I ended up caving and getting it. I purchased tickets through undercover tourist. It was my first time using them, but I believe they are somewhat refundable if I change my mind in the upcoming weeks (I doubt it… but how I convinced my DH)
if you buy from Disney they are non refundable. Hoping we like everything! My son is not a big rider… so rockin rollercoaster being down is not a deal breaker for him…. And I doubt we’ll ride TOT. Everything else we’ll ride though. (Hoping I can talk him into TOT it’s my fav ride) But he will love being in the parks with low crowds… and at night. We’ll be there late July, so I’ll try to report back at how it was!