We were those people

I HAD to do it to scratch the itch. Deluxe dining was a total bucket list thing and it was a perfect opportunity. Then again, it is also a totally different vacation. I still have a hard time comparing apples to apples.
Vacation with DDxP is fun in that I try a bunch of restaurants I never would otherwise (including desserts, appetizers, soda with every meal VS water, multiple TS per day) - I mean I would NEVER pay OOP the price for those buffet character meals. $50 pp for an upscale Izzy's ...no thank you. In fact, I wouldn't do two TS per day, either. But then again the kids loved the character interaction and it a new experience. Without the dining plan we would likely do QS for lunch and eating dinner offsite which means more time driving around, leaving the bubble, and less time in the parks. That's the part the muddies the water for me.
The dining plan is the medicine that helps me swallow the outrageous Disney restaurant prices