Is any job "beneath you"?

GladysK

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Are there some jobs(or pay scale levels )that you would refuse to do because you consider yourself above that?

I'm in the process of a career change and starting over pay-wise, so this subject has been on my mind lately.:D
 
There are some, but I'm not going to name them so as not to offend anybody who might have that job here on the DIS.
 
I'm not sure. I guess if it came down to paying the bills / starving, then who knows.

But it seems like your just looking to change careers, so that's a different situation. It would have to depend on YOU
 
I think everyone has that imaginary line in the back of their head as to what job they would or wouldn't do.

I wouldn't say jobs are "beneath" me - there are just certain things I wouldn't like to do if I had the choice.
 
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I agree with what everyone said. In my head now (with money saved, bills paid etc) there are definatly jobs that I "say" I wouldn't do.

But once put in the position of fending for my family I doubt there is much I wouldn't do.
 
There are two different things.
What I would be willing to do temporarily, because of an emergency, or something, in order to pay the bills or to keep food on the table - here I would say anything. But if it was something I hated or the pay was bad, I would always be working on something, education etc.. to change the situation.
What I would choose to do, definitely. I am a mother, and there is an income level at which my working would cause so much hardship that the job would not be worth taking. I'm also squeemish so some jobs would not suit.
I am primarily a SAHM although right now I am resuming a career. Over the years I have done jobs to earn extra money to pay for trips, camp for kids, etc. that I might not choose to do ordinarily but which fit in great for my family timeschedule. Ex. for awhile I cleaned new construction homes. Hard work, but I could bring my pre-school sons with me. Teaching in a private school for a low salary, but I got free tuition for my kids, etc.
I have had this conversation with my teens. Because they are considering careers and often want to do crazy things, like be a pro-skateboarder or surfer. What I say is there is nothing wrong with flipping burgers or waiting tables to get yourself thru college. Or because you need to earn some extra money because you have unusual medical bills or want to buy a new car, etc.. Hard work is good for you. But if you are 34 years old with a family and the only skill you have is to flip burgers for $7. an hour then you have made some bad choices. (I always point out to them that there are exceptions, such as a suddenly single mom, or a company closes up, etc. )
 
At this stage in my life, there are by all means some jobs that I would refuse to do. I don't necessarily consider them *beneath* me, but they're jobs I know I wouldn't enjoy, I wouldn't earn what I'm earning now, and aren't what I want to do. Since I have the luxury of being picky right now, I will be. :)

At other stages in my life (I hope never to reach one), I may not have that option. At that time, I wouldn't like them, but I wouldn't refuse the work, unless I felt my health/safety would be greatly compromised by working that job. But as long as I have the option, I will consider some jobs to be jobs I won't take.
 
There are jobs I would rather not do, but if I had the choice of being unemployed or taking a job that I hated, then I would take the job (assuming it was legal and moral employment).
 
Like everyone else, there are jobs I would prefer not to do, but if it meant putting food in my kids mouth or loosing my house, there is no job I would not do.
 
GladysK, great question and one that is close to my heart. I went through a similar career change almost two years in October, 2001.

I had spent almost 12 years in national account management and corporate sales and did rather well. I had finally achieved a salary level that I had never actually contemplated simply because I never thought I'd make that much in my lifetime. With a huge amount of work and determination, however, I made it to the big time.

I didn't feel rewarded. I had gone out with a group of friends one evening on Thursday, September 6, 2001. We were having drinks at a popular hang out called Moran's in the World Financial Center, located in the World Trade Center.

We were all commisserating about our jobs in the financial industry, how we never saw our partners/wives/husbands/children. Every last one of us had work days that went from about 7/8 am and lasted through to 9/10/11 pm each and every day. We were each successful in our own right. One friend had just had her first baby. Another just got married the year before. A couple of others were about to go on vacation.

We kept complaining, moaning, groaning but none of us did anything about it.

Just a few days later, on Tuesday, September 11, nine of those friends never came home that day. Nine out of a group of twelve.

Through the grief, the horror and the intense sadness and loneliness, I volunteered at Ground Zero. I felt it was an appropriate means to give myself some closure, to give my friends a proper goodbye. It was such a rewarding experience, so enriching, I'll never forget it. Sure, I came home at six in the morning exhausted, covered in soot, my feet on fire, my clothes ruined, filmed in sweat and grime. But it was good.

