amusement. From here, we passed once more through Fantasyland on our way to TomorrowLand.

As we passed the Mad Tea Party, Tricia begged to go on the teacups. She had asked for them earlier in the week but we had never seemed to have time to fit them in. The other kids and even AR(!) wanted to go with her. The queue was very short, so we sent them off to spin themselves silly.

I warned the kids not to spin the cup too fast b/c of AR. (Ha! Like that’s gonna work!) They began slowly spinning ‘round and ‘round just as Wishes started. The music played and the fireworks burst overhead as Ed and I sat on a bench and watched them spin faster had faster, laughing and shrieking. It was such a perfect moment that I felt like we were in the middle of a WDW commercial! pixiedust: (Where’s the hidden camera?)

The fireworks were still exploding overhead as they came off the teacups. AR said the spinning wasn’t too bad since she had kept looking straight ahead at Billy’s happy face.

We had one hour ‘til Spectro and we had two Tomorrowland rides that we just had to do with Eddie: Buzz and Space Mountain. Fortunately they were both FP attractions and we could use our GAC if necessary.

Lots of people were moving out of the park now that Wishes was over, so we were able to get on Buzz rather quickly. Tricia and Eddie took one car, Billy and Daddy took another, and I was paired with Aunt Rae. We zapped “Zs” with our lasers and Ed won again! He even beat Eddie! It’s amazing what winning that laser game did toward eradicating his bad mood. Men! AR was excited; her score went from 200 to a whopping 500! :cool1:

She and Ed bowed out of SM once more and the kids and I raced up the long FP queue until we came to the end of the line. It wasn’t too bad, only about 15 minutes, and when we finally boarded Eddie was thrilled to find that he was in the front seat. We hurtled through space and we all cheered at the end. I was laughing so hard from listening to Billy that Eddie had to physically help me out of the spaceship! I was so glad that we had been able to do most of Eddie’s MK favorites tonight.

We backtracked through Fantasyland and Liberty Square to get to our viewing spot in FrontierLand. We could hear the Spectro music in the distance. I knew that we had time, though, b/c the earlier parade route had begun in Frontierland and ended on Main Street. The second parade would reverse the route, so we had a while before it reached us.

Because the streetlights were already dimmed, we were very careful to watch our steps as we pushed further into a darkened Frontierland. I pulled out the glow bracelets that I had brought from home (pkg of 12 for $1) and the younger kids “lit” the way for us! There were definitely other people there, but nothing like the utter gridlock we had experienced in this area during the early parade.

At 10:15 we found a nice spot and Ed even had time to go get Mickey Bars for everyone before the glittering parade turned the corner at Liberty Square and came into our completely unobstructed view.

This is most definitely my favorite parade at WDW! :cloud9:

On this magic night
A million stars will play beside us
Cast a spell of light
Glimmering, shimmering, carouseling
'Round the world tonight
A symphony in SpectoMagic
Pure enchantment lights the way...


As the final float eased past and the last strains of music disappeared, we gathered our things and began a slow walk out of the park. Main Street is always so beautiful when it’s lit up and tonight, with the added Christmas lights and decorations, it was absolutely stunning!

The OKW bus was filled to capacity tonight, :crowded: the first time that we had to stand all week! (Except for Aunt Rae) We were all tired, but happy that we had such a great time. We got home by 11:30 and everyone went to bed.

One more thing about having separate sleeping areas in the villas… it’s really nice to have for when you want to kiss and make up! :love2:

Kathy


Next Chapter: A space rescue for Billy and we wave good-bye to Eddie.
 
Great segment Kathy. We all love the MP also. Donald just cracks us up!! :rotfl:

My kids are walking around the house right now playing "Going to Disney". Trey just said he was at the Denver Airport :hug:

Anyway, Billy sounds like he had a great time. One thing Trey likes to do is when we get "home" from parks he doesn't want to leave again. He just wants to stay and play. We make him go to dinner every single night which he soons come to expect as part of the routine.
 
Linnie: :thanks: for your feedback; I really appreciate it! This report is probably a snoozer for most DISers, but I'm writing it mostly for the parents of kids like Billy and Trey...especially if they haven't been to WDW because they are afraid that their child will not do well there.


Not true!! :)
I'm not a mom (yet) and I have enjoyed reading this so much. I have no personal experience with autism, but your TR is so interesting to me, it makes me a little teary that WDW can bring your son out of his shell so much.
 

Hi Kathy :wave:

I just wanted to stop by and let you know that I've read up to page 5.

You're quite the planner - a TR that starts 7 months ahead of time :rotfl2:

I already feel like I know your family and I'm looking forward to reading about your trip and your adventures with autism. I must admit that I don't know a whole lot about that and appreciated some of the short explanations you gave throughout the pre-trip. I'm thinking you're a pretty special mom with a whole lot of patience. :goodvibes

I will try to catch up over the weekend - post ya soon! :thumbsup2
 
jess98ac: Thanks! If only I could get an annual trip to WDW as part of Billy's IEP (Individualized Education Plan)!! ;) I really appreciate your comments.

blue: Thank you. I'm not really that special...we all love our kids and try to do anything for them, right? I did start this report kind of early, didn't I? :rotfl: My family just got so annoyed with my constant blathering on and on that I felt that If I didn't get it out somehow that I would burst!

MDF: "Going to Disney" Hmmmm...I think I've played that game, myself lots of times.!:laughing:

Kathy
 
Day Seven: Sunday Morning. 11/12/06 EPCOT

We had all gone to bed late, so when I set the alarm the previous night, I thought that we could all do with an extra hour of sleep. Even so, we had big plans for today and so we could not afford to waste any more time lollygagging. We bustled about with what was now our natural routine of cold cereal and hot showers.

It was to be Eddie’s last day with us; that afternoon Ed would be taking him to the airport. :sad1: He needed to get back to school the next day. He was certain that missing even one day of his honors classes :teacher: would put him behind and, as it was, he still had homework to finish on the plane. “Where have the past two days gone?” I wondered as I watched him pack his carry-on bag.

Billy broke my train of thought. “We’re going to EPCOT, pleeeeese!” he begged for about the tenth time that morning. “First, we go to Soarin’, then we go to Test Track, pleeeeese!” That sounded like a good plan to me, so we headed to the bus stop.

It was about 9:30, but for once I didn’t stress about getting to the park. After all, we had stayed out until late last night and today an easy morning was more important to us than running around. It was cloudy and a bit cool, but the forecast called for sunny skies and a high of 75*, so we remained optimistic and left our ponchos behind.

The EPCOT bus arrived after about 10 minutes and we all climbed on board. Today would be the last day of Jersey Week, and I was hoping that we would see a smaller number of guests at the park. We were soon entering through the turnstiles.

It was difficult to tell if the crowd level had improved b/c our first attraction was the incredibly popular Soarin', which Aunt Rae had declared as her official favorite! :thumbsup2 It’s definitely my favorite, too. Well, at EPCOT anyway!

