I'm not Dawn and won't be answering for her but I thought I'd respond.
1) Conservatives don't want to "shove Democracy down the throats of other countries". We believe in helping to remove the barriers that prevent them from getting it on their own. And not necessarily by force alone. Who wouldn't want that?
2) It's not about preventing a woman from choosing what to do with her body, it's about protecting the unborn life inside. Who wouldn't want that?
3) This is a personal opinion (which I believe is also held by many conservatives) but I believe that same sex couples should have all the rights that same sex married couples have. Who wouldn't want that?
While I believe in civil unions, I don't believe (and I know it's just a matter of semantics) those unions should be called a marriage. I firmly believe that a marriage is between ONE man and ONE woman. I don't believe in (in the sense that the state shouldn't legally recognize them) plural marriages or unions.
4) In regards to Iraq. I won't go there because that's been hashed about more than enough times. Each side should pretty much know how the other side feels.