Hi, A&Bmama, I'm still here! So happy to see the updates!
I love your conclusions. I remember being almost in tears much, much earlier in your TR, but somehow those closing thoughts struck that chord again.
Probably because I can relate on some level. We're not as awesome as you guys--we still have a mortgage--but that's the only debt we have left (and we're paying extra on it). Weve spent our whole marriage so far (almost 5 years) parting with gigantic chunks of money each month to get out of debt. So, I can understand the feelings. We also saved quite a bit at the same time (retirement, emergency funds, etc.). So, when we hit 2010, when our debt was gone, it was pretty wild to actually be "living that dream." But, like you, we're still pretty "disciplined". We actually haven't increased our expenditures since we've been out of debt...we just decided to put that money that was once debt payment money towards travel for a short time. And it got us this crazy Year of Disney!(We're still quite thrifty at that, though, our last WDW trip was $675 total!)!
Hey Dugette, glad you're still here! You guys are doing awesome at your age! The mortgage will come, but it takes awhile.
I read the super inexpensive TR, sorry I didn't post but I would sneak a read in every now and again at work. I wish I could get such awesome airfares from here but it is not that easy for us. I think for us it is easier to go less frequently and make it a "blow out" when we do go.
Like you were talking about realizing, we think that the experiences you have are much more important than material things. And I'm well aware that I've been very lucky with my family situation and that it can change quickly. I had all 4 grandparents up until a few years ago and still have 2. Time with family is priceless. We don't have kids yet, but you can be sure that, when we do, they'll be traveling with us as much as possible. Making those memories.
Sorry, didn't mean to make this all about me. I've absolutely loved your TR! So excited to hear that you're planning another trip!Enjoy making all those remember when moments you deserve them!
When you guys do have kids Disney will be a whole new experience again for you! If Dugbaby loves small world and wants to ride over and over again you will have a great time just looking and the expression on Dugbaby's face!
Material things are nice but the memories are priceless! (I sound like a PR rep for Disney's new "memories" theme, don't I?)
Thanks for coming back. I totally understand all about NOT finishing TRs. It's hard to keep the momento going. I started one, and thought about starting 3 others, but never did because I didn't finish the first one!Thank you again for sharing your whole story with us.
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I think next time I should write the whole TR and then start posting the installments! I drug this thing on for a long, long time. Thanks for seeing it through to the end!