Tricia and I became really excited when we were directed to our row. Hooray! Top row, middle section for Eddie’s first flight ever! :cool1: We were gently lifted in the air and as the music swelled we again found ourselves gliding over land and sea. Two enthusiastic thumbs up from Eddie and we were off to Test Track!

Surprise! Test Track was down, :rolleyes: so I took the kids to Mission Space while Ed walked with AR to Spaceship Earth. Filled with anticipation, we approached the large red sphere representative of the planet Mars. This would be everyone’s first time on MS; we had always avoided it before because of fear of getting sick!

Now that the non-spinning option was available, I couldn’t wait to try it. Eddie, however, insisted that he did not want to do the “wimpy” Green version (“Hey, who are you calling a wimp!”) He decided to fly on the Orange Team on the singles queue. We were given either green or orange tickets and we entered the International Space Training Center.

We enjoyed looking at all the props in the pre-show area; Billy was particularly fascinated with the gigantic spinning wheel! :) Then the green and orange teams split into separate queues and I instructed Eddie to meet up with us at the Space Base playground.

The younger kids and I remained on the longer, slower moving Green queue. We eventually boarded our training vehicle and received our assignments. The autistic child was our designated pilot, so I knew it would be an interesting ride! :laughing: As soon as he was buckled in he began pressing every button within reach and pushing the joystick around wildly. Tricia said we would probably miss the planet Mars completely and wind up on Venus instead! :lmao: Well, I’m not sure how, but we passed our flight test and returned safely to Earth.

We exited toward the playground area and I was surprised that Eddie was not there waiting for us. Surely he would have been done by now; the orange queue was so much shorter that ours! :confused: Billy and Tricia ran over to the kid-sized hamster habitat and began crawling up inside while I asked a CM if this was the only play area. It was.

I looked over toward the Advanced Training Lab (video games), but he wasn’t there. Hmmm. I called his cell phone and just got his voice mail. Small groups of guests were exiting the ride. Another Hmmm. :scratchin Perhaps he loved the ride so much that he went on for a 2nd time. But, it wasn’t Eddie that I should have been worrying about…it was his little brother.

“Mom, Billy wouldn’t come down when I told him to, he just climbed up higher!” I whirled around to find Tricia standing there with her hands on her hips.

“Where’s your brother?” I asked, incredulously.
“Up there!” I followed her pointed finger up, up toward the highest level of the tunnel.
“Why did you leave him alone up there?” I sputtered.
“I just told you, he won’t come down! It’s not my fault!” She began to cry.
“Alright, alright, I’ll get him” I reassured her.

I stood under the maze and called up to him. “Billy! Billy, come down here!” but he couldn’t hear me above all the noise of the other children and the video games. I watched as his tail end disappeared down a hamster tunnel.

There was no way that I could climb up after him. I considered it for a fleeting moment, but the image of me getting wedged in one of those narrow tubes :eek: and then having to be extricated by a team of CMs gave me pause to reconsider. If only Eddie was here!

I cast my eyes about the play area, hoping that Eddie had finished and was looking for us. No such luck. Where WAS he? I checked my voice mail: no messages. I was considering my options when I began to hear Billy calling, “Daddy! Daddy!” from inside one of the tunnels. I could see that he was trying to back out and a clog of kids that had been climbing behind him was blocking his way. This looked like a job for :charac4: Super CM!

I grabbed Tricia and we sprinted over to a group of three male CMs who were standing together on the other side of the play area. “I need help! My 8 yr old son is autistic. He’s up in one of the tunnels and he can’t get himself out!” They immediately sprang into action, reassuring me and asking me to describe him and what he was wearing. The youngest (and thinnest) among them volunteered for the rescue mission and we hurried over to the maze.

Just then, Billy’s head popped out of the tunnel’s entrance. “Mommy!” he called out forlornly. “Daddy!” He stopped as soon as he saw the video games.

“Let’s play, Tricia”, he shouted, and they were off like a shot, the crisis completely forgotten. :blush: I thanked the CMs profusely and then hurried off after them.

I stood close by while the kids tried to help their virtual astronauts walk on the surface of Mars. Remember way back when I told you that Billy sometimes likes to watch his DVDs in foriegn languages? Well, he suddenly reached out and pressed one of the language control buttons. Billy was thrilled, but Tricia was exasperated because now the two of them had to figure out how to play the game in French.

Someone tapped me on the shoulder.

“Hey!” said Eddie.
“Where have you been?” I exclaimed. “I really needed you!”

Turns out that the orange ride had broken down for a while and he was stuck waiting on the other side of the building. I filled him in on our mishap in the play area; then Eddie told me about his ride: “ It was Sweeeet!”

Just then, we had a call from Ed. They were waiting for us outside! The kids abandoned their game and we met up with the others.

Test Track was up again, :car: so we all went next door to ride. Well, all of us except Aunt Rae (even though all three kids begged her.) She opted to sit in the shade and people-watch. It did appear to be somewhat less crowded today, but there were still lots of guests milling about for her viewing pleasure.

We put our car through its simulated tests, ending with that wonderful, rapid acceleration through banked turns at 65 mph with the wind in our faces! :woohoo: Billy loves this ride so much that I snuck off to the gift shop and bought him a TT play set for Christmas and had it mailed home. The set included a Test Track car and Mickey and Goofy in racing clothes!

By this time all we were ready for lunch. Since we wanted to stay in FW for a while longer, we ate at the Electric Umbrella for the convenience rather than the food. All the tables outside were full, so we found one indoors. This place always seems to get a bad rap, but the burgers were fine as far as the kids were concerned, and I had a turkey sandwich that was good. Besides, I like listening to the soaring, futuristic soundtrack!

We had about an hour or so before we had to head back to OKW, so we decided to go play in Innoventions West. We started with Where's the Fire?, an interactive game that pits two teams of about a dozen against each other to see which one could find the most fire safety hazards in the game house. It was a lot of fun! Ed, Billy, and I were on one team and Eddie, Tricia, and Aunt Rae were on the other. We moved from room to room, zapping fire hazards with our special laser gun. My team won! :cheer2:

:firefight We admired the shiny red fire engine parked outside the exhibit and then watched as the three kids played Play It Safe with some other children. After brief instructions from the CM regarding the safe way to evacuate a room/house in the event of a fire, the kids all got to practice as the CM flipped a switch and a swirling light representing a fire appeared in various places in the “house”.

Billy must have been tired b/c he just wanted to lie down on the bed and rest! Eddie helped him to crawl safely out of the house, keeping low to avoid the smoke, and to meet up in a designated “family meeting place” with Tricia and the other kids. They liked this so much that they did it again!

The rest of Innoventions was a blur of various other hands-on exhibits and virtual reality games that we all took turns either playing or watching each other play. :hourglass The hour went by quickly and we soon were forced to accept the fact that it was time to go.

We left the exhibit and walked past the whirligigs and spinners, then past Spaceship Earth and the Leave a Legacy Monuments, and finally, out of the park.

