Wow, you all with impressage miles on your vehicles are inspiring me. We had a pontiac that we THOUGHT would last forever, but after paying at least $400 in repairs 4 times in 8 months, we got rid of it. We are meticulous with maintenance, because neither of us is handy. Can't repair ANYTHING on our own. But we couldn't have dh's car gone into the shop that often. Not the car to hold out with, I guess. Bought a little Hyundai, which has a looooong warranty. Doing perfect maintenance. We are trying to make THIS be our car that keeps going, and going, and going....
Then, our Chevy minivan...which I was still making payments on...kept losing its heat. They would keep it for days (and loan me a teeny Cobalt or something), fix something in the minivan, give it back, the heat would work for a couple of weeks, then it would start coming and going again. So the whole process started again. We couldn't keep taking the loaner AND dh's hyundai everywhere we went (family doesn't fit in a car)...so after the fifth time with Chevy trying to fix the heat, we threw in the towel. Bought a kia (loooong warranty). Payments stayed the same, but now we mostly started over. Yuck. This one BETTER keep going, and going, and going. (I did get no-interest financing on it! YAY!)
Funny enough, OP, we are in serious debt paydown mode now too. I just got a job, so am going to do all the spreadsheets to nail down our budget. Not going to be fun. Not sure I am up to looking at the reality. But it sure will feel better when it's all done! I think a support thread is a fine idea!