Kath, I don't know what to say. I'm so terribly sorry and I hope you'll gain a little bit of comfort from all the goodwill here on the boards - a true testiment to the high regard in which you're held and the fondness everyone here feels for you.
Katholyn, I am praying for strength and peace for you and Wilgus. When I was diagnosed you were one of the first people to offer your love and support. God Bless you both, and NEVER give up faith and hope. Love, Monique