Speaking of the Duggars, has anyone ever justified why it's OK for the Duggars to film their 17 kids (and counting) for income, but not OK for the Gosselins to do the same?
I have explained this one before. Ok, I think exploiting your children for money is wrong. And it would appear there is a double standard, but i don't think the Duggars are exploiting their kids for money. I think they invite cameras in to their home to be evangelical and spread their faith. They don't NEED the money. I'm sure it helps out, but they still buy shoes at the thrift store, and they show the world that this is ok, because life is not about material possesions, but about loving family. This is why the Duggars don't bother me one bit, and the sight of Kate makes my skin crawl:
1. The Duggars have always been self-sufficient without any money from a show. They were able to support their family on their own without any help from filming. J&K have NEVER been able to support their family on their own without donations, gimmes, and income from a show. Duggars did not have babies for profit, Gosselins did.
2. In the Duggars case, I think they use the show not to exploit their kids, but to be evangelical and get the word out about how the Lord is so important in their family life. J&K used Christianity to make it look like God was important in their lives so that their "brand" or "product they sell" which is their kids would be more palatable to the public. They used to talk the talk, but none of us have ever seen them walk the walk. Kate showed up at churches to put her hand out, but we have never seen them give back at all. (except to sell some clothes at a yard sale that had been GIVEN to her as donations and then give the proceeds to a charity) - big deal.
3. I actually learn ALOT from watching the Duggars, about faith, about family, about organization, about how to handle such large crowds, etc. I never learned anything from the Gosselins , other than they need to expect everyone to give them stuff to survive.
4. Duggars life has not changed drastically since their show. They are not going on trips every month etc. They still live their live the same. Gosselin were not even recognizable after they got a show.
5. Duggars don't film private family times. When ever the crews are there it is a time when other firends and family are there too. It is just extras in the room documenting. THe kids are not followed, they just sort of go in and out. You almost never see Jana, because I don't think she like being on camera much. Gosselins, nothing was sacred.
6. Michelle and JimBob are the real deal, and have much to teach and have kept their convictions. Jon and Kate, umm, no, not at all.
7. Michelle, nice and kind. Kate, ummm, no, not at all. Nasty, selfish, gimme gimme gimme. Exploitive.
So that is why I see a difference. WIth all that said, I still would not film if I were the Duggars, but it doesn't seem wrong to me that they do. I have never sensed that they try to profit from their kids at all.
They profit more from showing how they handle so many kids. Jon and Kate never showed us anything at all. they had neighbors come in and do their work and laundry, they had nannies, cooks, professional organizers, crews giving them new kitchens. They couldn't even go on vacation without expecting friends to help them with their kids. (so maybe they shouldn't have been vacationing yet?, I know I didn't when my kids were that small and I had 4 under 4 yrs. )They needed Jodi to watch their kids so they could go off and get freebies like tummy tucks. All they taught was how to use others. How to stick your hand out. Duggars do everything themselves and have something to teach. J&K soley were selling the cuteness of their kids and exploiting them ,but were never teaching anything.