We trudged down the long walkway to the resort buses, feeling sad that our time with Eddie was ending. Eddie could hardly walk b/c Tricia and Billy were literally hanging all over him.

We waited for the OKW bus and the longer we waited, the more anxious Ed became. :worried: The thought of Eddie missing his flight was giving him agita and he paced back and forth like a caged tiger. There was a line of taxicabs parked beyond the bus stop and he made a quick decision to grab one for himself and Eddie. There was one last round of :love1: and they were gone.

Billy was unhappy. “Daddy! Eddie!” he called out over and over. :sad1: Tricia distracted him by grabbing his hands and dancing with him to the piped in music while we waited.

Our bus finally arrived and perhaps since it was only 3:30, we were the only ones on board as we rumbled back to OKW for our break.

Next Chapter: Tricia gets Bibbity-Bobbity-Beautiful and we STWD at Downtown Disney.


Kathy
 
I'm sorry... I just had to laugh at the image of Billy trapped in the hamster tunnels :upsidedow I've totally been there with my very sweet but VERY energetic adhd sons. It's not that funny in the moment but after the fact? :rotfl:

It must have been so hard to say goodbye Eddie :grouphug: It was really nice to read about your travels through Epcot... I know so little about that park. Looking forward to more! Thank you for sharing your travels.
 
This is why it's important to read as many trip reports as possible: You learn something new!

I had no idea that Mission Mars now had a "Non-spin" version! That is awesome. I rode it when it first opened with my sister and I was sick as a dog for the rest of the day. Since then, nobody in my family will ride it.

I also didn't know about the giant hamster habitat. Where is that? My kids love those tubes.

Thanks Kathy.
 
This is why it's important to read as many trip reports as possible: You learn something new!

I had no idea that Mission Mars now had a "Non-spin" version! That is awesome. I rode it when it first opened with my sister and I was sick as a dog for the rest of the day. Since then, nobody in my family will ride it.

I also didn't know about the giant hamster habitat. Where is that? My kids love those tubes.

Thanks Kathy.

MDF: The Space Base Playground was right there in the building as we exited the ride. The tunnels were actually a lot of fun for the children. Just don't accidentaly let your kids go in through the out door as I did! :rolleyes1 There are games for older kids, too.

Kathy
 
I'm sorry... I just had to laugh at the image of Billy trapped in the hamster tunnels :upsidedow I've totally been there with my very sweet but VERY energetic adhd sons. It's not that funny in the moment but after the fact? :rotfl: l


Marion: Well now, if I was a size 4 and could climb in after him I wouldn't have been in such a pickle! Thanks for reading...

Kathy
 
Kathy - I just read through your whole pre trip and trip report and have enjoyed it all! I especially loved the part with you describing the conversation with everyone deciding what to eat (fries!).

Your writing style is just funny and witty and wonderful and I look forward to the rest. You are also a very loving stepmother - how lucky your DSS is to have you!

A question for you - we get a GAC for my DH and have for a few years now. We have said the same as you: we'd give up everything to not NEED it, but since we have it, we love it. How often do you use it? Do you still use FP? And do you turn around and ride again right after you finish? We generally don't do that, but I am curious as to what other people with the GAC's do.

Thanks!
 
A question for you - we get a GAC for my DH and have for a few years now. We have said the same as you: we'd give up everything to not NEED it, but since we have it, we love it. How often do you use it? Do you still use FP? And do you turn around and ride again right after you finish? We generally don't do that, but I am curious as to what other people with the GAC's do.
Thanks!

slk537: Thank you for your very kind words! :goodvibes I'm glad that you and your DH have discovered how accommodating WDW can be for those with disabilities/challenges.

Well, as far as using the GAC...it varies! Sometimes the standby wait is managable, in which case we just do standby. If it is not too crowded, we sometimes go an entire day without using it once. :cool1: (Like our first trip in mid-Septemer of '03...we only used it on the last day, Saturday!)

This last trip it was a bit more crowded because of Jersey Week/Veteran's Day/F&WF, so I found that we used it more. Generally, if the posted wait is 30 min or more, we will consider using the GAC.

Our family has become used to Billy's inappropriate/loud/never-ending scripting and noise that he makes when stimming, but even we can get irritated after a while. I doubt the people standing around us would enjoy hearing them for half an hour! :rolleyes:

The accommodations specified on his GAC are only available at attractions that offer alternate queue, in other words, FP attractions. For all the other attractions, we are in the same boat as everyone else!

Of course, if Billy is not riding, the other family members use FPs. Like the morning we went to DS and the older kids wanted a 2nd ride on R&RC....we got 2 FPs for them, we all rode R&RC standby, rode ToT with GAC, then Eddie and Tricia used their FPs for another ride on R&RC while I took Billy over to Playhouse Disney.

Sounds more complicated than it really is...

Thanks again,

Kathy
 
Day Seven: Sunday Evening, 11/11/06: Downtown Disney


Aunt Rae, the kids, and I returned to the villa for a little rest. I didn’t even want to attempt a nap. We had to leave in about an hour to make Tricia’s 5:30 appointment at the Bibbity-Bobbity-Boutique in Downtown Disney.

Tricia had been looking forward to this for a long time, ever since she first learned about the BBB, really. We need to focus so much of our attention on Billy because of his autism; I wanted to do something special just for her! princess:

Billy asked for another whirlpool bath. Besides being just plain old fun for him, it was a great way for him to unwind and decompress from the excitement he had today. I put him in the tub, this time being sure to put the bottle of bubble bath away! :laughing: He was having so much fun that Tricia asked if she could go in, too! The tub certainly was large enough, so I said yes.

AR was resting on the couch and I put my feet up and relaxed on the bed with the “window” open so I could hear the kids in the tub. They splashed around and played with the bubbles for about half an hour. “Ho! Ho! Ho! Merry Christmas!” I knew Billy was covering the lower part of his face with bubbles and pretending to be Santa Claus! :santa:

Eventually they had to finish playing and shower off. It was easy to get Tricia out of the tub; she was excited about going to BBB! Billy needed more coaxing. As Tricia showered, I pulled the plug and the water slowly drained out of the tub. Billy still didn’t want to come out. “No! No! Bubble bath, pleeeese!” He lay on his tummy on the bottom of the empty tub and “swam” in the few remaining bubbles until he finally gave up and climbed out!

We were cutting it close as we walked downstairs and out to the bus stop. It was already after 4:45 and we hadn’t even left the resort. We really wanted to take the boat to DD, but I made everyone agree that if the DD bus showed up first, we would bag that idea and just take the bus straight over. Tricia grinned when the first bus arrived and we could see that it was for one of the parks. We road the bus to the HH and then walked to the marina and waited for the boat.

It was a pleasant little ride, and a nice change from the buses we had been riding all week, but I found myself fidgeting as we slowly, slowly made our way to DD. :worried: Aunt Rae was able to see a bit of our home resort, Saratoga Springs, as we stopped to pick up some more passengers. (We stayed there last year.) To the right was Downtown Disney!

