Is dancing with someone numerous times considered cheating?

[disneysnowflake]

I have a hard time believing this actually happened. However, in the event it's true she might be better off w/o him since he doesn't sound like the brightest bulb in the pack .

Oh, and no I don't think dancing with another man is cheating. Even a slow dance. Now if they were all over each other that's a different story.

What do you mean you have a hard time believing this actually happened?
I'm the OP.

 

[Lisa loves Pooh]

So if she danced with her brother or father--would the hubby consider it incest in addition to cheating?

Not necessarily something I would do--and I probably would be upset if hubby went somewhere without me and slow danced with only one girl all night long..I wouldn't call him a cheater though.

However--if they were getting close and other stuff was going on--that would open the door to the subject.

If it were cheating--then every man on Dancing with the stars who is married has cheated this season.

 

[snowwite]

Ok, I don't get it, when a women makes a comment like this. Why just HER? Why is SHE the homewrecker? It takes TWO!

Because I know single women who aggressively pursue married men and they need to be "reminded" to back off.

 

[snowwite]

It takes TWO to "tango"

Yes, but like I said did her dancing partner know she was married?

 

[Kae]

I guess I need to no more but 1st let me say I don't get the throwing of stuuf on the lawn thing.

Did she know the guy she slow danced with? And if it was the guy who went out & danced with some other woman would we all to BBQing him?

But in the big picture I think there were somethings stirring at home B4 she went out. good luck to her & I hope she figures out what's best for her.

Kae

 

[olena]

Technically, no. I wouldn't like hubby doing that, which is why I go go where he goes, and vice-versa.

From the info given, the reaction sounds a little overboard....i.e. kicking her out and littering the lawn with her possessions.

Bars are just like high schools with liquor.

 

[disneysnowflake]

I guess I need to no more but 1st let me say I don't get the throwing of stuuf on the lawn thing.

Did she know the guy she slow danced with? And if it was the guy who went out & danced with some other woman would we all to BBQing him?

But in the big picture I think there were somethings stirring at home B4 she went out. good luck to her & I hope she figures out what's best for her.

Kae

It's a bar, but it's more like a club where you have to be a member. Like an Elks club or something.

Both the husband and wife spend a lot of time there as do many others because their parking lot is always packed.

She got a costume and was going to this Halloween party on Friday night. The husband refused to go.
The wife knew the guy she danced with. Both of them knew this guy. They've been going to this bar or club or whatever for several years.

The wife claims she was home at midnight. The husband says he doesn't know because he was passed out. (sigh)

The next day (Saturday) someone told him that his wife was cheating with this other man. The husband confronted the wife. The wife said that was absurd. The husband went to the bar where his drinking buddies said they thought she was cheating, too.

This kept going to the point where there were fist fights between people, etc. and the police were called.

The husband still insisted his wife was cheating and threw her stuff out onto the lawn. He told her to leave. I don't know what he's going to do with the house since he won't even do his own laundry, but whatever.

I asked about her and was told she gathered her belongings, her 3 dogs, and her 2 cats and went to stay with her sister. She's not sure what she's going to do.

I certainly do know there have been many troubles in their household for years. Excessive drinking caused most of it.

I think she needs to be on her own, but she probably won't. I feel bad for their child who is a senior in high school having to have 2 parents who are at the bar all the time and fighting like a bunch of idiots. I asked about their child. I was told he called his older sister and is staying with her.

 

[poohandwendy]

Nice.

 

[momrek06]

Sad.

 

[MELSMICE]

It's a bar, but it's more like a club where you have to be a member. Like an Elks club or something.

Both the husband and wife spend a lot of time there as do many others because their parking lot is always packed.

She got a costume and was going to this Halloween party on Friday night. The husband refused to go.
The wife knew the guy she danced with. Both of them knew this guy. They've been going to this bar or club or whatever for several years.

The wife claims she was home at midnight. The husband says he doesn't know because he was passed out. (sigh)

The next day (Saturday) someone told him that his wife was cheating with this other man. The husband confronted the wife. The wife said that was absurd. The husband went to the bar where his drinking buddies said they thought she was cheating, too.

This kept going to the point where there were fist fights between people, etc. and the police were called.

The husband still insisted his wife was cheating and threw her stuff out onto the lawn. He told her to leave. I don't know what he's going to do with the house since he won't even do his own laundry, but whatever.

I asked about her and was told she gathered her belongings, her 3 dogs, and her 2 cats and went to stay with her sister. She's not sure what she's going to do.

I certainly do know there have been many troubles in their household for years. Excessive drinking caused most of it.

I think she needs to be on her own, but she probably won't. I feel bad for their child who is a senior in high school having to have 2 parents who are at the bar all the time and fighting like a bunch of idiots. I asked about their child. I was told he called his older sister and is staying with her.

Wow, this whole story sounds.........well, never mind. What I was going to say was not very nice.

 

[disneysnowflake]

Unfortunately, in the town they live in this kind of crazy behavior over drinking and such is far too common.