You definitely have a good understanding of and relationship with credit. I don’t think
@Colleen27 was saying you should feel bad about anything. And you shouldn’t.
I would have to agree though that while your case may not be a good example of privilege, your credit behaviors have given your children an advantage. Many people don’t have that advantage through no fault of their own. We all know that credit systems most heavily penalize those in a disadvantageous economic position. Those penalties can create quite an insurmountable burden.