Is it rude? (picture question)

[tinkaholic35]

I do not find this to be rude behavior at all. In fact all of us with children have probably been their at some point in time. Also try eating at a character dining experience if you can as well. They make fantastic opportunities to meet your favorites.

 

[AllyCatTapia]

Yes, it's rude if you take too long and manipulate the characters time. No, it's not rude if you are quick & know what you're doing.

 

[NancyCnstn]

thats why I like character meals! we can take lots of pictures without waiting in long lines. 2 years ago I think we waited an hour to see mickey and we agreed this year we will see him at chef mickeys and get pictures that a way. I agree I would wonder what others thought as well, but you did wait like everyone else and your only talking an extra maybe half a minute. I wouldnt worry about it.

 

[Sugardimples]

I have found a good trick is to practice on the family ahead of you... that may sound weird but a few quick snaps when you are next in line will give you a chance to practice to make sure that your settings are right and the photos aren't too bright or too dark. T
his is more important with a DSLR than a Point & Shoot but even a P&S has different settings so it's
worthwhile to make sure you are ready when you get your turn. Then you can just delete the
practice shots.[/QUOTE

I do think it's rude (and creepy too) to take pictures of strangers. I would be uneasy if I saw you taking pictures of my family. You might know they are test shots - I don't know that.

 

[shancan911]

We took a trip in 07, me, DH, DS (6 at time), and Dniece(12 at time). I took character photos of them by themselves, and one together. Never even thought of how I was perceived. I did it swiftly, though. Snapped each while getting their autographs, and then a quickie posing, and then we would "ask" the character for one together. It usually took a minute and half or so. They keep the momentum up, and I didn't notice anyone taking issue with our photo taking. Enjoy your trip, and photo document your memories

 

[SmallWorld71]

We do this if it is a character that someone really cares about. For example, when we met Tinkerbell, we made sure that DD7 had an individual picture with her and then it was just a couple quick group shots. Or like when I took a picture of just the boys and DH with Donald because they were all wearing Donald T-shirts and then I took one with DD with them. I've gotten individual shots with a few characters myself if it is one of my favorites. I've never had a problem with anyone behind us in line. We know who wants a picture before we get there and we are quick. Don't forget you can also take pics while the kids are getting their autographs. Often the candid pics are better than the posed ones.

 

[Tiger926]

As everyone else has said, it's not rude if you are quick and well organized. Prepare your kids, have your camera ready, and get it done!

On another note, in reference to your comment in your original post...you should care about the people behind you, and you absolutely shouldn't walk around with the attitude that you can do what you want because you paid so much for your trip...we all did too!

Have a good trip, Tiger

 

[kaligal]

If you do it quick like a bunny, it's no big.

If you have to say, "Smile!" 1000 times or take forever framing your shot, then it is rude.

 

[TwiddleDeeTwiddleDum]

I think there has been some good advice & common sense provided to your question. Have your camera ready when it's your turn & the kids autograph books open to the page they want the character to sign. Nobody should blink an eye over your wanting to take an individual picture for each child and then one together if that's what you want to do

But were you to want several individual pictures - the perfect shot with the perfect smile & lighting & have to do several retakes - plus how about since we're here we take one of brother & dad, then dad & sister, then how about one with both kids and dad, now let's rotate & do all that again with just mom, oh, and CM could you take one of all of us. Wait, we need to get one of each kid hugging the character goodbye. This would be rude & that's when you're going to see people in the line start giving you the hairy eyeball

 

[megan926]

I like to "get in" and "get out" when in line for characters...especially when the line is long.

We were in line for Chip and Dale (this past June)...and this family (of 8 or so) in front of us took WAY too many photos. Mom with Chip and Dale, Dad with Chip and Dale, each kid (2) with chip and Dale, Aunt with Chip and Dale, Uncle with, then one of all of them, then Aunt and Mom and so on and so forth. I was soooo annoyed (and I don't really get annoyed!). It was hot and I think they took MORE than enough photos...

But, if you have 2 kids...I really don't see the harm in one of each and one together...that is definitely not going overboard!

Good luck...and if you do annoy others, hey, you will never see them again!

 

[huge mickey fan]

I have been in line with three kids, my son and a niece and nephew. So I want 1 of my son, my sister wants both kids and then all three. Have a system. I personally used, my son-click, others jump in-click, my son exit-click. Now you mentioned the photopass photographers where you get a chance, you should also jump in on those photos. One other tip, make sure your camera settings are correct for the photo, shadows, light etc. Have autograph books open and ready.

I don't think you should worry too much about the people behind you. I wouldn't take a half hour with characters but you are allowed a few minutes so take the photos you want.

 

[jpolak]

I see no problem with this. I mean it's only 3 pictures total and you waited in line so who cares.

