Jess & Rich's Escape PJ - 05/16/11 @ SBP

I'M GETTING MARRIED IN 100 DAYS!!!!:banana::banana:
crazy crazy!!! Time is going by soooo fast!!! will be doing so much wedding stuff this weekend, hopefully I can feel like I accomplished something. Since our colors changed, I redid my invites last night, incorporating my blue and brown. Ive also been thinking about adding some pink in somewhere? Maybe put my MOH in a bright pink dress with a brown sash? gah! idk... I'm starting to go a little crazy :rotfl:

Yay!! I can't wait unitl I can say that!!
I think little touches of pink goes good with brown..... :)
 
So... Today we booked Randy!!! I am so excited and have a feeling that this is going to be one of the best choices we've made in regards to wedding "extras". I am all about pictures, they last forever!

We decided to go the tux route for the guys. DF and his guys will be wearing the Calvin Klein shadow pin stripe in black, DF in Watermelon, and the guys in Oasis, from MW.

I need to speak to Rosie again to change our flowers, but I'm hoping for white roses with fuchsia colored Mickey crystals, with the ribbon incorporating the blue & brown for my bouquet, and fuchsia roses with brown and blue ribbon for my MOH and Bridesmaids. I've also fallen in love with the trend of having colored shoes... I'm thinking the watermelon/fuchsia color? eekk!!! So much to think about!!!

I go for my alterations on March 3rd... hoping I can drop a few lbs by so fingers crossed!!
 
I thought I would come check out your PJ after getting your PM. I love your dress, the details on the top are beautiful and the full skirt is great. I love the vintage tea pots for the reception too.

Also, you will love Randy :goodvibes We were so happy with his work. In fact, when we go down to Disney in 2 weeks for our anniversary, we're having him take some family/anniversary pictures.

Your fitting is on my 3rd anniversary, so I wish you luck for being just the right size you want to be that day :wizard:

I just sent over the files for you too :thumbsup2
 
So, I have been stressing for months about the ladies in my bridal party. My MOH and one of my BM's were supposed to fly down together, and stay in the same room to help save some money (we all danced together as kids). On Friday night, I got up the nerve to email both of them asking what was going on. They were the only 2 who had not booked ANYTHING!! I wanted to let them know that flights were starting to go up and that things needed to be done as soon as possible. Well, later that night, my MOH emailed saying things were still on and that she would book as soon as possible. My BM emailed saying that she was working on it and wanted to give me a positive answer and to please be patient with her.

Then today happens. My MOH texted me asking if she could call because she needed to talk to me. Turns out, she was going to borrow the money from her dad, and have some of it count towards her graduation gift (she graduates 5/13, wedding is 5/16). Her father changed his mind, and decided against it. So, I've not only lost my MOH, but also my 2nd BM (since they were splitting the costs).

Sorry for the rant. My mother is currently overseas, and this would be a lot easier if she were here to help me deal with it, but I'm doing the next best thing and asking the other DIS brides. Have you ever gone through anything like this? What should I do? How do I go about asking someone else to stand up for me so close to the wedding without making them feel like they were 2nd choice?? I guess I always knew that this was a possibility, but I really thought that my best friends would come through for me.
 

So, I have been stressing for months about the ladies in my bridal party. My MOH and one of my BM's were supposed to fly down together, and stay in the same room to help save some money (we all danced together as kids). On Friday night, I got up the nerve to email both of them asking what was going on. They were the only 2 who had not booked ANYTHING!! I wanted to let them know that flights were starting to go up and that things needed to be done as soon as possible. Well, later that night, my MOH emailed saying things were still on and that she would book as soon as possible. My BM emailed saying that she was working on it and wanted to give me a positive answer and to please be patient with her.

Then today happens. My MOH texted me asking if she could call because she needed to talk to me. Turns out, she was going to borrow the money from her dad, and have some of it count towards her graduation gift (she graduates 5/13, wedding is 5/16). Her father changed his mind, and decided against it. So, I've not only lost my MOH, but also my 2nd BM (since they were splitting the costs).

