Karin1984
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In addition to what Heigh-ho said, there was a link to an article with an explanation of what it is in the first paragraph. It would have taken you one click, less time than it probably took to type your reply.Thank you for and informative and respectful reply. It is appreciated.
It's such a shame that so many people took offence to my question. I only heard about this the other day and didn't know what the date was and I didn't take the time to look it up. Sorry I'm not as perfect as some on this thead...
To me it was that, plus the tone.
You are not improving it with a passive-agressive apology, you could also say 'sorry, I could have googled that myself before replying'.
 but I disagree on this one. It came off dismissive (even if honest curiosity was there) though I won't say I was offended. They may not have intended that (which is why I felt I needed to add that on my response to them) but none the less there was quite a consensus here (and that's saying something for this forum). I doubt the response would have gotten much other than the date if all the question was 'what date is it' but adding in 'so-called holiday' turns the conversation into something else. The disrespect seen is because of the significance behind it and changes the perception of the addition of 'so-called' into a dismissive nature.