JBurke
<font color=green>WL VET
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I'm going to be really curious to see if this split time at the house is going to work. I understand that it's probably best for the kids to do it that way, but I'm guessing the house will be Kate's primary residence and in any divorce, it's hard to imagine one spouse letting letting the X live in the house when while they aren't there. It would just be very weird to me and I can see Jon wandering around saying "Huh, Kate bought a new painting." or "I see Kate hasn't had the lawn mowed." stuff like that. And it seems like Jon will have his own personal place, so he can just pack a bag and bring some things to the house, whereas all Kate's personal belongings will be at the main house and Jon could go through her bedroom, the mail, ect....I'm not saying he would do that, but it isn't out of the realm of possibility, especially if things remain bitter.
I was wondering the same thing about having my ex in my house without me. I would want some privacy in my home and I wouldnt want to have to pack up and leave it every few days.
I thought it was exremely strange how they kept saying they bought the house for the kids. Who buys a house for "your kids". Dont you usually buy a house for "your family"? I feel like they always put their kids first, when it was their family/marriage that should have been first. I bet if you ask those kids which they would rather have, that big house or the family, they would pick the family. My parents were divorced when I was 5 and it was awful for me.
If they didnt already, I wish they would have tried some counseling first. Maybe they did, I dont know. I am not a church going person, but it seemed that Jon and Kate were. I find it hard to believe that they were so religious that they would not go to their pastor first and try to find a way to work through their issues. Didnt their vow renewal cake even have bible passages on it? Just seems to me that they threw in the towel rather quickly.
How can she say the show had nothing to do with their issues? Sure, not all of their issues, but it definately had an impact. Just looking back at those old tapes of them would have me say to my DH "let's give this show up and go back to being us again."
On another happier note-how sweet was Aaden last night during the little race they had? He stops half way through the race to pick up his stuffed animal he dropped. What a cutie.
I agree with one thing Kate said last night, how could you not smile looking at those 6 sweet faces.