Giggles. So much fun. Honestly is there a bad deluxe resort?
And remember that you and your husband will remember more than your son so pick something fun for you two. I believe you said your son was 5 or am I confusing you with someone else. Anyway, any resort for a kid is fun. Especially if you spend most of your time in the parks.
Won't be long for you either. Have you picked your resort top 3?
I've never really researched them because deluxe has been out of my price options. But if I'm lucky enough to pick I'll looking at Contemporary (because I like the monorail), Grand Floridian(monorail and it's really pretty inside) and Polynesian (it's just gorgeous). However I also would like a Yacht or BC (walk from there to Epcot and HS) so it doesn't matter really.
Heck looking out at this snow, I'd take POP or Allstar with tween cheerleaders!

The snow on the deck looks like that fluffy fake stuff you can buy at Christmas time or in the craft stores.
There has been a hawk flying around in my back yard and a absolutely GORGEOUS male red cardinal was just on the feeder.
distractions from obsessing.