The sun was just setting and the neon signs and twinkling lights on the shops and restaurants were just beginning to shine across the water. We disembarked at the Marketplace and slowly worked our way over to the World of Disney. The store was filled with shoppers and when we realized that the BBB was on the other end of the store, we all just took a deep breath and plunged into the fray!

I checked us in at exactly 5:29!! We breathed a collective sigh of relief. Tricia was introduced to her "Fairy Godmother-in-Training and led to her throne (chair). We laughed when we found out that she was originally from N.J.! In fact many of the Fairy Godmothers were from Jersey! We talked a bit about the number of guests who were down this week, the weather, etc., but then we had more important things to discuss.

Tricia had been debating all week about which of the three hairstyles to choose and, after seeing them on several girls in the parks this past week, had decided upon the Princess style, with a small tiara. Her FGIT clinched the deal when she informed Tricia that it was the style that most of the “older” girls chose! :thumbsup2

There were some little girls, about 5 or 6 yrs old, who were getting the whole package: hair, make-up, nails, and princess costumes, complete with shoes. “Oh, aren’t they cute?” Tricia cooed. :hourglass It really wasn’t so long ago that she was the one playing dress-up and choosing Cinderella or Sleeping Beauty for a Halloween costume! Now she was into this experience more for the pampering than for the princesses.

Nevertheless, that didn’t stop her from issuing her first royal command: “Mom! Take a “before” picture and an “after” picture, okay?”

Aunt Rae and I tried to hide our smiles as we listened to Tricia chattering away with her FGIT about school, friends, and fashion while her hair was given an up-do and the little tiara was carefully placed atop her head. She smiled every time her FGIT addressed her as “m’lady”. :cloud9: She was enjoying being treated like a royal pre-teen.

“It’s 'tween, Mom, not pre-teen!” she would probably say.

Let me rephrase that. She was enjoying being treated like a royal 'tween. ;)

Her brother, on the other hand, was acting like a royal pain! Understandably, he was bored with all this frou-frou girly stuff and wanted to go look at toys and DVDs. :hyper: He squirmed and fidgeted as I held onto him to keep him from running away. Thankfully, Ed came along just in time!

“How do I look so far, Daddy?” she beamed, eyelashes fluttering as her FGIT applied a pastel eyeshadow. He paused a moment to look at his daughter, smiled, and said, “You look beautiful”. Then he rolled his eyes at me, as if to say, “I can’t believe she’s growing up so fast” :sad2: Poor Daddy! He couldn't take it! He led Billy out into the store while we finished in the Boutique.

Tricia’s magical transformation was soon complete! Glittering "jewels" were pressed onto her ears and cheeks and a pink BBB sash was slipped over her head and across her body, tied at the hip. Her FGIT waved a wand and Tricia was covered in little sparkles. pixiedust: She was handed an elaborate mirror so she could admire herself; then a photographer took pictures of her with her FGIT. She was just beautiful! :angel:

Gosh, I wish I could bring myself to post those pictures! I know how everyone loves pics and there are so many that I would love to share. I’m just a bit paranoid about posting pictures of my children anywhere on the Internet. :worried: That’s why I’ve just have to make do with an over-use of smilies!

We finished up and joined the rest of the eager shoppers in World of Disney. Aunt Rae picked out presents for her cousin and nephew, and chose some cute refrigerator magnets for herself. I scooped up the Official WDW CD and the SpectroMagic CD, so I could listen to park music when we had returned home and was feeling lonesome for the World. :music: (Billy has asked for the SpectroMagic CD in the van almost every day since then; so I now know it by heart!)

It was not our hearts, but rather, our stomachs that were now talking! “Dinner time! It’s dinner time”, Billy announced. He was right! ::yes:: We emerged from the store and stepped out into the Marketplace. This weekend had been Festival of the Masters and we passed some incredible chalk art on the sidewalks. The booths and carts that must have held some of the artists’ work were all covered up, though, so there was nothing to be seen there.

We wanted to try Wolfgang Puck Express for the first time, so we walked over toward the Disney Days of Christmas store and found WPE tucked around the corner. We looked over the menu that was posted above and I took orders from everyone. Then Ed took AR and Billy outside to find a table.

When it came our turn to order, the apologetic CM behind the counter informed me that the meatloaf Ed had wanted was excluded from the dining plan. :confused: I did not want to hold up the line, so I quickly chose some pasta dish that I thought he might like. Its one thing to have to quickly change your own dinner order, its quite another thing to have to quickly choose an alternate for someone else! Talk about pressure!

I looked over to find Tricia filling up our cups with sodas from the fountain. We carried our drinks outside and soon spotted the others. It was beginning to get a bit cool, but it was still a lovely night. We all took out our sweatshirts and put them on. Then we settled into our chairs to wait for our dinners.

It wasn’t long before the waiter came with the food. The portions were HUGE! There was enough pasta on my plate to feed two truck drivers and Aunt Rae just stared at her plate of rotisserie chicken. :eek: It was supposed to be half a chicken; it looked more like half a turkey!

Ed was mildly put out. “I was really in the mood for meatloaf!” But, he apparently got over it b/c he was soon digging into his pasta! I forget what it was, exactly, but I think it had artichokes in it. I remember that’s why I chose it; he likes artichokes. The kids had the four-cheese pizza. Billy wolfed his down but Tricia was less than thrilled with hers. I think she’s a regular-plain-cheese-pizza kind of gal!

We were all too stuffed to eat any dessert, so we took them “to go.” We chose giant cookies for the kids and crème brulee for the adults. I found myself wishing that we could have them sent back to the resort just like our other merchandise! We carefully packed them away and, after a quick restroom stop, regrouped and planned our next move.

I wanted to go next door to the Christmas store, but I was outvoted! Grinches! We strolled over to Once Upon a Toy instead. That was fine, too. I was on a mission for one of my sisters. She was giving the Mickey Mouse Clubhouse play set to my nephew and wanted to know if there were any figures available to add to the set. I searched high and low, but none were to be found.

A CM told me she didn’t think they were available yet. :( Bummer! I did some discrete Christmas shopping of my own while Ed distracted the kids; and had all the goodies shipped home. It was getting pretty crowded in there, so we left.

Right in front of us was Disney's Pin Traders. :woohoo: Tricia and I practically ran over, leaving the others in our (pixie) dust! We eagerly searched through hundreds of pins and began the agonizing process of trying to choose just a few from the tempting array of choices!

Each trip Tricia likes to choose a “theme” for her pins. Last year, it was Minnie dressed as all the different princesses. This year, it was Disney Cuties. I don’t collect by theme; I just get whatever appeals to me. I spied one pin that seemed particularly appropriate: a pin that stated, “I’m with Grumpy!” I showed it to Ed and he countered by picking up the matching Grumpy pin that said, “I’m with Dopey!” and promised to get it if I got the Dopey. Fine with me, he doesn’t wear his pins anyway!

