My DD's junior preK teachers told my husband today that my DD needed to work on increasing her find motor skills.
I can give you some ideas. I'm an aide in a special ed preschool class and most of our kids have this issue. Fine motor has to do with the hands and fingers as opposed to gross motor which has to do with the body.
You want to give her activities that will increase her finger strength and hand-eye-coordination. Have her play with Playdoh or clay and squeeze it in her palms and with her fingers. You can hide beads or other small things in the playdoh and have her pick them out. Have her pick up small objects with her thumb and index finger.
You can also work on stringing beads - start with very large beads and a shoelace before graduating to smaller ones. Also, have her pick up objects with salad tongs or ice tongs. You can also get chopsticks that are connected at the top. These are good for picking up pom-poms or other small, soft objects.
Any type of toys that snap together are good such as Legos. Make sure she snaps them completely instead of just laying them on top of each other. You can also work on fastening large buttons and snaps on clothing.
Believe it or not, coloring is one of the best ways to build fine motor skills. At the pre-K age, make sure to use fat crayons instead of the skinny ones. It will help her get a better grip. In my class, we use broken crayon stubs for the kids who still want to hold the crayon in their fist. The stubs are so small that they have to hold them with their fingers. Later, they can graduate to whole fat crayons or fat pencils. Have her trace lines and simple shapes with crayons in addition to coloring pictures.
You can also look for toys with dials to turn or buttons to push. Also, when she needs a package opened, just tear it a little and let her do the rest. Unwrapping candy with twisted ends is also good practice.
Tearing newspaper into strips is good work for the fingers. If she's not already cutting with scissors, you can start her out on small kid's scissors. Have her snip straws into pieces or do single snips on thick paper (like a manilla folder). The thick paper is easier to hold and makes her work a little harder to snip it which is good for hand strength.
I hope these suggestions are helpful!
