Just back--Villains messed w/ our Pixie Dust but we kept the MAGIC!

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We just returned from a wonderful trip, December 17-26. Overall it was quite magical, but we had some major villains messing with our Pixie Dust! I will post a trip report but here are some of the highs and lows :rolleyes:

Here we go :charac2:

This trip was a family reunion Christmas, including my family, the grandparents, and my brothers family. We wold be coming from Arizona, Wisconsin and Washington to gather in the World for the Holidays! :banana:

Our trouble started on December 13 when my mother (66 and with heart failure, but doesn't look a day over 55!) was rushed to the hospital by ambulance for an emergency appendectomy. Go figure. :confused3

While it gave us a scare, at least it wasn't anything she couldn't recover from. HOWEVER, she certainly couldn't fly on the 17th as scheduled, so my Dad paid through the nose for new tickets to come out on the 21st--at least they wouldn't miss the Hoop Dee Doo! :goodvibes It was still a major bummer though--her time with the grandkids would be cut short, espcially 12 year old Riley from AZ whose evil mother (yes, evil, that's my story and I'm sticking to it!) was making him fly home on Christmas eve, rather than the 26th with the rest of his family. So Nanna and Poppa would get three days with him. However, the important thing was that Nana was OKAY, and she WOULD be making it to Disney World, and our family WOULD be together!

The next major blow came when my family arrived at the airport Hyatt our first night. I called my brother to let him know we had arrived and were checked in, and the "extra" room was ready for Riley (since my parents were delayed, we had an extra room--non-refundable since booked through Priceline, but I still won't complain for $45.00! :earboy2: ). We thoght Riley would appreciate a little privacy from his 2- and 4-year old brothers. Well, lo and behold, when I get my SIL on the phone, she tells me that Riley isn't coming!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! Whaaa?? Riley isn't coming???

Riley's mother called my brother while they were ON THE PLANE ON THEIR WAY TO ORLANDO and said that Riley had bronchitis and she wasn't going to put him on the plane. SHE CALLS THE DAY WE ARE ALL FLYING OUT!!!!!! THE DAY HE IS SUPPOSED TO FLY OUT!!!! And no, she won't delay and send him 1 or 2 days later. Evil woman. :mad: :mad: :mad:

This makes the THIRD CHRISTMAS in a row that my brother has not had his son Riley for Christmas. Last year was my brother's "year" in the every-other-year set-up, and his mother kept him because of some suppposed big family to-do. Then THIS YEAR, even before the supposed "illness" (When we talked to him on the phone he sounded just fine, but maybe I'm just too mad to be charitable), she refused to let him stay through Christmas, insisting on a Dec 24th return, claiming again, some "special" family function. Of course, his not coming AT ALL solved that early-leaving thing, didn't it?? Bottom line: this makes three years in a row he hasn't been with our side of the family at Christmas. :sad1:

When she decided he was too ill to fly, his mother should have delayed his flight by 1 or 2 days and then allowed him to stay with us through the 26th. My 66 year old heart-failure patient mother, who had just had MAJOR ABDOMINAL SURGERY, was getting on a plane anyway, because she wasn't going to miss out on seeing her grandkids. Now she wasn't going to see Riley at all :sad2: :sad2: :sad2: :sad2: .

And I haven't even mentioned the $$$$ side of it--my brother was completely out the $400.00 plane ticket (no, even paying the change fee doesn't help because you can't change destinations apparently, and a flight from AZ to Orlando is pretty useless when he lives in Wisonsin), the $250 expiry hopper ticket, the MVMCP ticket...

Yes, I stand by my contention that the woman is a villain trying to steal our Pixie Dust. :maleficen

And was that all?? Oh no. We had plenty of magic, but at the end of our trip, beginning on the 25th I believe, we started dropping like flies. Yes, some evil virus attacked and the puking began :crazy2: :crazy2: . It started with 4 year old Tallon, hit 6 year old Annika on Christmas day, follwed with 2 year old Tanner, worked its way through my brother Steve, my father, and me! Horrible stomach cramps and lots of vomiting. Lovely. Just lovely. Follwed by extreme fatigue for several hours. My SIL got it as well, but she seemed to get a mild version that spared her the worst. It did strike on her travel day however, and her trip home was rather uncomfortable. My DH and my mother escaped the nastiness altogether. At least it didn't last longer than a day!

But I want to report that even though our Pixie Dust was under attack, we did not lose it!!! We had plenty left to go around, and really did have a magical time. MVMCP was fantastic, we ate for the first time at the Sci Fi Diner and had a BLAST...the Boardwalk was so much fun...my 4 you Power Ranger crazy nephew got to spend quality alone time with all of the Power Rangers...absolutely magical! :goodvibes :goodvibes :goodvibes
 
Oh, my goodness. What a mean thing to do to both your brother and her son! I agree with your "description" 100% percent. Such a shame. I am glad that you had a good time anyway and that your mom is okay. Looking forward to your trip report.
 