BTW, why does the Grumpy pin proclaim, “I’m with Dopey"? Judging from the amount of Grumpy tee shirts, coffee mugs and hats that are available for purchase, there are obviously many Disney men out there who identify with the Grumpy character. So why do all of us women have to be identified with Dopey just because we love our grumpy men? Why can’t we have Grumpy say, “I’m with Happy” or, better yet, “I’m with the lovely and beautiful Snow White,” hmm? ;) That makes perfect sense to me!

Anyway, after about a half hour my own Grumpy began urging us to wrap it up and move on. I made my selections and while Tricia was over with her dad, quickly picked out a couple of the pins that she couldn’t get because she was “over her limit” and brought them to the cashier.

"I’ll slip them into her Christmas stocking”, I thought. I looked over at Ed showing a few pins to Tricia, who nodded and then looked over at me a few times with a big grin on her face. They moved over toward another cashier. Tee-hee-hee! I knew what was going to be in my stocking!! :teeth:

From here we decided to go back to the WOD store. I picked out a light blue Year of a Million Dreams hoodie for myself, a POC tee shirt for Eddie, and, what else? A Grumpy tee shirt for Ed! Last year, Tricia got a plush “baby princess” Belle doll and she wanted some more dolls so Belle would not be lonely! She added Cinderella and Jasmine to her collection. All Billy wanted, naturally, was more DVDs, so he chose Mickey Mouse Clubhouse: Mickey Saves Santa and the Christmas at WDW DVD. (Oooh! I’ll definitely be watching that one!)

It was getting late and we wanted to wake up early for the Magic Kingdom tomorrow, so we tore ourselves away from material temptations and started on our way back to the resort. We got about as far as Goofy's Candy Co.

Now, we had been eating breakfast every day in the villa. Then we would eat so well the rest of the day on the dining plan that we had lots of unused snack credits left. “Thirty-two to be exact”, the cashier informed me when I asked him to scan my card. We went wild! :goofy:

Each person picked his or her favorites as we gleefully tried to spend down our credits. Cotton candy, candied apples, rock candy, rice krispie treats, caramel corn, and not one, but three varieties of fudge! You know that expression, “like kids in a candy store?” Well, as Goofy himself would say, “Gawrsh!” Everyone had a little “taste”, and then we left the store laden with about a dozen little white boxes.

By now it was 9:45 and, though I dearly wanted to go to the Disney Days of Christmas store, I knew that we had to get the kids to bed soon. It had been a long day. Ed consoled me by pointing out that there was a Christmas shop in the Magic Kingdom, and that I could shop there tomorrow. :hug:

We waited for about 10 minutes for the OKW bus and soon we were back “home”. We unpacked our things and I got the kids ready for bed.

They begged for more candy, but it was much too late and I knew they would be bouncing off the walls if they had all that sugar. They had to settle for brushing their teeth with mint-flavored toothpaste instead! :rotfl: I tucked them in and gathered up some clothes to put in the wash.

When I finally came into the bedroom, I found Ed relaxing on the bed, watching TV and….eating candy! Well, I figured we were so tired that a little thing like pure sugar wasn’t going to keep us from falling asleep, so I joined him! (Sometimes it’s good to be the parent!) We nibbled on candy until his show was over and then turned in for the night. Tomorrow would be our last full day at WDW. :sad1:

Next Chapter: Tricia becomes a gold mine, Billy does the Hokey-Pokey, and we finally come face to face with the Big Cheese.

Kathy
 
Wow, three new installments...I'm in heaven!! :cloud9:

What a wonderful break from listening to the sad Sunday news! I popped on to catch up on my emails to find new posts! Now I'm sipping my third cup of coffee in my robe dreaming of our first trip!

I can't believe how excited I am about this vacation, thanks to reading these delightful trip reports!

I'm actually now planning our second trip in October and we haven't even left for trip one yet!
 
SueM in MN: I've learned so much from you and the others on the DISability board...thanks! There is no other place on Earth that is as accommodating as WDW...aren't the CM's terrific?

Kathy
If you don't mind, I would like to put a link to your trip report in the disABILITIES FAQs thread, with the link we already have to a past thread about autism. That way, it will be 'findable' for people who might benefit from reading it after it disappears from the front pages of this board.
 
Day Eight: Monday Morning. 11/13/06 Magic Kingdom


Well, I was right about one thing. That late night candy didn’t keep Ed and me from falling asleep that night, not one little bit! In the morning I came out into the kitchen and found Aunt Rae already putting the water on for coffee and tea, so I went into the laundry room and put the clothes from last night’s wash into the dryer. Then I put in another load. We would be leaving tomorrow and I had almost forgotten about our broken clothes dryer at home! I wanted to come home with as little dirty laundry as possible! :laundy:

Ed returned from his run and reported that, even at that hour, it felt a bit humid outside. The Weather channel predicted another warm, sunny day so we donned tee shirts and shorts. Since it was our last full day, we decided to go out with a bang and wear our red "Jersey" shirts one last time.

Our plan for our Magic Kingdom morning was to do our favorites, plus anything we had not had the chance to do earlier. I was glad that it was warm b/c Splash Mountain was definitely on the list for the kids and me! In our backpacks we carried extra shirts and I brought along two hand towels, as well!

Once more, we found ourselves arriving at the park just minutes after opening. One of these years, I vow, we WILL be one of those families that arrives bright and early to be the first ones at rope drop!

We decided to revisit a few of our favorites in FantasyLand, and our first stop was Winnie the Pooh! We followed the silly old bear through his colorful storybook and I congratulated myself for resisting the seemingly inescapable gift shop once more.

Next, we flew with Peter Pan and then hopped across to IASW for another whimsical trip around the world. So far, everything was practically a walk-on. Over Tricia’s objections (“Not again!”), we put on our :3dglasses opera glasses one more time for MP. (“Well, it’s Favorites Day and it’s Billy’s favorite!”) We made it up to her by letting her have another spin with Billy on the Teacups before heading to Mickey's ToonTown Fair, which we had yet to visit.

The first thing the kids wanted to do was Goofy's Barnstormer. I hinted that they were perhaps getting too big for this kiddie coaster, but they clamored to go on so I agreed to go with them. Meanwhile, Ed and Aunt Rae bought some fruit at the little farmer’s market and sat down to wait for us.

The wait was about 10 minutes (for a 1- minute ride!) At least the barnyard props in the queue were really cute! When we were done, Tricia reluctantly admitted that she was, indeed, getting too old for this ride. Now that she and Billy are able to ride Space Mountain and R&RC, this will probably be our last time on the Barnstormer. Well… until I’m a grandmother, that is!

We sampled a bit of the fruit as we walked over to Minnie's House, which was decorated for the holidays with pink and white lights. I wished we could see it at night! We toured Minnie’s house, taking lots of time to look at all the details. Minnie is really a very multi-talented mouse! Fortunately, it was not very crowded, so we could see everything we wanted. The house had little touches of Christmas everywhere, and we noted lots of presents for Mickey under her tree! We strolled through her garden and out the gate in the white picket fence with cute little heart cutouts.

