In Search of My Body - Not the One I Ate... Vol. 6: Goddesses just want to have fun

More kudos for the loss Cathie. I've lived by the moderation matra for a while. Good for you.

The week is looking good. DGF and I are back to our usual routines after he mother's visit. I'm playing golf tonight and she's headed to the Y. It's all good. I'm anxious to get on the golf course. I got a fancy, i.e. staggeringly expensive, golf cart yesterday - sometimes I just want to hug the FedEx man! Now to try it out!

I had visit from the bug guy last week. We spied a suspicious pile of sawdust behind the garage. He suggested bug-b-gone and reassured me it wasn't termites. That's all I wanted to hear. It's a local operation and their records show the previous owners used them for termites 15 years ago. I LOVE that kind of continuity.

I need to spray for bugs. We spray around the foundation - outside. I worry about the dogs getting into anything inside. I also need to spray for weeds - another dog worry as the dachshund likes to eat the mint that lingers near the patio.

Off to lunch,
Ronda
 
Hi everyone!
We got back late Sat. evening and had a great trip. Carsyn stayed with our friends and I picked her up yesterday from our airport. Did not gain any weight while on a 10 day road trip!:cool1:

I thought I would have computer access but the villa they rented did not so I will have to get a quick TR out this weekend. Everything was good - wedding date and plans settled - We pulled into Iowa Saturday evening for Treyner's best friends going away party. He left Sunday for marine boot camp. First one of the gang to head out for life after home and there was not a dry eye.

2 unexpected things happened since I left

#1 Last Wed while at Vero - Treyner got a call and the coach for his future college announced his resignation. It's was a huge shock so close to season starting and caused some of those questions of it being the right fit for Treyner to be reviewed briefly. The coach was offered a job being the first American coach to coach a pro team in India. Great opportunity for him and great confirmation that someone who has tons of experience saw potential in Treyner. It does though change some dynamics of the college team/staff but Treyner is still sure. His goalie coach will now be interim head coach so at least he knows and trusts him and maybe it will help Treyner's scholarship poitential if he proves himself next year.

#2 Sunday morning the boys took Ace to a lake to swim and fetch tennis balls - while watching the ball and not his surroundings, the dog ran head first, full speed into a wood parking post. Result - a serious eye concussion that the vet hopes with 3 types of medicine will not have long term eye damage. He seems better today - his eye is foccussing better and not as bloodshot - so I pray that dog keeps improving. It is amazing how close those family pets become in such a short time.

I am off to catch up - hope all of you are fine and your families had a safe holiday. :love:
 
Here is some shocking news...massive thunder storm going on right now. Absolutely pouring buckets. Everything is canceled. Again.
 
Squats require too much of me moving everything. I want to lay down and exercise my ask. What else ya got?
I will not say anything since Nancy who usually picks up on the funny lines left this lie - but this made me giggle like a 8th grader at a slumber party!
Such a lovely thing to wake up to :rotfl2:


Good morning after, everyone! Graduation was wonderful. The weather *finally* cleared yesterday and the ceremony was held outdoors, then we had a housefull of family & friends for a cookout. Lots of fun.


and now- summer vacation begins. :scared:
I am glad it went well for you too! I need some pics my lady!
Closing in three weeks. So miss my pets. We have visitation with them - at my parents. SIL is allergic to them.
Yeah Lisa! I am excited for you and your new diggs!

I ate so much crap (chips, cookies and lots of really yummy homemade guacamole) that I actually was sick to my stomach. Like an idiot, I forgot that avacado is a fatty food and my whole lack of a gallbladder thing might have a problem processing that. Shocker but I too have no gallbladder any longer and never thought about that connection! Thanks for the reminder - I had it out in 1996 - a long time ago so what they may have told me would not stick till now I am sure!

Hi!! Today I'm joining your group. You all seem so happy and motivated. I need to be that way, too.
Glad to have you here!

Good morning!! I made it through day 1. Yay!! That first day is the hardest for me.

Anyway, I'll tell you a little about me.

My name is Heidi. I'm fat. I spent most of my life thin. I've struggled with my weight for the past 10 years. I'm married. My oldest son is in college. We saved and saved for years for college, but it still costs so much. My youngest son is 15.

