I can't answer the question of the day.....b/c I've done nothing disney

I really, really need to call WL IPO, I still need to book HDDR, but if I whip the cc out, I'll just start ordering like crazy! We're going to celebrate DS 13th bday while there....anyone have any ideas? His fav park is MK, where will be on our 2nd day. Should I order a cake to be served at dinner? Would a 13yr old boy want a cake or bday button? Should I have the club staff decorate our room? Should I order a gift basket from the disney florist? What to do, what to do. Maybe we should just let him schedule out our MK list and do what he wants, when he wants and then have a cake w/POTC on it served after dinner at Tony's...which is the restaurant DS picked. Any advice Snowbirds?