Our next stop was Mickey's House. Mickey had his tree up, too. We laughed at all the little sight gags, especially the mess that Goofy and Donald made in the kitchen! We took the path out into the garden and Tricia showed AR all the Mickey-shaped vegetables.

There was a bit of a wait for Mickey in the Judge's Tent, but we had not really had the chance to see him as yet, so we decided to get in line. It wasn’t too bad. Vintage black and white Mickey cartoons were playing on a large screen and it helped to entertain the kids, both big and little, while we waited. The nice thing about this particular meet and greet is that each group is given a private audience with Mickey, so it’s worth it.

When our turn came, Mickey gave us lots of hugs and we were able to take as many pictures as we wanted. The photopass photographer was taking pictures as well. If only Billy hadn’t become so character shy all of a sudden! Once again, all we had to do was explain to the character that Billy was autistic and the CM “inside” did his (or her!) very best to put Billy at ease and to help make it the best experience possible. ::MickeyMo

We said good-bye to Mickey and we mosey-ed on over to the RR Station so we could catch the next train. We made a slow half-circle around to the other side of the park and enjoyed a scenic tour of Tomorrowland, the Main St. Station, and part of Adventureland before finally disembarking at the Frontierland Station. I would say that the entire journey took about 10-15 minutes.

Lively fiddle music greeted us as we walked across the platform and descended the wooden stairs to the red earth below. Walking into FrontierLand always feels like you’ve wandered onto the set of a Hollywood Western! We still had a little time before lunch, so I took the kids over to Big Thunder while Ed accompanied Aunt Rae on a paddleboat ride along the Rivers of America.

We made our way around the queue, through remnants of the old abandoned mining town. The last time we rode BTMRR, it was in the dark. Riding in the dark is pretty cool in its own way, but the daylight allowed us a better opportunity to see all of the amazing prop details.

We queued up into our little “stalls” and awaited the arrival of our train. Suddenly, a woman walking past said, “Oh, you’re on the DisBoards!” I whirled around. Someone had FINALLY noticed the large LGMH tags that I had been wearing on my backpack for the entire week! One person in one whole week! And I didn’t even get to talk to her b/c she was being herded to the other end of the train. Oh, well! Better luck meeting DISers next time. I guess I should have been wearing lime green instead of red!

Tricia was excited for me, though. “Mommy that person is from The Dis, too!” She said it as though we were both visitors from a strange, far off land who happened to meet unexpectedly while traveling abroad. Perhaps it’s no small coincidence that the actual name of that paint color is Alien Green!

We held on tight as we rode the coaster through the Wild West. It was exhilarating, as usual, and I was impressed when I saw Tricia dare to lift both hands in the air on some of the turns! We would have gone again, but, it was time for lunch and I wanted to maintain our pattern of eating early to avoid the crowds. :thumbsup2

Ed and Aunt Rae were waiting for us at the exit. AR had enjoyed the paddleboat ride very much. We walked toward the main street of the Old West town, only to discover that the Woody's Cowboy Camp show was just ending. Oh no! I really wanted to see this show, especially since Billy really likes the Toy Story 2 characters. (At this point in time, the show was a brand-new live entertainment offering and the Times Guide only listed show times as “Intermittently throughout the day.”) I don’t know if that has changed since then.

Billy called out, “Woody! Jessie!” but the characters were all waving good-bye and leaving the area, so he became upset. Aunt Rae sprung into action! Her special little boy was not going to miss the show if she could help it! She marched right up to one of the CM performers and asked him what time the next show would be given! “In about 45 minutes, Ma’m!” was the answer. Good work, Aunt Rae! We have just enough time for lunch at Pecos Bill's before the next show!

Once again, we split the mealtime “chores”. Ed took Billy and AR to find a quiet table, while Tricia and I rustled up the grub. It took us a little while to find them; the seating area is as spread out as a cattle range! We found them at last and we settled in to eat.

Aunt Rae declared that if she ate one more chicken Caesar salad, she was going to start clucking! I suppose the surroundings gave her a hankering for some beef, because she chose a burger, minus the bun. (She can do that b/c she’s not allergic to gluten, just intolerant.) She’s been able to eat wonderfully at the TS restaurants, but CS has had a much narrower selection from which to choose. Fresh lettuce and tomato from the fixin’s bar rounded out her platter.

Ed had the BBQ pork sandwich, which he said was delicious. Tricia played it safe with a cheeseburger meal, while I was more than happy with a tasty chicken wrap sandwich.

The only one who we couldn’t find anything for was the Billy. There were no chicken fingers on the menu, just grilled chicken strips, which I knew my rigid eater would not even look at. I didn’t want to waste the CS credit, so he just shared fries from everyone’s meal and we got him a bottle of water. Oh well, there was food in the fridge at OKW if he was still hungry later. The meals all came with some juicy red grapes, which made a nice alternative to the fries. I tried to get Billy to eat some, but he just made a face and spat them out. It’s a good thing that young’un will eat his vitamins!

We needed to get done in time for Woody’s Cowboy Camp, so we tried our best not to linger over our food. Everyone was finished in about a half-hour, a speed-eating record for us on this trip! ;) (Sorry, Aunt Rae, I’ll be good!)

We ventured outdoors and squinted into the bright sunlight. We began to stake out a good viewing spot along the street. :sunny: The sun was high in the sky, so there wasn’t much shade to be found. We settled upon what seemed to be a good vantage point, but soon had to abandon it when a man began feeding french fries to several long-legged birds. That was not a good idea. :sad2:

Soon a small flock gathered around and they began fighting for the food, flapping their expansive wings and squawking loudly. (“Mine! Mine! Mine!”) Billy became agitated and fearful, so we moved further down the street and stood anxiously awaiting the show while trying to reassure him that he was safe. Billy held on tight to his dad, furtively glancing back at the birds and staying on guard lest they try to flank him.

Billy has a bit of a history when it comes to the birds and french fries at the Magic Kingdom….

It was September of 2003, on our first WDW vacation. Tricia was seven and Billy was five. We had arrived at the MK rather late in the day on a Saturday and slowly made our our very first walk :cloud9: up crowded Main Street toward the Castle. After the initial wave of awe and wonderment passed over us, we realized that it was dinnertime and our only lunch had been a turkey sandwich the size of a dinner roll that we had eaten hours ago on the plane.

We decided that Casey's Corner was as good a place as any, so we found a little outdoor table and began to eat our hot dogs, gazing in absolute amazement at the Castle and trying to absorb the fact that we were really, really here at last! Billy was not as verbal as he is now, but he was certainly as rigid with his food. He was happily eating his fries while we were busy talking about the evening to come.

There were numerous birds around: some ducks, some seagulls, and some of those long-legged white birds (are they small cranes?), that were swimming in the water nearby and strutting around, in and about the little tables, looking for scraps of food. A sign, clearly posted, read: Please Do Not Feed The Birds.

