That was my original plan, to get married at DL because I grew up going there and most of my family and all of my friends live in the area. Unfortunately, they don't offer an Intimate package and the weddings START at $10,000. For 40 people your probably looking at closer to $15,000 or so once you figure in all of the costs.
Since this was going to cost more than our budget allowed, we decided on WDW since that was where we were going to honeymoon anyhow. So now we'll be getting married at WDW (intimate) and honeymooning there for 10 days. All together that is going to cost us less than $10,000!!