And then the position for manager of volunteer services for a major city based non-profit agency opened up. I applied, without any experience whatsoever. And much to my shock, I was hired.

I had to take an almost 60% paycut and I don't have an office. I can't afford a lot of the things that I used to. I can't pickup a shirt and pay for it without thought to the cost. I can't buy the nifty gidgets, widgets and electronic gizmos that I love. I have to save for vacations now. Some months are a little more difficult than others.

But we pay our bills on time, rent is always paid in full every month, our pantry and fridge are well stocked. We have clothes on our backs. And I can save a little money.

And after spending so long dragging my butt to work, I now carry my head high. You can't beat that with a stick.

So if this is something you really feel you should do, then do it. If it will bring you happiness, peace of mind, or just satisfy your curiousity, then do it. Who cares what kind of job it is? If you've wanted to flip burgers for a living, or drive a truck, or sweep streets, there is nothing wrong with that as long as you enjoy it.

Life is too short. Life is meant to be lived and work should give you more than just money.
 
Wow, once again a post by RickNYC touches me.
I agree with what Rick said 100%. It just depends on the place you are in your life. When you have kids at home you don't have as much say about your choices. If that is not the case you have more freedom. If it was a job I loved and I had no kids, I might choose to live in a 1room efficiency and drive a much older car.
Come to think of it, I guess I have. In order to be a SAHM I have done without vacations and new cars and a bigger place to live in, and a new tv, etc.
Currently I will be going back to school next year. I am torn between a career path I love, with so-so pay. And one I do like, but it will be tougher, with better pay. Having lived on one income and struggled for several years there is a big part of me that wants to go for the bucks. But I also write, and still hang onto becoming a published novelist. Teaching would give me more time to pursue that.
 
Bravo RickinNYC....good for you !!!!!
 
Originally posted by Tiggeroo
When you have kids at home you don't have as much say about your choices. If that is not the case you have more freedom. If it was a job I loved and I had no kids, I might choose to live in a 1room efficiency and drive a much older car.

Hi there Tiggeroo! <waving>
Actually, I apologize and realize that children do come first. Nevertheless, I truly think that if a change is in need, then do absolutely everything within your power to make that change happen.
Remember that if you're absolutely miserable in your job, chances are that with human nature means you're bringing that misery home to a degree, thus your kids might be effected as well.
That might be a stretch but you never know. Make it a family decision and let everyone understand just exactly what might be effected and how.
I should also say that I didn't just jump right in. I did talk with my partner for quite a bit and we mapped out bills, etc... as well as our future before I made the final change.
It took a lot of thinking, pondering, hemming/hawing.
 
Rick, not critical at all. I applaud your choice. I have told all my kids to find something you love and find a way to make a living at it. And to find a way to make a difference in this world.
My dh managed restaurants for alot of years. He was like an opening mgr. He went in to town when they were opening a new restaurant and handled all of the opening details, particularly in the kitchen. He made good money but it was hell. He worked every holiday and every weekend. If we had kids, he would never see them as he always worked 4pm til 2 in the morning. He loved his job but was hospitalized for stress.
He took a job landscaping and I waited tables while he went back to school to learn hvac and commercial refrigeration. When he first started hvac job it was a big pay cut. Within 5yrs he had his own business that was very succesful. Today he works for a union contractor near NY, plus has a small business of his own. Definitely a good choice. But if he had waited til this point in our lives with one in college and two in high school I doubt we could have made that switch.
Now I'm the one going back to school. In two years we may have 4 in college in our family, LOL.
 
If you had asked me this in April, I would have said yes... but now that I've been unemployed for 3 months I'm getting desperate and anything that pays is looking pretty good right now.
 
:o i'm unemployed and yes thats very much beneath me!
 
not particulary not. I was raised that "any work is hard work" ethic, and it is still grained into my head.

We did all types of jobs... picking bluberries, cleaning horse stalls (horse manure in the summer... YUMMY!), baling hay, and lots of other stuff.

I also remember ironing and scrubbing the floor on hands and knees as a teen.


No, nothing is beneath me. I guess since I have done all those jobs, everything looks great. I can complain where I am all i want, but I keep on remembering blueberries and horse manure and all is well.
 


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