Wow, again, thank you so much DISboarders. You have far exceeded the expectations I had when I created this post. Hopefully there are others out there as well who can benefit from all of this advice. It sounds like several people have had similar experiences, traveling with friends or extended family!
Just to clarify, yes, I am a single woman traveling with a family of four, but I am not a member of that family. They are my friends. Ive babysat for them in the past, but I am not going on the trip as a babysitter (though, Ive offered to take the kids for an evening so the parents can go to a nice dinner). I can totally see how my wording in the OP might have been confusing, but fortunately it seems like most people understood. Basically, I heard they were going to WDW and I asked if I could go with them, and they said yes. Weve vacationed together before and we all get along well, and so far it has been a really fun experience to plan the trip together.
We are definitely okay with splitting up, though we intend to spend the bulk of our time together. As far as going early and meeting up with them later, I might do that on one or two days, but for the most part I am fine with following their schedule and I will use my three days after they leave to do rope drop and maximize everything! My main motive with this post was to find out whether or not it would be worth it to try to convince the family to go early. Ive never gone to WDW or DL during the off-season, and I didnt want to tell them how wonderful it is to get there early if lines were going to be short all day anyway. I also didnt want to let them make the decision to sleep in, and not say anything if I knew that they would regret it later. I want them (and me!) to have the best experience possible, whether that means sleeping in or getting up. But its not like Im adamant about going early and if they dont agree with me then I wont have any fun unless I go off on my own.
This will be my third trip to Disney World (and Ive been to Disneyland several times), and I think the mom and dad have been before as well, though not for several years, but this is the first trip for the kids, and I think it will be their last trip until they are old enough to pay for it themselves. Because of that, I am inclined to encourage them to wake up early, because from what I can tell, most of the people who are happier to take their time and get to the parks later are people who are able to go to WDW more often or who have been enough times in the past that they dont mind if they miss things.
Right now my plan is to gently tell them the benefits of going early, and I will emphasize that while it is the off-season, lines can still get long, and staying late is not as advantageous as going early because the parks close so early that everyone just stays until the end. Im also planning to tell them that of course its up to them and Im just making suggestions, but that Ive done research and Im making the suggestion because I really think they will enjoy themselves more. Then, Ill go along with whatever they decide, and if I find myself getting frustrated or waking up hours earlier than they do, then Ill just go on my own and meet them later.
The family does not want to pay for park hoppers (which I understand, $60 per person for four people is a lot of money if you're not sure you even want to use them) and we've already decided which parks we want to visit on which days (and gotten FP+, which might be hard to change), so it would be difficult to change that to accommodate late EMH, but after seeing what's out there, I might get a park hopper for myself and take advantage of those extra hours! (I know you don't need a park hopper to use EMH, but if we're already at a certain park that closes on the early side, I can leave when it closes and take advantage of EMH at another park) Especially on their last day, 1/24, we are going to Animal Kingdom because they have to leave by 2pm to catch their flight, but if MK has EMK until 2am, I could really take advantage of that! I'm actually not by nature an early riser, and I do love my sleep, but at Disney, I throw that all out the window and I can stay up late and wake up early and, as someone else said, I can sleep when I get home!
I also wanted to respond to the person who said that we definitely dont have FP+ for all the big rides because of the tiers. They are totally right. What I think I meant was, we have FP+ for the things we think are the most important, and we think we can figure out ways to ride the other big rides, even if we dont go early. For example, we have FP+ for TSM, so well try Single Rider for RnRC. We have FP+ for Soarin, and were going to try to get Test Track as our 4th FP+, even if its much later in the day, but we also wont mind if we have to wait in a long line or even skip one or two rides out of all the rides in all the parks. Actually, to be more accurate, they dont mind, and I dont mind because Ill have three extra days to ride whatever we have to skip! But thats a good point, because I can use that when explaining why going early is a good idea- we can ride Test Track at rope drop, for example, and then use FP+ for Soarin, but only if we get there early!
