To my sister:
Where do I start? Its sad that your marriage is ending after 14 years, but DO NOT USE YOUR CHILDREN AS PAWNS! STOPE BEING SELFISH with your time. Your kids need you! YOU ARE THEIR MOTHER!
Your job, your career, and your new boyfriend is not a priority. You have three children under the age of 6! The custody you are proposing is preposterous... children can not live two weeks in one house and two weeks in another, and trade off every two weeks... thats crazy. They need stability, and comfort of home. You have moved from Arizona to Mom & Dads house (for six months.. rent free... I had to pay rent when I lived there, and I did NOT EXPECT free babysitting from Mom and Dad), then to your house, and then you are moving out...
The school system your kids are in stinks... you know it, we were in it. Don't make them stay there, it will be a detriment later in their education. You will never acknowledge it, but trust me on this one... the education in elementary school does matter more than you think! Please don't move into the neighborhood you are thinking of... you have choices, make them wisely. You will not be happy in Hampton Lakes, the kids won't either.
And another thing, I am SICK and TIRED of you talking about "your bachelors degree". WE all know its from a smalll unknown school you took correspondence courses for through the Air Force... What are you actually doing with it? Its a sociology degree, for goodness sakes... and you are doing clerical work in the Air Force... stop lording over others and acting like your "stuff" doesn't stink... (quote from DAD!)
Yes, you are the first one with a degree, I am on the way.. but TAKE CARE OF YOUR KIDS and STOP BEING SELFISH! It wouldn't kill you to spend time with them, and not ordering them around like they are part of your platoon!
And I am sorry that MOM says to you "You should have stayed home like Cindy", and " Cindy has her priorities right". My babies were babies for only so long... and then they grow. Now that they are both in full day school now..its better. Am I one of the old ladies in my college classes? YES, but thats ok!
I will have you know that I gave up a career, school, and many other things to make it work. To stay home was more important to me than to climb a corporate ladder. We sacrificed so much to do it, and it WAS WORTH IT!
Boy, do I feel so much better! I've been wanting to say that for a FEW MONTHS now.
Where do I start? Its sad that your marriage is ending after 14 years, but DO NOT USE YOUR CHILDREN AS PAWNS! STOPE BEING SELFISH with your time. Your kids need you! YOU ARE THEIR MOTHER!
Your job, your career, and your new boyfriend is not a priority. You have three children under the age of 6! The custody you are proposing is preposterous... children can not live two weeks in one house and two weeks in another, and trade off every two weeks... thats crazy. They need stability, and comfort of home. You have moved from Arizona to Mom & Dads house (for six months.. rent free... I had to pay rent when I lived there, and I did NOT EXPECT free babysitting from Mom and Dad), then to your house, and then you are moving out...
The school system your kids are in stinks... you know it, we were in it. Don't make them stay there, it will be a detriment later in their education. You will never acknowledge it, but trust me on this one... the education in elementary school does matter more than you think! Please don't move into the neighborhood you are thinking of... you have choices, make them wisely. You will not be happy in Hampton Lakes, the kids won't either.
And another thing, I am SICK and TIRED of you talking about "your bachelors degree". WE all know its from a smalll unknown school you took correspondence courses for through the Air Force... What are you actually doing with it? Its a sociology degree, for goodness sakes... and you are doing clerical work in the Air Force... stop lording over others and acting like your "stuff" doesn't stink... (quote from DAD!)
Yes, you are the first one with a degree, I am on the way.. but TAKE CARE OF YOUR KIDS and STOP BEING SELFISH! It wouldn't kill you to spend time with them, and not ordering them around like they are part of your platoon!
And I am sorry that MOM says to you "You should have stayed home like Cindy", and " Cindy has her priorities right". My babies were babies for only so long... and then they grow. Now that they are both in full day school now..its better. Am I one of the old ladies in my college classes? YES, but thats ok!
I will have you know that I gave up a career, school, and many other things to make it work. To stay home was more important to me than to climb a corporate ladder. We sacrificed so much to do it, and it WAS WORTH IT!
Boy, do I feel so much better! I've been wanting to say that for a FEW MONTHS now.

who feel the need to remind me of when my MIL left her dirty panties on the bathroom rack. Thanks a lot!