I decided to lose weight in 2004. We were planning our first family Disney trip, and I didn't want my photos to look like crap. I lost about 50 pounds by doing low carb. It worked. My weight started piling on when I got a bread machine as a gift about 10 years ago. I wasn't a bread person, but I sure became one when I got that machine. I was eating warm bread, cinnamon buns, etc. Then I started eating cereal, which I didn't used to do. Lucky Charms, to be exact. Do you know what goes best with Lucky Charms? Bagels with cream cheese. So, you see where this is heading. I packed on the pounds.
This I can relate to. Just this weekend I heard a new term for the carb riddled psychosis one has binging on bread prodcts - carb nirvana or carb-gasm.:scared1::lmao:


My goal is to lose... a lot. I'm too embarrassed to say what my current weight is, or what my total amount I need to lose is.
Please do not be embarrassed here - these women are the best there is and will carry your feelings and help you keep seeking the best in yourself - even when you want to run the other dirrection.

Oh, and I'm a WDW fanatic. We planned to go back this Dec, but with our son in college, we have to wait. That's okay.
My first is heading in Augst to college - I get the hike in the blls!:eek:

Just read this and thought it might be helpful to some...

It happens — you miss a few workouts and you feel like you've fallen off the weight-loss wagon. It's tempting to mentally slap yourself around, right? (Or head for the fridge.) Before you start, I want to remind you of something: Being hard on yourself is the Old You.
The New You knows how to deal with setbacks and get back on the wagon. And after all, there are no mistakes, just learning experiences. Weight loss is a process — it takes time. You will encounter small failures — everyone does — but every pound you gain can be lost.

And if you miss a workout, it's not the end of the world! Get to the gym the next day and continue to focus on your short-term goals. Just because you made bad choices today doesn't mean you can't start over tomorrow. New day? New beginning. And don't you forget it!


When life throws you curveballs, you can dodge them or let them hit you right between the eyes. Sometimes, though, you don't get a choice. For the moments when you can't avoid them, create a "Rescue Me" list. What kinds of healthy activities make you feel better? How about enjoying a bubble bath, taking a walk, or getting a massage? The next time you're staring down a crisis, reach for the "Rescue Me" list, not a bag of chips.
E - thank you for this - I had to qoute this so I can print it and put it in many places in the house.:hug:
I have been trying to lose weight for a long time, as I've been overweight most my life, even joining weight watchers for a while last year, but gave up. Recently I decided enough was enough and rejoined weight watchers. Monday was my first official meeting.
Another newbie!:yay:
WORD!







I have a tattoo and I love it. I got it at 19--way before it was the in thing to do. It can only be seen if I am wearing a bathing suit (and we all know how often that happens...:rolleyes1). And while I won't get a second one, I might add on to this one at some point.

Well, actually, someday I *might* get a second one. If I ever do a real, full IronMan tri, I will get the IRON distance tat. But really, that is SO far out of my reality right now, that I don't see it happening.
Look at what I wold have missed knowing! - Maybe I did already and don't remember!
Hi Nancy, no not new, it has been there awhile...I just haven't been around!! I have the Athletes Run tee.

I am still adjusting things with the new job. Not liking anything about it so far and really sorry I made the change. I am hoping that passes. I miss everyone here but, frankly, when I get home from work, I don't care if I see the computer again and I have no time for surfing at work right now. Hence my absence. That and my foul mood with the disdain of my choice and some other happenings in my life right now. On the up side, I am managing to run or walk about 4 days a week and lift at home for 2. Not completely off track just a little sideways!!

Miss you all!!
Sorry Lisa PR - I am wishing life gets a bit easier and more enjoyable.
Fireworks? Disney just about did us all in to ever take them in the same way outside of WDW, eh? :laughing:
Baylor said exactly that on the 4th - nothing compares once you have been spoiled by the mouse!

Paula - I am really proud of your loss and new weight you proudly shared! :worship:

Lyz - loved the zoo pic and we travelled through Ohio and I thought of you!
Liz - glad you are back at WW! Hope Em is better.

Amy - I cannot believe how the temp and humidity make an impact on running in Florida - Treyner and Kenny went out for runs by 7 am most mornings and looked like a crazed version of Bruce Jenner within 3 miles. You are a goddess for excersizing in that this summer! :worship:

Hi to everyone else - off to take a walk - cool day here!
 