As if in a bad dream, I watched as a duck suddenly waddled up to where Billy was sitting, his hand dangling down with a french fry in his fingers, his attention momentarily drawn to something in the distance. He let out a blood-curdling scream as the duck nipped the food out of his hand! :eek: His scream, in turn, caused many of the surrounding birds to fly upward, wings flapping and making a general commotion, startling him even further.

Talk about the magic spell being broken!

It took us a long, long time to calm him down after that. And he has been afraid of any and all birds that come near him ever since, especially the birds at WDW.

The birds were momentarily forgotten as the announcer proclaimed that Woody's Cowboy Camp would soon be rolling into town! Western music blared as a horse-drawn wagon led Woody, Jessie, Bullseye, and a group of brightly costumed cowboys and cowgirls as they sang and danced their way up the street. They stopped right in front of us!

They sang a rousing greeting to the crowd, “Hey, Howdy, Hey!” and everyone clapped and cheered. We formed a large circle around the performers and the characters walked around for a moment, waving and giving high-fives. (Or in Bullseye’s case, high-hooves.)

The members of Woody’s two-steppin’ posse then went among the crowd looking for kids to help out with the next number, “She’ll Be Comin’ 'Round the Mountain.” Tricia and Billy were chosen, but Billy didn’t want to leave us, so only Tricia went over to the wagon with the others. We explained to the cowboy that Billy was autistic and might not be able to participate, anyway. He understood and said, “I’ll come back later, pardner!”

The younger kids were given hobby-horses and the older kids were given special prop hats. Their job was to play the part of mountains and other obstacles for the little ones to ride around. Tricia was given the part of an old mine. We all sang along as the little ones rode their horses in and out between the older ones. It was really cute! :cutie: Naturally, all this was accompanied by a whole lot of stompin’ and whoopin’ and hollerin’ from the cowfolk.

When the song was done, the kids returned to their places and we were all introduced to a “newfangled dance” called the Hokey-Pokey! Billy began jumping up and down excitedly. He knew the dance from school! :dance3: The same cowboy from before came back and started doing the Hokey-Pokey with us. Billy was laughing and dancing and having such an obviously good time that he attracted the attention of one of the pretty cowgirls. She came over and, surprise! Billy reached out to her and said, “Let’s dance!” She was able to keep him engaged and focused throughout the entire dance! :woohoo:

It was time for the troupe to leave. The cowboy and cowgirl praised Billy for doing such a good job with his cowboy dance. I told them that Billy really liked Woody and had even dressed up as Woody for Halloween. When the cowboy heard that, he brought Woody over to say hello! Billy was thrilled and gave him a big hug! :hug:

Those CMs made that one little show such a wonderful experience for both the kids, but especially for Billy. Once they realized that he might not be able to participate in a group with the other children, they made it a point to seek him out and to include him in the fun. It became one of my favorite memories of the entire trip!

Having stood in the hot sun for a while, we were ready to sit somewhere cool and dark. We hadn’t been over to the Enchanted Tiki Room yet, so we cut through the passageway from Frontierland into Adventureland and went to go visit with the Tiki Birds.

Billy skipped and pulled his daddy along as we approached the exotic looking building. There was a short wait and then the little pre-show with Iago and Zazu entertained us in the queue. When the doors opened, we filed inside and found seats on one of the middle benches.

As soon as the music started, Billy started laughing and flapping his arms wildly as all the colorful audioanimatronic birds and flowers began to sing. There is so much to look at in this show! He must have the song memorized, b/c he stood up and looked around expectantly just before Iago appeared to interrupt the song. When the obnoxious bird made his entrance in a big puff of smoke, Billy sat down, threw his head back, and laughed until,again, the tears came down his face! :lmao: We couldn’t help but walk out of there wearing smiles on our own!

There was time for one last attraction before we had to leave the MK, and we decided to go out with a Bang! Uh, I mean Splash!

AR and Ed were definitely NOT interested in getting wet, so they took off to find some more of the sugared almonds while the kids and I walked quickly to the Splash Mountain entrance.

Just as we were about to enter the FP queue with the GAC, Billy balked. “NO! Go with Daddy!” I was really puzzled. Billy had been on SM before and loved it. I reminded him about the big splash and sang some of the song to help him remember, but he still said, “No!” We moved to the side and I called Ed on the cell phone and asked him to come pick up Billy so Tricia and I could go by ourselves. He soon appeared, looking as puzzled as I was.

“Hey, Buddy, you love Splash. What’s the matter?”
“Go with Daddy”, he repeated. “Go with Daddy.”
We shrugged our shoulders; we just couldn’t figure it out. :confused3

Now, this left Tricia and me in a bit of a pickle. Without Billy we obviously couldn’t use the GAC, we would need to use the standby queue, which by this time of day would be at least 40 minutes. We didn’t have FPs and we didn’t have 40 minutes. When I suggested that there would not be time, Tricia became upset. She really wanted to do Splash. :sad: When the tears began to flow, Ed told us to just hurry up and go. Even Grumpy didn’t want to end our last MK day on a sour note.

As the two of us began walking up the standby queue, the rest of the family turned to leave. Suddenly, Billy broke free and ran to us.

“I want Splash Mountain. Go with Mommy!”
What the…? Ed and I looked at each other.
“Billy, come here!” Ed said, taking him by the arm.
“No! No! Go with Mommy!”
“Fine, then go!” Ed said.

I took Billy by one hand and Tricia by the other and did a U-turn out of the standby queue and into the FP queue. The young CM who had witnessed this entire scene gave me a bemused look. Hey, kid, someday you’ll be a parent, I laughed silently.

We followed the winding queue until we reached the tail end of the line. Tricia was bouncing all around and talking a mile a minute as we inched closer to the loading area. There were no further protests from Billy, so we eagerly boarded our log and prepared to enjoy the ride.

The kids sat together and I sat behind them so I could keep my eye on the both of them. Just as we took off, Billy began to call softly, “Daddy! Daddy!” Oh no! :( I’m one of those terrible parents who forced her child on a ride when he was afraid!

We emerged into the light and gently floated on our way. Suddenly, from out of nowhere, a wave of water washed over us and we were completely drenched! The trip had barely begun and already we were soaked! We were in shock for a moment and then the entire log burst out in shrieks and laughter!

“We got wet”, Billy observed simply.

We settled back and began to gaze about us as the colorful characters from “Song of the South” cavorted along the river. My heart sunk as I heard a plaintive, “Daddy! Daddy!” coming from the front seat.

Tricia and I did our best to reassure him, but I felt completely helpless as I reached out and patted his shoulders and wondered why :confused: all of a sudden he was acting afraid on a ride that he had always loved riding before…loved riding before…with his Daddy!

“Go with Daddy!” :idea: He wasn’t afraid! He just wanted to go with Daddy on the ride! Ugh! I can’t believe that I missed that! He and Daddy always rode the big rides together, and this time it was different! He wasn’t supposed to be sitting with Tricia; in his mind he was supposed to be sitting with his daddy!

I was so focused on Billy that I hadn’t been paying much attention to Brer Rabbit and his pursuers. The gentle part of the ride was over! We started up, up the incline and Billy excitedly began to call out, “Here comes the splash! Here comes the splash!” and suddenly we were hurtling toward the briar patch!!