This post is even longer than my first one! Thanks again to everyone for the feedback.
Just to clarify, yes, I am a single woman traveling with a family of four, but I am not a member of that family. They are my friends. Ive babysat for them in the past, but I am not going on the trip as a babysitter (though, Ive offered to take the kids for an evening so the parents can go to a nice dinner). I can totally see how my wording in the OP might have been confusing, but fortunately it seems like most people understood. Basically, I heard they were going to WDW and I asked if I could go with them, and they said yes. Weve vacationed together before and we all get along well, and so far it has been a really fun experience to plan the trip together.
We are definitely okay with splitting up, though we intend to spend the bulk of our time together. As far as going early and meeting up with them later, I might do that on one or two days, but for the most part I am fine with following their schedule and I will use my three days after they leave to do rope drop and maximize everything! My main motive with this post was to find out whether or not it would be worth it to try to convince the family to go early. Ive never gone to WDW or DL during the off-season, and I didnt want to tell them how wonderful it is to get there early if lines were going to be short all day anyway. I also didnt want to let them make the decision to sleep in, and not say anything if I knew that they would regret it later. I want them (and me!) to have the best experience possible, whether that means sleeping in or getting up. But its not like Im adamant about going early and if they dont agree with me then I wont have any fun unless I go off on my own.
This will be my third trip to Disney World (and Ive been to Disneyland several times), and I think the mom and dad have been before as well, though not for several years, but this is the first trip for the kids, and I think it will be their last trip until they are old enough to pay for it themselves. Because of that, I am inclined to encourage them to wake up early, because from what I can tell, most of the people who are happier to take their time and get to the parks later are people who are able to go to WDW more often or who have been enough times in the past that they dont mind if they miss things.
Right now my plan is to gently tell them the benefits of going early, and I will emphasize that while it is the off-season, lines can still get long, and staying late is not as advantageous as going early because the parks close so early that everyone just stays until the end. Im also planning to tell them that of course its up to them and Im just making suggestions, but that Ive done research and Im making the suggestion because I really think they will enjoy themselves more. Then, Ill go along with whatever they decide, and if I find myself getting frustrated or waking up hours earlier than they do, then Ill just go on my own and meet them later.
The family does not want to pay for park hoppers (which I understand, $60 per person for four people is a lot of money if you're not sure you even want to use them) and we've already decided which parks we want to visit on which days (and gotten FP+, which might be hard to change), so it would be difficult to change that to accommodate late EMH, but after seeing what's out there, I might get a park hopper for myself and take advantage of those extra hours! (I know you don't need a park hopper to use EMH, but if we're already at a certain park that closes on the early side, I can leave when it closes and take advantage of EMH at another park) Especially on their last day, 1/24, we are going to Animal Kingdom because they have to leave by 2pm to catch their flight, but if MK has EMK until 2am, I could really take advantage of that! I'm actually not by nature an early riser, and I do love my sleep, but at Disney, I throw that all out the window and I can stay up late and wake up early and, as someone else said, I can sleep when I get home!
I also wanted to respond to the person who said that we definitely dont have FP+ for all the big rides because of the tiers. They are totally right. What I think I meant was, we have FP+ for the things we think are the most important, and we think we can figure out ways to ride the other big rides, even if we dont go early. For example, we have FP+ for TSM, so well try Single Rider for RnRC. We have FP+ for Soarin, and were going to try to get Test Track as our 4th FP+, even if its much later in the day, but we also wont mind if we have to wait in a long line or even skip one or two rides out of all the rides in all the parks. Actually, to be more accurate, they dont mind, and I dont mind because Ill have three extra days to ride whatever we have to skip! But thats a good point, because I can use that when explaining why going early is a good idea- we can ride Test Track at rope drop, for example, and then use FP+ for Soarin, but only if we get there early!
This post is even longer than my first one! Thanks again to everyone for the feedback.