Okay...I may not even look back at this thread in fear of being flamed about what I am about to say...but isn't WDW a family destination, thus, equals children of all ages? I am all about getting some quite time away from the kids and not allowing my children to be disruptive to those around us and if that means I miss the meal I paid for then so be it. However, I am not cancelling my reservation for Jiko's because what my 3 year old may or may not do.
Now keep in mind overall she is a well behaved child, but we are in WDW and you never know when a meltdown could happen. I plan on letting her get in a afternoon nap before dinner, but I cannot make any promises. However, if she did become disruptive I would take her for a walk while the rest of my party finished their meal.
Again, however, I ask this with the gentlest tone...does everyone not expect to hear children on a dining experiece to WDW??? I don't think there should be any off limit restaurants unless WDW decides to make it that way - thus no choice to the family and roll of the dice for Disney (decrease in business aka Pleasure Island).
By the way I've been that parent with the screaming child on the airplane expecting someone to hand us a parachute and tell us where to go. Even though we over prepared as a parent. There was nothing we could do - restaurant a little bit different of a situation. However, this will be my DD(3) 4th trip to WDW. First time was beautiful and the last two times challenging (terrible twos lasted a LOOOOOOONNNNNGGGG time), but she is behaving much better and understands a LOT more. But that shouldn't matter....
If we as a family choose to try a signature restaurant we should be respectful of others enjoyment, but they should be respectful in not telling us where to or where not to eat. I am sure most of your comments are just suggestions, but I am not feeling that. I will not be cancelling our families reservation, but I will be respectful of those around us if any of us become disruptful (any age can become disruptful). Thank you for letting me vent - I hope no one takes it the wrong way.