It's a Jolly Holiday with LL. *FINISHED* Final Update on pg. 58.

[If U Had Wings]

I love Encino Man. I also love Patrick Dempsey in Sweet Home Alabama, I was so happy to see him again in a movie when that came out!

Love that one too, although the entire point of the movie was ruined for me, as I wanted her to go with Patrick Dempsey.

 

[Lady Lallie]

I am so angry!

My mom heard from my MOH. She told her this big huge sob story about how she can't even afford to pay for her own spa treatments and that she had to borrow money for it. She picked her spa treatments when she knew she was losing her job. Why did she pick what she did then?

I am beyond angry, sad and frustrated, I am done with her.

Normally, I have a lot of sympathy for situations like this, but I know she got a huge severance package, she bragged about it and she turned down TWO job offers because she wanted the summer off. That was her choice, she knew she had obligations for my wedding.

Seriously, I am sitting here at work, trying not to cry because it just makes me feel so awful. It's not about the money, it's about having friends who care about you and try to make your life just a little easier in one of the most stressful situations ever. I'm at the point where I don't even want her there standing next to me on the wedding day.

 

[Princesskeyblade]

I am so angry!

My mom heard from my MOH. She told her this big huge sob story about how she can't even afford to pay for her own spa treatments and that she had to borrow money for it. She picked her spa treatments when she knew she was losing her job. Why did she pick what she did then?

I am beyond angry, sad and frustrated, I am done with her.

Normally, I have a lot of sympathy for situations like this, but I know she got a huge severance package, she bragged about it and she turned down TWO job offers because she wanted the summer off. That was her choice, she knew she had obligations for my wedding.

OH.MY.GOODNESS.

I would be beyond angry. That would be the final straw for me.... and I am glad to see that it was for you too. You should tell her exactly what is bolded.

I am way beyond angry for you.

I was telling DBF about what was going on last night, and his first words were, "They should not be her bridesmaids if they are pulling this crap. She has far more patience than I. "

Seriously, I am sitting here at work, trying not to cry because it just makes me feel so awful. It's not about the money, it's about having friends who care about you and try to make your life just a little easier in one of the most stressful situations ever. I'm at the point where I don't even want her there standing next to me on the wedding day.

This is so true.

And if you don't want her there next to you then that should be how it is!

You should not be completly stressed about this when you are already stressed about the wedding.

More for good measure

If there is anything I can do to help, I would be happy to help you.

 

[Lady Lallie]

OH.MY.GOODNESS.

I would be beyond angry. That would be the final straw for me.... and I am glad to see that it was for you too. You should tell her exactly what is bolded.

I am way beyond angry for you.

I was telling DBF about what was going on last night, and his first words were, "They should not be her bridesmaids if they are pulling this crap. She has far more patience than I. "





This is so true.

And if you don't want her there next to you then that should be how it is!

You should not be completly stressed about this when you are already stressed about the wedding.

More for good measure

If there is anything I can do to help, I would be happy to help you.

Thank you so much for you kinds words. Really, they brought happy tears to my eyes. I am just so sick of dealing with all of this and the stupid drama. I promised myself three years ago that I would never surround myself with drama again, and here I am, surrounded. I don't know what to do. I feel like I can't tell her to get lost but on the other hand I don't even want to see her. Saturday ought to be fun.

It's ironic that I find more support and kindness on these message boards than I do my own friend. I am totally done. I have a feeling she is going to call me tonight and I am going to tell her how I feel if she does. And if I offend and she doesn't want to be in the wedding then I am okay with that. I would probably be happier without her there.

Thank you so much for letting me vent and being so supportive, it means the world to me!

 

[Princesskeyblade]

Thank you so much for you kinds words. Really, they brought happy tears to my eyes. I am just so sick of dealing with all of this and the stupid drama. I promised myself three years ago that I would never surround myself with drama again, and here I am, surrounded. I don't know what to do. I feel like I can't tell her to get lost but on the other hand I don't even want to see her. Saturday ought to be fun.

Sit in between your Mom and FMIL and just try to enjoy their company!

It's ironic that I find more support and kindness on these message boards than I do my own friend. I am totally done. I have a feeling she is going to call me tonight and I am going to tell her how I feel if she does. And if I offend and she doesn't want to be in the wedding then I am okay with that. I would probably be happier without her there.

Thank you so much for letting me vent and being so supportive, it means the world to me!

I kinda hope she calls.... then you can get it off your chest before Saturday. That all goes well with that and things go the way you want them too.

Hey, we may not have met in person yet, but you are a friend. Of course we are going to let you vent! And we are here to too.

 

[Lady Lallie]

Sit in between your Mom and FMIL and just try to enjoy their company!

I plan on it!

I kinda hope she calls.... then you can get it off your chest before Saturday. That all goes well with that and things go the way you want them too.

I'm kinding hoping that she calls too. On the bright side, only 23 more days of this carp.

Hey, we may not have met in person yet, but you are a friend. Of course we are going to let you vent! And we are here to too.

 

[Princesskeyblade]

I'm kinding hoping that she calls too. On the bright side, only 23 more days of this carp.

This is true...

Then you will be on your honeymoon and far away from the stress!

I am happy to be here to listen

 

[Charleston Princess]

I'm sorry, LL! The names I want to call your MOH would get me banned from the DIS!