I'm glad to hear you made the best of it! :sunny: We also were/are sick over Christmas but at least we're at home. Riley's mom does sound like she has some issues. Due to some major communication problems in 2002 ds Elliot did not get to go with us on ds Michael's last trip to WDW before he died. Now everything is put into writing, triplicate with a copy sent to the court. It's sad when things have to get that bad, but having it writing helps with consequenses. :grouphug:
 
Three words to the OP "get a lawyer". If your brother already has one, get a better one. That is just terrible. There is no excuse from keeping a child from his Dad.

I am glad that your Mom is OK and that your trip did have good moments as well. Can't wait to read your trip report.
 

So sorry to hear about your mother but glad she is ok.. Sounds like your nephew has a horrible mother.. You'd think after your brother allowed her to keep him last year even though it was his year, that she'd do what she could to ensure he saw him this year.. I bet your nephew is down in the dumps about it.. Glad to hear that you guys were at least able to have a good time..
 
Sounds like your brother is going to have to put his foot down when it comes to that woman. Seems like he is going to have to go pick the boy up on his appt time and then just drop him off at the end. I wouldnt take any calls from the witch.
Im really sorry for your family the poor kid had to miss out on christmas at Disney. Glad to hear your mom didnt get that nasty illness the rest of you had.
 
Thanks for all of the posts--you guys make me laugh! I'm so sorry, Midge, to hear about your experience. Truly sad and terrible. Aurora and Midge, you are right about legal and getting everything in writing. If a witch can't be beat by Prince Valiant, get out the lawyers!
 
Sorry about your experience with your nephews Mom. It sure is tough dealing with ex's.

I just have to say we were there the 17th-24th and everyone in our family was hit by a stomach virus. My 2 year old was hit the hardest. She had a couple days of the runs and vomiting. Then my 6 yr old got it, and finally I was hit (but not as hard). Luckily I was hit at night and felt better by the next morning.

Here's some pixie dust :wizard: that Riley will be with your brother next Christmas.
 
sorry to hear that the villains did their best to foil your trip, but that good won over evil, at least part of the time :)

just an fyi... the expiry park ticket is still good... save it for another trip for anyone... even though it expires, it expires fourteen days after FIRST USE and if it's not been used, it's not wasted... consider it an "insurance policy" against price increases! :)
 
The thing I hate is I can only imagine being a 12 yr old boy, living far away from dad and here you have an amazing Christmas planned with dad, grandparents and tons of relatives at the happiest place on earth and BOOM, you're not going. My ex dropped a bomb like that on my kids a couple of days ago and my DS11 was sobbing. They were supposed to just go to his house to celebrate Christmas on the 30th because the grandparents were going to be there. The kids hadn't seen their dad since May (by his choice, he only lives about 25-30 mins away and never called to talk to them or asked to see them and I never tell him "no") so my son was sooo excited to see his dad. He called on the 29th to tell me what time on the 30th the kids would be picked up, then called a half hour later and said they wouldn't be able to pick up the kids. I made arrangements with the grandparents to come to my place to exchange gifts then my ex's wife called and said he may or may not be there but they would be having a Christmas party at her house and she'd come get my kids. In the end he came for the kids and did go to the party, but it was horrible for my son. If it were a cancelled Disney trip, I think my Disney loving son would have been hospitalized. I'm so sorry, it's just horrible for the kids and selfish. As the custodial parent, if my ex ever decided to take the kids to WDW for Christmas, it would be tough, but kids love "extra" holidays like celebrating before or after so they have time with both parents. I couldn't take a WDW trip from my kids.
 
I'm sure many of us could share how are ex's have ruined Christmas or other special holidays for our kids...probably enough to start a whole new thread.

It's just really sad, because it hurts the kids worst of all...and my DS12's dad, and the OP's mom and others mentioned, just don't take the time, or even care how if affects the child - the most important person!

My ex banned Disney from our house for many years when my DS was a small child. One day he removed everything Disney from our house - vidoes, all of his stuffed animals (including the Pooh's and Tigger's!!!) and books and just threw them all away.

My DS12 just had his FIRST trip to WDW ever - and LOVED it! We have a lot of making up to do! :teeth:
 
Interesting to hear about the stomach bug. We were there Dec. 17-26 and our 6 year old threw up all day on the 22nd. We were lucky though, for some reason no one else in the family came down with it.
 












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