So, I know it's weird to think about doing an ABD and not participating in a planned day, right? Just wondering if anyone has ever done it, and how you felt about your choice if you did.
Here's what's up: We are doing the Viva Italia trip over Christmas, which has apparently caused ABD some scheduling headaches for the Tuscany portion of the trip, which includes Christmas Day.
Most of the changes I'm thrilled with. We are now in a hotel in Florence instead of out in the country. We are also getting a half day trip to Pisa on Christmas Day, after a guided walking tour of Florence.
However, the day after Christmas, which is Day 6 of our adventure, they have shifted to an all day outing to the Fattoria Poggio Alloro for the pasta making and wine tasting. And now we get a quick peek at the David the next morning on our way to the train to Venice, and no tour of the Palazzo Vecchio or the Duomo at all.
So, we had booked tickets to the Uffizi Gallery for Day 6 based on the posted itinerary and other travelers' experiences with this tour. With the new plan, we would lose these tickets. OR, we could skip the "romance and renaissance" day and stay in Florence on our own. We could move our tickets to an earlier time (for a small fee) and have an unrushed tour of the Gallery. Plus, we could see the PV and the Duomo.
We often are just being good sports about what we call the "forced fun" portion of the ABDs anyway - the flute making, plate painting, look-it's-an-experience moments (though they do make for the best pictures!) So I don't think we'd miss it too much. And I know DD17 will not have a great day, being too old to have fun at the junior adventurers diversion when she really wants to be tasting the wine, which they won't let her do (I asked.) Adding to our "meh factor" is that the day as currently written includes an hour on the bus each way. Two hours we could be spending in Florence.
So, am I nuts to think about opting to stay in Florence for that day? Interested to hear from anyone who has done the Italy trip, as well as anyone who has skipped an activity or thought afterward that they could have skipped one they did.
Here's what's up: We are doing the Viva Italia trip over Christmas, which has apparently caused ABD some scheduling headaches for the Tuscany portion of the trip, which includes Christmas Day.
Most of the changes I'm thrilled with. We are now in a hotel in Florence instead of out in the country. We are also getting a half day trip to Pisa on Christmas Day, after a guided walking tour of Florence.
However, the day after Christmas, which is Day 6 of our adventure, they have shifted to an all day outing to the Fattoria Poggio Alloro for the pasta making and wine tasting. And now we get a quick peek at the David the next morning on our way to the train to Venice, and no tour of the Palazzo Vecchio or the Duomo at all.

So, we had booked tickets to the Uffizi Gallery for Day 6 based on the posted itinerary and other travelers' experiences with this tour. With the new plan, we would lose these tickets. OR, we could skip the "romance and renaissance" day and stay in Florence on our own. We could move our tickets to an earlier time (for a small fee) and have an unrushed tour of the Gallery. Plus, we could see the PV and the Duomo.
We often are just being good sports about what we call the "forced fun" portion of the ABDs anyway - the flute making, plate painting, look-it's-an-experience moments (though they do make for the best pictures!) So I don't think we'd miss it too much. And I know DD17 will not have a great day, being too old to have fun at the junior adventurers diversion when she really wants to be tasting the wine, which they won't let her do (I asked.) Adding to our "meh factor" is that the day as currently written includes an hour on the bus each way. Two hours we could be spending in Florence.
So, am I nuts to think about opting to stay in Florence for that day? Interested to hear from anyone who has done the Italy trip, as well as anyone who has skipped an activity or thought afterward that they could have skipped one they did.