I didn’t think we could get much wetter but, oh yes, we could! Laughing, we all climbed out and dripped our way through the gift shop and then outside to meet the others. They chuckled when they saw how wet we were. :rotfl: Billy ran over to Ed. “Let’s do it again! Go with Daddy!” Too bad there wasn’t time, I would have enjoyed seeing him get drenched!

Tricia and I ducked into the ladies’ room to change into dry shirts while Ed took care of Billy’s. Our shorts were still wet, though, and I regretted not wearing ponchos like we had always done in the past!

We made our way back through Frontierland and stopped in Liberty Square I wasn’t about to let Ed forget his promise that I could visit Ye Olde Christmas Shoppe! He checked his watch and started to open his mouth when AR declared that she, too, wanted to have a look inside. Ha! We promised not to be too long, (double Ha!) and we went in with Tricia while Ed took Billy for a look at the Liberty Bell replica.

We browsed for a while among the ornaments, trying to choose from among the many delightful offerings. I brought my treasures to the cashier and quickly filled out the ticket that was required for shipping items home. Tricia skipped outside to where Billy and Ed were seated on a bench and I went to help AR along. She got on the end of the short line and I went outside and sat with the others to wait. And wait. And wait!

“Perhaps she went out the wrong door and is looking for us on the other side”, I offered. :confused: Ed just shook his head and frowned. Uh oh. “Why don’t you take Tricia over to the Liberty Tree and let her count the lanterns?” I didn’t wait for the reply.

Instead, I went inside and discovered that a long line had built up at the cashier, and at the front of that line was AR, s-l-o-w-l-y and painstakingly filling the paperwork out in her tiny, perfect penmanship. Then she took out her wallet and s-l-o-w-l-y, deliberately, counted out exact change. Twice. The guests behind her sighed and shifted their baskets from one arm to the other. Some looked at their watches and others rolled their eyes. :rolleyes2 The smart ones left to find another cashier!

I quietly backpedaled my way out the door. “It’ll just be another minute” I fibbed. “She’s paying right now.” We sat in silence until AR appeared, happily declaring that she had been able to find just the right sized ornaments for her new tabletop tree and doubly happy that she could have them shipped home. “They’re breakable, you know”, she added, knowingly. ::yes::

We continued on our way. After a few paces, Ed whispered, “She had to fill out those forms, didn’t she?” he said. I nodded, “And she had to give exact change.” He shook his head and laughed. He was more than familiar with his aunt’s idiosyncrasies when it came to both her penmanship and her pennies.

We took one last, slow walk down Main street, USA and I sighed heavily the whole way. This is always the worst part of leaving: saying good-bye to the Magic Kingdom. :sad1: In fact, I can never bring myself to turn my back on it and walk away. I always walk backwards so I can keep looking at it for as long as possible!

Tricia walked in front of me so that I wouldn’t bump into anyone unwittingly. She understands. Her father, as usual, thought I was nuts and just shook his head again. Still, in his own way he tried to make me feel better.

“Don’t be upset, you’re coming back in two months, remember?” he chided.

That was true. He and I were planning to come back for a quick weekend in January so he could run the half-marathon. So it wouldn’t be very long, really. Sigh.

The thought of that helped a bit, but it couldn’t completely remedy the nagging ache in my heart as we boarded the bus and rumbled off down the road. The spires of the Castle slowly grew smaller, until we dipped under an overpass and they disappeared completely from view.

Kathy

Next Chapter: Mom gets “electrified” at 50”s PTC and we observe a Spectacle in the Street.
 
I am finished pages 6 & 7 and wanted to quote a few things.


Kathy said:
Sometimes I wish our kids came with a snooze button.

:rotfl2: :rotfl2: I agree!!!!!


Kathy said:
I set the alarm for 3:30 and soon drifted off to sleep, feeling pleased that we had all had a really fun morning, and secretly reveling in Aunt Rae’s comment that she had “seen and done more in one morning” than she had done !

That's wonderful. I'm sure you were pleased after all the planning that went into the trip. :thumbsup2

Kathy said:
AR still had on her slippers! Can’t walk around the park in those! (A running joke…she did this every afternoon…after a while, we would say “Everybody ready? Lanyards? Cell phones? Aunt Rae, are you still in your slippers?”)!

That's funny :lmao:

Kathy said:
The chef came to the table to discuss AR’s dietary needs, which impressed her immensely. I had told her that WDW was really accommodating in that way, but having the chef come to speak with her personally made her feel very special.!

I'm impressed as well, I didn't realize they were that accomodating.

Kathy said:
As usual, we let the characters know that Billy is autistic. Cinderella seemed a bit surprised, though, when our big boy threw his arms around her waist and squeezed her tight! Ed got a kick out of that. “That’s my boy!” he laughed. Then he told Cinderella that Billy liked the blonde princesses best b/c they reminded him of his mommy. Ha! !

:laughing: That's sweet :goodvibes

Kathy said:
“This is our first time up front”, I told the driver.

“Mine, too!” he quipped.

It was a difficult to see due to the darkness and the water droplets on the expansive glass, but they all enjoyed it. “Mom, this is COOL!” Tricia grinned. I enjoyed the oh-so-short-lived status of being a “cool” mom in the eyes of a pre-teen!!

I wanted to ask to ride up front but my girls are older and figured the CM would rather choose a family with younger children. Maybe next time. :guilty:

Kathy said:
It was really getting congested in that area by now, so AR, Billy, and I stayed put while Tricia and Ed went back. Fortunately, the ride operator saw her tears and quickly guessed that the lanyard filled with Minnie and princess pins was hers! Tricia was very relieved and she learned her lesson. From then on, if she needed a rest for her neck she gave her lanyard to me and I kept it safe in my backpack.!

Wow!!! I'm so glad you found it - she was lucky :cheer2:

Kathy said:
We marched up the exit ramp and Tricia asked Billy if he wanted to go again. I thought for sure that he would say yes, but instead he blurted out, “Hall of Presidents, pleeeeeese!” Egads!!

He's a persistent little guy :)

Kathy said:
She rolled her eyes when I began singing along with “Great, Big Beautiful Tomorrow” (I have the WDW CD). “MOM! You’re EMBARASSING ME!”

“It’s in my job description, look it up!” I told her.!

:rotfl:

Kathy said:
I stood there in shock and tears just streamed down my face. Now I was the one who had no words. The CM “handler” looked at me and I sputtered something about how Billy never talks and how amazing this moment was. She put her arm around me and said, “Isn’t it wonderful?” !

What a magical moment for you and your son. :grouphug:

Kathy said:
By this time, he was done with all this affection and wanted to eat! Poor Piglet! I gave him an extra hug to make up for the rejection!

Suuuurrrrrrrrrrrrrrrreeeeeeee that's why you did it ;)



I'm really enjoying your TR Kathy. Hopefully, I can catch up on the next 3 pages sometime today.
 





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