Kat--I will most likely be at WDW for a day or 2 in September during that time frame. I know this is a family meet up for you, but maybe you could sneak away to meet up for a drink or two? the IL's will be there with us so it would super easy for me to get away. And I will probably NEED to get away. I can only imagine how Disney with the two of them together will be.

I am sure I will need to escape as well. Hopefully I won't be in a corner rocking and muttering to myself, by then!!

Cathie, where are you staying? On-site or off? We will be at Coronado Springs Sept 10-12th and then Beach Club Villas on the 13-18th.
 
We will be there from Sept 10-19, 3 days on our own and then 5 days with a family grand gathering fiasco.

We used to vacation with my whole family. 8 summers in a row. And I think we all know how I feel about my family most days. :eek:

As for running barefoot anywhere, it just doesn't happen. My feet are so bad, I wear tennis shoes around my house. Just ones you slide your feet into.

See now. If I had shoes on that bee wouldn't have been a problem. Or that table. huh. I should consider shoes more often.

Hi everyone!
We got back late Sat. evening and had a great trip.

Welcome back Dawn! How was the trip? Fabulous I hope....:upsidedow
 
Kat-we'll be staying at all star movies the entire time. Wanted to stay at POFQ but his parents didn't want to spend that much so we're at the all starts! Which isn't too bad, we stayed at all star sports last year and didn't mind it too much, I just really want to check out pofq!!!
 
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Tennis here was canceled. Track was canceled. Pool bar is closed. Kids are miserable. I am stir crazy. Seriously, I am SO exhausted. Can't keep my eyes open. It has to be due to the weather b/c I am actually getting enough sleep these days.

WB Dawn!

Bugs...yuck. But we don't have to spray for them, so that's good.

Lyz--interesting, I figured your for a barefoot around the place kind of a person.

Cathie--are you staying in the same room with his parents? And what is up with the "sort of" fiance thing? We'll be needing the details on that! :rotfl2:

 
Pool bar is closed.

Now THAT is simply unacceptable :rotfl:

Cathie--are you staying in the same room with his parents? And what is up with the "sort of" fiance thing? We'll be needing the details on that! :rotfl2:


Is that like saying "a little pregnant"? Really. What's that mean. :laughing:

Sun is currently back out now after storms blew thru earlier. There's more approaching so we're not completely out of the woods yet, but for now at least we are dry.
 

Cathie--are you staying in the same room with his parents? And what is up with the "sort of" fiance thing? We'll be needing the details on that! :rotfl2:

No no no no no not staying in same room. Nooooooo lol. But they wanted us to stay at the same place as them since they've never been to WDW and are afraid of getting lost lol. His mom is kind of psycho attached. She drives me nuts sometimes. Seriously lol.

Well see here's the thing. We have been together for about 6 and a half years now, and have already talked about marriage, and know that we're spending the rest of our lives together, I'm even allowed to start buying stuff since we want to do this next September. BUT I haven't gotten the "official" engagement yet. See, he is still living with his parents for another month or so, was staying with them to pay off all of his student loans, but is getting his own place in about a month. Meanwhile, I moved back in with my parents to get lots of stuff paid off in January this year, and will be moving in with Carlos in December. Now, how this all applies....lol...he has this weird notion that he cannot propose while living with his parents. He has to move out and "become an adult first" lol whatever makes things work for him!!!:lmao:

Sooooo pretty much the fiance, just without the engagement ring :rotfl:

And I keep dropping hints that since we'll be at Disneyworld in September.....and he keeps promising that he'll propose before I move in.... (I have some values I'm sticking to as well and want the promise before I'll move in) well September seems like the perfect time, right?! Fireworks....castle......RING......getting the picture??????

So he's an inbetween boyfriend fiance I guess????:rotfl:
 
TR day 1 (I will have to add pics later as my connection cord seems to have walked off!)

Plan was to leave before noon but Dan's job did not let him off early and so we finally hit the road at 2:40. (After a trip to Baylor's friend to get his sun glasses, the bank, and a car place to get stuff to make the air conditioner work in the van.)

We got one hour down the road and stopped at Wally world to get more airconditioning coolant and some a few extras.

