I get asked this all the time, because we've been together for just shy of 11 years.
We met two weeks before our first real conversation when we were both out with different groups of friends at Sidetrack bar in Chicago. I saw my friend Andy from the Windy City Gay Chorus with a group of cute guys near the back bar. I was there with some other Chorus friends, so we all went over to say hi to Andy and his group. Andy explained that the guys he was with were in a musical together called "The Ballad of Little Mikey." My future husband was one of the seven or eight other cast members present, so I was introduced to him, but frankly, I'm bad with names when I'm first introduced to a group of people, so other than Andy, all of the guy's names didn't stick in my brain. We all went our separate ways and while I thought the guys were nice, I truly didn't think about maintaining any kind of friendship, let alone consider a relationship with any of them.
Then, for the next two weeks, I noticed this guy who I was seeing EVERYWHERE I went. I'd be at the gym, and there was this cute guy who was already there doing his workout. I'd be walking to the train, get on, sit down, and there was the same guy I'd seen at the gym. I was selling shoes at Marshall Field's, and the SAME GUY came in to buy a pair of sneakers that we'd advertised, but didn't have in stock. Oddly enough, none of this registered with me that much, I just saw it as a coincidence.
Then, on August 13, 1995, I was at a street fair called North Halsted Street Market Days, one of the biggest summer festivals in Chicago. I was scheduled to work at the Windy City Gay Chorus' booth later in the day, so I went early to enjoy the festival, which was tough because it was extremely hot that day. I was there by myself, and was walking up the street when I saw this guy taking his shirt off... as I was enjoying this lovely scene, when his shirt came over his head and he caught me looking!!! I blushed and smiled, as did he, and we did that thing were you walk away, wait a beat, then turn back to see if the other person is looking back, too... and he was! But, I was still embarassed that he caught me looking, so I went on to the booth to do my shift.
About an hour later, I was working the Chorus booth, when my guy walked by and caught my eye. He came over and said "You're everywhere I've been for the last two weeks... who are you?" So we started talking, exchanged names, went out for dinner, and that night I knew that Page and I were meant to be together.
We dated for three years before our commitment ceremony on September 5, 1998, and I can't imagine my life without him in it!
Long answer, I know, but you can't take chance meetings too lightly! You never know if your future partner has come into your life if you don't pay attention.
On to the next question:
What's the last great book you read, and why should I read it, too?