 

[Lady Lallie]

I'm sorry, LL! The names I want to call your MOH would get me banned from the DIS!

Thanks for making me laugh!

 

[TarzansKat]

Wow...what a mix of emotions I get to feel when I get home.

First

for a 2009 DIS meet in Disney World! Woo hoo!

Second

for LL having to go through all this wedding stress.

Third

Because I'm thinking of my own guilty secret regarding Brendan Fraser. Anyone remember George of the Jungle? I love him in the mummy films, but I LOVE him in George of the Jungle. I won't discuss how many times I've seen or the fact that I own it on vhs and dvd. :::shhh::::

Fourth

LL, giving away my trade secrets and feminine wiles?

Just Kidding!

It's for a good cause...perhaps I should teach a course.

 

[Lady Lallie]

Wow...what a mix of emotions I get to feel when I get home.

First

for a 2009 DIS meet in Disney World! Woo hoo!

I think I will join in you in celebrating!

Second

for LL having to go through all this wedding stress.

Pfffft, tell me about it. Grrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrr.

Third

Because I'm thinking of my own guilty secret regarding Brendan Fraser. Anyone remember George of the Jungle? I love him in the mummy films, but I LOVE him in George of the Jungle. I won't discuss how many times I've seen or the fact that I own it on vhs and dvd. :::shhh::::

Though I dont own it. I George of the Jungle. I saw it in the movie theater. Do you know my other Brendan Fraser lovefest movie....Blast from the Past!

Fourth

LL, giving away my trade secrets and feminine wiles?

Just Kidding!

It's for a good cause...perhaps I should teach a course.

Teaching a course would be a good way to earn money! Can you say Disney Fund! Don't they offer courses like that online?

 

[TarzansKat]

Though I dont own it. I George of the Jungle. I saw it in the movie theater. Do you know my other Brendan Fraser lovefest movie....Blast from the Past!

Okay, you know what? Anything with Brendan Fraser in it is good!

Teaching a course would be a good way to earn money! Can you say Disney Fund! Don't they offer courses like that online?

Can you imagine having to explain THAT to your family? How do you earn a living...well...um, uh...

 

[Lady Lallie]

Okay, you know what? Anything with Brendan Fraser in it is good!

We have been a little boy crazy lately! It's so much fun.

Can you imagine having to explain THAT to your family? How do you earn a living...well...um, uh...

Hehehe. Life skills?

 

[Charleston Princess]

I Brendan Frasier in the Mummy movies -- I watch them everytime they come on tv and Charles makes fun of me!

I hope you are feeling a little better, LL. Remember, it's not to late to elope to WDW!

Just to brighten your day, I will be posting my Drinks Wish List sometime this evening.

 

[Lady Lallie]

I Brendan Frasier in the Mummy movies -- I watch them everytime they come on tv and Charles makes fun of me!

I hope you are feeling a little better, LL. Remember, it's not to late to elope to WDW!

Just to brighten your day, I will be posting my Drinks Wish List sometime this evening.

I am feeling better. I made the little label for the front of the scrapbook. Typed up little notes that his Grammy asked me to put on her page. Now I am going to work on the table labels. I keep focusing on DIS meet 2009 and the happy aspects of the wedding and WDW 2008.

 

[TarzansKat]

We have been a little boy crazy lately! It's so much fun.

What are girlfriends good for if you can't drool over men together?

Hehehe. Life skills?

Well, it certainly does come in handy, that's for sure.

I Brendan Frasier in the Mummy movies -- I watch them everytime they come on tv and Charles makes fun of me!

I hope you are feeling a little better, LL. Remember, it's not to late to elope to WDW!

Just to brighten your day, I will be posting my Drinks Wish List sometime this evening.

Oo, oo, oo, I want to see the Drinks Wish List.

I am feeling better. I made the little label for the front of the scrapbook. Typed up little notes that his Grammy asked me to put on her page. Now I am going to work on the table labels. I keep focusing on DIS meet 2009 and the happy aspects of the wedding and WDW 2008.

Good, good. Focus on the postive. Release the negative. Life lesson number one.

 

[Charleston Princess]

I am feeling better. I made the little label for the front of the scrapbook. Typed up little notes that his Grammy asked me to put on her page. Now I am going to work on the table labels. I keep focusing on DIS meet 2009 and the happy aspects of the wedding and WDW 2008.

Yes, try and forget about the Witchling (see, I did come up with a name that won't get me booted)!

Pixie dust for you!

I think DIS meet 2009 will be fabulous!

 

[Lady Lallie]

Yes, try and forget about the Witchling (see, I did come up with a name that won't get me booted)!

Pixie dust for you!

I think DIS meet 2009 will be fabulous!

Witchling!

 

[Charleston Princess]

Witchling!

She can be the WOH from now on, and you can just claim that you accidentally flipped the M -- sudden case of dyslexia or something!

I am a Scorpio -- I don't handle people messing with me and mine (and that includes my DISsies!) very well.

I've got your cyberspace back, Chickie!

 

[Lady Lallie]

She can be the WOH from now on, and you can just claim that you accidentally flipped the M -- sudden case of dyslexia or something!

I am a Scorpio -- I don't handle people messing with me and mine (and that includes by DISsies!) very well.

I've got your cyberspace back, Chickie!

Hehehe. Thanks! I feel so loved!