Back in the car and as we entered Iowa - Treyner's girlfriend sent a text that Michael Jackson had died. One of those shockers but not ya know?

We ate egg salad and veggies and chips in the car. I slept finally about 11 p.m. and heard through my sleep Treyner and Dan who were driving, talking about directions. Seems St. Louis had construction and an entire freeway dissapeared. (Sarcastic laughter please because obviously they did not heed some sort of detour) I started driving about 2 am and then Dan again about 6 am. This put us in Tupelo, Mississippi in time for breakfast. We all needed to get out and stretch our legs and straighten our backs. Waffle House and the entire cast of Mels Diner were there to greet us. It was funny because we were obviously not locals and we each stumbled into bright lights, one at a time. The local gang had to keep stopping there food to eyeball us and grunt their "Mornin's." Flo had black, painted on, tight jeans circa 1978 and I have no idea how she sat, zipped or quite honestly, farted without rupturing her appendix.

Dan and I split a meal - kids ate theirs and then we headed to Elvis's boyhood home cause when you hit a wrong road and it takes you to Tuppelo what else are ya gonna do? It was neat to see in person - we did not pay anything for the museum or tour - but after about a half an hour - were on the road again.

Because we were not on the right freeway - we had to cross Georgia and Alabama via highways to get to the right freeway we were running parrallel to. This meant hillbilly hades and some sights I will never want to relive. I had never seen a school bus chopped in half - a watermellon truck they called it. It had the cab part in tact but the back half was a convertible. Stop and go through hundreds of miles of highways and towns and the only great part was a fast food place called Krystals. They had a freezie thing that saved the day in the hot and humid conditions.

We finally pulled into Davenport (outside of Orlando) at about 9:30 eastern time. Our detour and the men's navigational direction slowed us down huge due to highway travel.

It was so awesome to see them and I cannot tell you how late we all stayed up catching up and looking at pics.

We had met our friends actually due to Disney in 2002. Treyner and their son Matthew had slammed into one another at the wave pool at Typhoon Lagoon and they got up, appologized and then Holly and Carsyn came over. We all met at the end of the day and have been friends since. They came and stayed in Minnesota, April 2003 for 2 weeks and we went to Ireland for 2 weeks that summer. In 2004 - we met back up in Florida but have not been able to connect since then.

They rented a house in a gated community for $1,400 for 2 weeks and it was huge. 4 bedrooms, pool and rec room. Vaulted ceilings - perfect for all of us. The kids fell right back into place and it was like time had not passed. The area must be hard hit with foreclosures because there was a sign stating if you bought one property, you got one for free!:scared1:

We got to bed late - and I wish I had taken more pics that day. In fact we hardly took pics the whole trip. I think we were so glad to be with each other that we just were enjoying the moment.

Kenny is a fire fighter and Nikki was the first to do acrylic nails in Northern Ireland. She does them by hand (no electric drills or filing) and there has never been a salon I have seen that can replicate her work. At 18 and 16 theri kids have already started what we consider college so a lot of time talking about the differences in schooling was had.

A funny side note -

Matthew and Carsyn have always had a crush on each other as little kids and there was some thoughts of those feelings at first - but then Carsyn told me there was no chance - after a few days - she could not take his fears and lack of competition. He does not ride any rollercoasters or basically any thrill rides or like to try anything new. Food, travel etc.

Once day we were playing sand volleyball in Blizzard Beach and he would never dive for the ball etc. He wants to be a music producer and is very talented in many arenas but for Carsyn, after he told her he did not want to dive for a ball because he did not want to get sandy - she could not see any future.

My soon to be 16 year old stated, "I need a boyfriend to be more manly and a bit less of a wuss." :lmao:

More to come!
 
So he's an inbetween boyfriend fiance I guess????:rotfl:

Somehow my brain morphed that into "Beyonce". :lmao: wowza. Have to admit, I like that you are holding out for the commitment before you move in. :thumbsup2


Dawn - loving the TR. Mel's Diner. OMG. That musta been a hoot.
 
Somehow my brain morphed that into "Beyonce". :lmao: wowza. Have to admit, I like that you are holding out for the commitment before you move in. :thumbsup2


Dawn - loving the TR. Mel's Diner. OMG. That musta been a hoot.