 

[chartle]

I have found a good trick is to practice on the family ahead of you... that may sound weird but a few quick snaps when you are next in line will give you a chance to practice to make sure that your settings are right and the photos aren't too bright or too dark. This is more important with a DSLR than a Point & Shoot but even a P&S has different settings so it's worthwhile to make sure you are ready when you get your turn. Then you can just delete the practice shots.

I'm surprised you have never been asked not to do this.

I thought there was a rule of no taking pics of other peoples kids.

 

[Tiger926]

I'm surprised you have never been asked not to do this.

I thought there was a rule of no taking pics of other peoples kids.

I would never do this - you have no business taking photos of other people, especially children.

I can see this as being disruptive, not to mention not acceptable since they are not your kids.

I would absolutely not advise in doing this at all, Tiger

 

[lustergirl]

Not a problem at all, but let the kids know the drill: photo together, one steps aside, then the other moves in, and the first one steps aside. Done. The irritation will begin if your children stop and moan, "Moooommmmm, don't take another photo," or the kids have to be told step by step, 'No you move over. No you move there...."

Just have it all organized, then click, click, click. Done.

Yes the OP wouldnt want to upset any of the picture police on the disboards.

 

[santadog]

I can not disagree with the in and out philosophy more.

I think that's doing a dis-service to both your kids and the characters. The characters and/or the handlers will let you know if you've overstayed your welcome.
I remember a post on Post Secret from a CM that mentioned how much they hated parents who rushed their kids, and hearing them interact with their "best friends" was the highlight of their job!
I haven't rushed my daughter once since reading that.

If a guest behind you says anything, I'd explain that with 2 kids sometimes one has their eyes shut or it is generally a good pic of one kid, but not a flattering picture of the other one -- you're just hedging your bets!!

 

[pixarmom]

Jennifer,

I just wanted to add that I don't think your idea is rude at all, especially if your kids know what to expect and you are efficient. I also think this is a great idea generally! Our two older boys are similar in age, and they are ALWAYS in pictures together on vacation. In part, it's because they are physically together most of the time. But it's hard to find pictures of each of them, and that would be nice to have. (Not a problem with our youngest, he's always going his own way!)

And santadog, some good points - I really appreciate your post.

 

[Tiger926]

I can not disagree with the in and out philosophy more.

I think that's doing a dis-service to both your kids and the characters. The characters and/or the handlers will let you know if you've overstayed your welcome.
I remember a post on Post Secret from a CM that mentioned how much they hated parents who rushed their kids, and hearing them interact with their "best friends" was the highlight of their job!
I haven't rushed my daughter once since reading that.

If a guest behind you says anything, I'd explain that with 2 kids sometimes one has their eyes shut or it is generally a good pic of one kid, but not a flattering picture of the other one -- you're just hedging your bets!!

I think there is a difference between rushing, and being organized and concise. If you are rushing and pics aren't good, or someone forgets an autograph, then that is not good. But, if you are organized and ready, you will more than likely take great shots, and you can still take a few seconds to interact with the characters in a non-rushed way. All the while being cognizant of the fact, that other people are waiting to have the exact same experience right behind you!

Tiger

 

[serene56]

I like to "get in" and "get out" when in line for characters...especially when the line is long.

We were in line for Chip and Dale (this past June)...and this family (of 8 or so) in front of us took WAY too many photos. Mom with Chip and Dale, Dad with Chip and Dale, each kid (2) with chip and Dale, Aunt with Chip and Dale, Uncle with, then one of all of them, then Aunt and Mom and so on and so forth. I was soooo annoyed (and I don't really get annoyed!). It was hot and I think they took MORE than enough photos...

But, if you have 2 kids...I really don't see the harm in one of each and one together...that is definitely not going overboard!

Good luck...and if you do annoy others, hey, you will never see them again!

We are a family of 7--actually 3 families total. So I guess we will keep the two families still in line while the kid gets her photo. then the mom and dad and kid.. then everyone. 3 photos.

 

[branv]

As everyone else has said, it's not rude if you are quick and well organized. Prepare your kids, have your camera ready, and get it done!

On another note, in reference to your comment in your original post...you should care about the people behind you, and you absolutely shouldn't walk around with the attitude that you can do what you want because you paid so much for your trip...we all did too!

Have a good trip, Tiger

ITA, as long as your not spending a ton of time futzing around, I don't see the issue.

But I would also be careful about thinking "I paid a lot of money for this vacation" is a justification for doing something you think might inconvenience other people. By that rationale, if another guest paid more than you for their WDW vacation, they have the right to inconvenience your family if it suits them.

There's a reason this seems to be the line most trotted out by those guests with the tendency to make a scene or chew out some poor CM over something completely irrational.