Gotta step in and speak for myself here.
If I am referred to as blind, then I will comment on that.
Noone is expected to backtrack, but folks should have the courtesy to discuss issues without implying that those of us who observe differently must be blind.
As Doris said, we have mods for those issues if anyone feels they have been inappropriately treated.
My original statement had to do with turning a blind eye to Kate's behavior and poor decisions and still going forward with defending her. This is clearly a statement you have taken to heart but as you expect courtesy on this thread so do I. We have differing opinions and last time I checked, we are entitled to them.
It could be his week or something so maybe she wouldn't even be home with them this week. Just a thought.

My problem is that I still have deadlines, even if they are self-imposed, so I can't play all day. It does take some self discipline -- I guess I'm not demonstrating that today!