I am so glad it's late in the day and I'm the only one in the office becuase that just made me bust out laughing in a SERIOUS way!!!!:rotfl::lmao::rotfl::lmao::rotfl::lmao:

Well thank you, I get a lot of comments from people that we should just move in together already and blah blah blah blah rush rush rush rush. We look at it as, we have the rest of our lives, why rush??? I've always thought I shouldn't ever move in with someone unless we both knew for sure and certain we were going to be married. He shares that same view as I do, and also that once you give that promise (that we both think comes at engagement and not actual marriage) that there's no going back, so even if the wedding is a year away, I have the promise, and I'll be good.

I'm gonna have to tell him he's my beyonce now. That's flippin hilarious!!!!:thumbsup2
 
Just back from the gym. Got in a good ride--only 13 miles, but a great pace, so I really worked hard. I feel MUCH better. :goodvibes

Beyonce...that is one for the record books! :rotfl2:
 
Thanks for the TR Dawn. What a first day. It's so neat when people come back together and it works. Great line from Carsyn. She knows what she wants!

Beyonce. He will propose just to lose the tag!

Ronda
 
Dawn - welcome back. Enjoying your TR. I can't believe you drove straight thru. I must be some kinda witch, but I absolutely cannot go more than 17 hours without laying flat on my back. (guess that might make me a ;))Glad you had a good trip. Can't wait to hear more.

Cathie - thanks for the background. Very interesting and I also like that you are holding out for what you want. If not now, then never, right!

E - I'm sorry you are stir crazy. My grandmother in law is taking pity on me. She took the young one today while the other was at the movies, and both of them last week. LOVE THAT WOMAN!!

Kat your comment about hudled in the corner - hi lar ious.
 
Yeah I informed him today that until I get my pretty ring I am going to call him that! lol!!! He wasn't too fond of the idea. He tried to call me something too but really couldn't come up with anything all that clever.
 
Hey everybody! Very long day at work. I'm spent. Read, but too tired to reply. Stuck to eating healthy and even got an hour walk in at lunch along the mighty muddy Ohio River (enjoyed a very nice extra long lunch today). I don't even need a nightcap to knock me out.
 
WTH I am waking up the THREAD???


Steph, Wilson would be a 252 area code... it is about a hour east of me. Congrats on the full-time job! Oh, and LOVE the pool!

You are welcome to come swim at anytime!
As for Sam's friend she is home for the summer, she lives in NC with her Mom and Dad lives here, I think she has spent about 75 % of the summer here with us though.


I am trying to remain awake today... :surfweb:

Liz--I love our bug lady. Bugs are so so gross. Yuck.

Paula--Forgot to ask, what kind of beer were they selling at SPAC? Hopefully it was good beer for 7 dollars a cup.

Erika--I simply can't believe that marathon weekend is only 6 months away. holy crap.

Cathie--WTG on the loss!!

Steph-- I hope your mojitos were from scratch! Your pool looks fantastic? Have you hired a pool boy yet?
Nope sorry Mojito's were bottled. As for the Pool boy I am working on it! LOL!

EE-- Still loving the trip report! I always take off my shoes if I have to make a run for it in the rain here. Even in the grocery store parking lot. I have nearly twisted my ankle and/or slipped too many times.
Yes the other day in the down pour I took off the flip flops and ran like forrest gump!
Here is some shocking news...massive thunder storm going on right now. Absolutely pouring buckets. Everything is canceled. Again.
Yeah we had them too! I actually heard the lightning sizzle through the PA system at work! Saw the flash heard the noise and wanted to hide under something!
It did clear up and Zac still had Baseball. (which they won 30 - 5)


Dawn - welcome back. Enjoying your TR. I can't believe you drove straig
E - I'm sorry you are stir crazy. My grandmother in law is taking pity on me. She took the young one today while the other was at the movies, and both of them last week. LOVE THAT WOMAN!!
Why does no one ever want to take my kids! So not FAIR! Everyone just wants the one who can take care of her self! my mother always takes her SIL take her to babysit! Or she is off at friends houses!

Oh did I mention that Stephen took the kids to his sisters house for a WHOLE weekend by himself! Yes, thats right I had a weekend to myself with the exception of work.. reason I stayed home! BUt yes I was HOME.... ALONE!
 














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