Sorry for the rant. My mother is currently overseas, and this would be a lot easier if she were here to help me deal with it, but I'm doing the next best thing and asking the other DIS brides. Have you ever gone through anything like this? What should I do? How do I go about asking someone else to stand up for me so close to the wedding without making them feel like they were 2nd choice?? I guess I always knew that this was a possibility, but I really thought that my best friends would come through for me.

So sorry to hear about that! :sad2:

I hadn't had to deal with anything like this- but I am sure whoever you ask will understand the situation, and hopefully won't feel like a "second" choice

I will say I think it is kind of cruddy of your friends to bail out at the last minute- but at least it happened before it was too late to find replacements....

Hope everything works out for you! :hug:
 
So, my last post was about losing my MOH and one Bridesmaid. Well, with all my stressing, things have found a way to work themselves out. Of course I was upset when my best friends decided that traveling to disney was just not doable financially, but after allowing myself to chill out for a bit, I realized that maybe this was for the best. We were uneven with our bridal party to begin with, so losing one BM turns out to work better. I was also able to get up the nerve to ask a friend who lives nearby if she would mind standing up for me since obviously I had chosen the wrong girls in the beginning. She was thrilled and said she would be honored to be my MOH. Whoo!!! :banana:

Well, I went for my alterations on Thurs (3/4), and brought along Parker (my new MOH). she is getting married in April, and we both had our fittings. With my mom still over seas, it was nice to have someone to share that experience with. I'm not sure how I did it, but I managed to get away with only needing my neckline picked up on my gown. I bought my dress almost 2 years ago, and my weight fluctuates so much that I was not sure if I would even be able to get it altered if I had grown above 2 sizes. I also had the dress I had purchased for dinner fitted ( I refuse to wear my gown when there will be any chance of spills... I am not paying $1400 for MK & EPCOT shoots with the chance of a dirty dress ;) ) I was not so lucky with that dress. In order to reduce the prices of the needed alterations, I had them convert the back into a corset. I do not have a picture of this dress, but will make sure I post it when I pick it up on 4/20.

hmm, that was a novel and I haven't even gotten to the good stuff!! I have been doing a lot of our DIY stuff, invites, welcome folders, etc. I have been juggling everything with full time school work, so this weekend I finally decided to finish some things I hadn't gotten to, and added some more to things that aren't quite finished. And now, the pictures......

Fisrt up... Invites!! I made them myself (I had originally made different ones, but once our colors changed, so did they) First is the front with the Vellum I did, 2nd is the inside, once the vellum comes off


Next up, are some welcome bags. I ordered them from Oriental Trading, something like $15 a dozen. I used some Puffy Paint to customize them, but still have some work to do. First pic is just all the bags stacked up so you can see the colors (pink, yellow, green, blue, orange & purple)

This is my sisters bag. Each one is decorated differently, so here is just one


To put into the welcome bags, so far I have travel sets from B&BW with body spray, body wash, lotion and hand saniz for the girls and the men's signature spray and body wash. I also got the sanitizer holder with the loop to hook onto your purse or whatnot. Here is the big box with all the B&BW stuff


I have also picked up little mani kits for the girls, travel size nail clippers for the guys, advil packets, loofas, shout wipe packets, kleenex packets, and a bunch of stuff for parkers little one (he is 2,got some wipes, disposable bowls and sippie cups, J&J baby shampoo, powder, lotion, body wash, crayons, mini Pooh figurines from the dollar store, those "magic towels" that open up in the bath). I don't have pictures of all these things since they are currently in numerous bags all around my house, but you can bet there will be lots of pictures while I'm putting them together in Disney :cool1:

Now the folders. I still need some more ideas for stuff to put in, but here we go.
Front of the folders

Back of the folders (with some of our favorite Disney quotes)


Some of the contents I snagged from some other DIS Brides... Shout out to Figment aka Vanessa!!
Did you Know?

