After reading this thread... do women in NJ really feel they have some entitlement over the rest of us women in the US? What happened to being self sufficient? I have no problem mowing the yard. It's great exercise. I take out the trash. I pump my own gas - shocker! I also raise my children without the help of a nanny or a babysitter, do the grocery shopping, and pay the bills. My hubby earns the money.
Yep same here

All the women I know can and do pump gas & from being in the south some can even clean fish & skin out a deer LOL
I myself try to be self sufficient have a small farm here we eat what we grow
Sorry this may help
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Step 1
Find out which side of the car the gas tank fill spout is on.
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Step 2
Pull up to the appropriate gas pump, making sure the fill spout is facing the pump.
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Step 3
Turn off the car.
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Step 4
Open the gas tank door. On newer cars, this is done with a button from the inside of the car, but on older cars the tank can be opened by hand, often with a key.
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Step 5
Unscrew the cap of the gas tank.
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Step 6
Put the gas cap where you won't forget it.
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Step 7
If you're paying with a credit card, run the card through the machine and follow any printed instructions. Otherwise, see the attendant. Many gas stations in cities require you to pay before you pump.
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Step 8
Select the type of gas you'd like (regular, premium, super). Never put diesel fuel in a nondiesel engine.
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Step 9
Lift the handle of the gas hose off its stand and insert the nozzle into the tank of your car. Make sure it is securely inserted by pushing it in firmly.
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Step 10
Push the switch or press the button on the pump to allow the gas to flow. This switch is different at different stations; follow the instructions at the pump.
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Step 11
Pull up on the trigger located in the handle of the gas hose. This will release the gas into the tank of your car.
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Step 12
Some triggers lock into place, freeing you to wash windows and check oil while the machine pumps gas. Check for this feature.
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Step 13
Note that when the tank is full, the fuel will stop pumping. Remove the gas hose. Don't try to "top off" the gas tank because this will lead to spillage.
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Step 14
Firmly screw the gas tank cap back into place and shut the gas tank door.