The only person responsible for feelings of disappointment are one's self. You make or break your own vacation or way though life. A positive attitude in a crowded park will lead to a better time than a salty "Oh, I didn't expect these type of waits!" one. Attitude is EVERYTHING! Guests can't blame Disney when the way they react to the situation in the parks ultimately will be how they feel about it. They can just as easily decide that they are on vacation and will have fun regardless and viola, their trip would be reported as a fabulous time.
I very much agree with this entire post.
Every year for at least the last decade or more, my Mom and I have gone to the NC State Fair, usually on the first Saturday which is always very crowded. We know it's going to be crowded, we don't care, we go anyway. It is virtually EXACTLY the same every single year with very, very few little new tidbits or things we discover for the first time (but those are rare). This year (just last weekend) was the most crowded it's ever been. At one point when we were making our way down a main stretch, it got so congested we came to a complete standstill in the mob. We were packed shoulder-to-shoulder in complete gridlock for a minute and Mom jokingly said, "Well, this is it! This is how it's all going to end. My life is a a standstill at the State Fair!" LOL! We chuckled, patiently waited for the crowd to start creeping forward again, and were soon on our way to the exhibit halls we'd been trying to get to.
We left that day, just like every other year, feeling exhausted, backs and feet aching from so much standing and walking on concrete, overpriced food in our bellies, and not having seen or experienced anything particularly new. We had to park farther away than usual and pay more ($15!), we didn't get to a few of our favorite things (the bunnies and part of the big garden exhibits), and we actually threw two hideous chocolate "ice cream" (not convinced it was ice cream at all) cones away ($4 each) because we just couldn't stand to eat them... Blech.
But we still had a great time! We always do! It's our special tradition and as long as my mom feels like going we'll go! We laughed and had a ball. Is it more expensive now? Yep. Tickets, parking, and food have all gone up. Do we get anything more? Nope. Same ol' fair. Is it more crowded? Sure was this year! Will we go next year? God willing!
The most fun I've had at Busch Gardens Williamsburg was a last minute summer day trip with my best friend. It POURED rain WHILE we were riding the Big Bad Wolf, and she was fussing at me and screaming bloody murder the whole time (she hadn't wanted to ride in the rain but I convinced her to, hee hee). Later we ran through water up to our knees to a gift shop to buy ponchos, then while eating lunch we got so tickled rehashing our roller coaster in the rain adventure that we were about to fall off our chairs laughing. People were actually staring and one guy even came over and teased us about having way too much fun. We still laugh about it all these years later.
I honestly do believe our attitudes play a huge role in how we perceive an experience, be it at Disney or anywhere.