Disney Tips

Wedding Word Search & "How well do you know the bride & groom" crossword

Hidden Mickey Pamphlets

Reservation Cards for each party, letting them know when we had included them and where

Photopass cards (one with the explanation of what it is and how it works, as well as locations for each park that have the best shots and the "special shots" with Tink, Stich, Balloons, etc)

I also snagged some drinking around the world cards from another bride, and altered a few for the under 21 crowd


I also got some ideas from Boston Bride (Not sure what her exact name is). I loved her idea with the door hangers and window clings, so I made some up. here is just one hanger ( they pretty much say different things... moms says "We're here for our daughters fairytale wedding"... you get the idea)


I can't get a good picture of the clings with the backing on them, but they are the silhouettes of Mickey and Minnie kissing, and again, they all say different things. My favorite is the one I did for my brother that says "My little sister will become a Mrs. in Walt Disney World!"

ahhh, so much stuff!!! Anyways, I hope everyone likes what I have come up with, and also the stuff that I have gotten from other brides. I tried to tweak everything so that I didn't feel like I was plagiarizing but for anyone whose ideas I have copied, thank you so much!!!
 
:banana: ONLY ONE MONTH LEFT UNTIL WE GET MARRIED!!! :banana:

Ahhh!!!! I'm so excited I can't even control myself anymore!!! I have some more stuff to post, but I'll do it sometime later this weekend!! Off to work now!!!!
 
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Just checking in--- congratulations on the 100 day mark!!!!! :) :) I also really like your new color scheme, and your invitations are great!!!
 
:banana: ONLY ONE MONTH LEFT UNTIL WE GET MARRIED!!! :banana:

Ahhh!!!! I'm so excited I can't even control myself anymore!!! I have some more stuff to post, but I'll do it sometime later this weekend!! Off to work now!!!!

Hiya, just read your PJ and everything sounds/looks good.

Congrations on being one month out, it'll soon come round. :goodvibes
 
Slders, etc. I have been juggling everything with full time school work, so this weekend I finally decided to finish some things I hadn't gotten to, and added some more to things that aren't quite finished. And now, the pictures......

Some of the contents I snagged from some other DIS Brides... Shout out to Figment aka Vanessa!!
Did you Know?

Disney Tips

Wedding Word Search & "How well do you know the bride & groom" crossword

Hidden Mickey Pamphlets


ahhh, so much stuff!!! Anyways, I hope everyone likes what I have come up with, and also the stuff that I have gotten from other brides. I tried to tweak everything so that I didn't feel like I was plagiarizing but for anyone whose ideas I have copied, thank you so much!!!

I completely missed your post last month since you posted it while we were at WDW for our anniversary. I am so happy you were able to use some of the things I sent over. So many previous brides had helped me, so I am always happy to pass along whatever I can to the next set of brides. Everything turned out great! I think your guests will love the welcome bags and all the goodies plus all the great info in the folders.

I am also so glad that everything worked out with your bridal party. I lost a bridesmaid and a bridal attendant (male cousin who was going to stand up on my side) and in the end we found 2 people to replace them who were amazing and ended up filling a gap that I thought could never be filled. Sometimes the replacements do end up being the perfect fit in the end :goodvibes

I can't believe you are getting so close to your big day :yay:
 
soo.... I know it is bound to change (at least I HOPE it does), but accuweather is currently predicting rain not only on the day of our wedding, but EVERY SINGLE DAY OF OUR TRIP!!!!! grrr!!!! I will be so upset if our location is moved due to rain. I have seen a few pictures of the ballroom at the BW and I have to say... I am not impressed!! The carpet looks hideous and it's really starting to bum me out :sad1::sad1: DF says not to worry, and that it will change, planner is telling me not to stress, and parents are telling me that it will be beautiful no matter what.


anyways, sorry for the rant. just needed to get my frustration/fear off my chest. Send some pixie dust my way for a bright and sunny wedding day!! Only 10 more days to go!
 
I hope you had a magical wedding day! :wizard: And hopefully the weather held up too. :bride:
 














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