Karen,
My son will also be 11 1/2 when we cruise. His last cruise, he, too, didn't spend a lot of time in the organized activities. I felt like it would have been so much nicer for him if he had had someone to hang out with, but he's not one of those kids who immediately goes out and meets people. So... the clubs weren't a good place for him to make new friends.
He's trying to learn a little Spanish so he can speak to people in Barcelona (but it sounds like many of the people in Barcelona would rather that we speak Catlan(?)). I think Spanish is all he's up to -- with a few words of French and Italian thrown in, of course.
What dinner seating are you doing? I haven't sent our information in to the website yet, mostly because I'm lazy. (I'm a teacher and it's the end of the school year. Crazinesssss.)
Anyway, I'd love for our sons to "meet up" on the web before we go. DS is extremely interested in rollercoasters. Has your son been on any of the big California coasters? That would be a great starting conversation. DS is ALWAYS asking, "When can we go to CA to try some coasters out there?" (I like to remind him that flying to California just to ride roller coasters is a little extreme.)
Gotta run. Time to make dinner. Can't wait for EVERYTHING!
Julie