I'm so confused right now..

[cindys_castle2011]

One of my best friends found out yesterday that her boyfriend of 3 years has been cheating on her... with her BEST friend!

Her boyfriend=My boyfriend's best friend.

I trust my boyfriend, and I love him, but I've been so like doubtful these past two days.

I just keep thinking they were the most perfect couple EVER! They started dating when they were 14.. They always seemed so happy.

They shared a locker, when she opened it, his phone started lighting up. So she checked it and it was a text from her best friend to her boyfriend. I'm not sure what it said but something that was very flirty.

She took his phone and brought it to class to read the rest of it. (some may think that's being nosy and an invaision of privacy.. but I would have done the SAME thing!) I just know that it was texts from that night before in there, talking about some things they shouldn't have been..

After class her BFF was walking towards her and she push her and said "YOU *****..."

Now I just know.. she broke up with him apparently. She's devestated and heartbroken. I feel so bad for her, like I wish I could do something for her. But I just don't know what.

I can't stand some guys.... why do they think they can just walk all over someone who has always been there for them.

 

[JulielovesDisney]

Ugh. That majorly sucks for your BFF!! Just stay with her and help her through this. Definitey have a girls night this weekend to help her get her mind off it.

I hope she get's through this quickly! She'll be MUCH better off without him.

 

[disneyworldluvr349]

14 is very young to expect a relationship to last forever, even though it's painful it was almost inevitable. Bleck that makes me sound like such a cynic! But in all honesty no guy wants one girl all through middle school and high school and than the rest of their life...
Just stick by her and support her

 

[cindys_castle2011]

14 is very young to expect a relationship to last forever, even though it's painful it was almost inevitable. Bleck that makes me sound like such a cynic! But in all honesty no guy wants one girl all through middle school and high school and than the rest of their life...
Just stick by her and support her

They're 17 now. Me and my boyfriend started dating when we had just turned 15.

I have to disagree. My parents started dating when they were 15

 

[disneyworldluvr349]

Wow that is something! I know it sounded like a too general of a statement, of course their are exceptions I just know when I was 14 I wasn't mature enough for a serious relationship. I had a hard time settling into high school, but I think at 15 once I was used to it more I would have been more ready.

 

[Babyjustrun]

I wouldn't doubt your relationship with your boyfriend, but I would wonder... did he know it was going on? I mean he was best friends with the guy... and guys tend to brag about stuff like that. Or at least they share secrets that don't leave the room/they don't always defend the person they're bashing.

I mean some guys anyways. Obv not all.

 

[cindys_castle2011]

I wouldn't doubt your relationship with your boyfriend, but I would wonder... did he know it was going on? I mean he was best friends with the guy... and guys tend to brag about stuff like that. Or at least they share secrets that don't leave the room/they don't always defend the person they're bashing.

I mean some guys anyways. Obv not all.

I honestly don't think he knew. I mean he's the kind of person that would let me know if something like that was going on.

From what I know it wasn't going on for long.. like this past weekend maybe.

 

[KidGoofy]

Not saying he knew...but if it is his best friend he probably knew. But it really isn't his business to say something...like he could say "But what about your girlfriend" and stuff but he really can't tell anyone outside of the whole thing. He would be known as a snitch and other inappropriate things and it would probably ruin his friendship with the kid if he did.

 

[dancer067]

I'm sorry. That really stinks. I'm sure your bff is a lovely girl and does not deserve that kind of treatment, no one does. But think of it this way, if he was rude enough to do that, then she's much better off without him.

 

[3mtn-kate]

oh thats terrible i remember i found out after a past ex broke up with me that he had had a fling over the summer with another girl at camp, so I know a little of what she's dealing with it's so tough to deal with a violation of trust like that guys can be terrible sometimes but you really just have to be there for her through this and it is possible to get over, it will take time but soon i hope she realizes how better off she is without someone who disrespects her

 

[Sparx]

i'm confused.

was he actually like physically cheating on her, or was it just flirty text messages and stuff like that? i didn't really understand the op.

 

[cindys_castle2011]

i'm confused.

was he actually like physically cheating on her, or was it just flirty text messages and stuff like that? i didn't really understand the op.

Originally it was thought that they did "hook up". But he just isn't like that. My friend was his first girlfriend, so he doesn't know how to act with other girls, other than her.

As far as we know now, it was just flirty text messages.. on her end. Not so much on his.

So......... I guess it wasn't a big of a deal as it was in the beginning. It still stinks that her best friend would try to flirt and hook up with her boyfriend like that though...

 

[Savikins]

Ouch. I don't understand how someone's "best friend" can do that to a friend. That's just ridiculous, really. I can't imagine the girl's thought process on that. Even if the girl had never found out, I mean god.

This is why none of my friends are female.

 

[Sparx]

i wonder if she was really flirting with him, or like, the texts were just out of context? kwim? its hard to get a tone out of text sometimes.

does this girl have a boyfriend? is she close friends with the boyfriend in question?

and if i was cheating, i wouldn't leave my incriminating phone out for the person i'm cheating on to find. so maybe the texts weren't really that bad, or at least he didn't thinkt hey were, since he didn't say anything or try to hide them.

 

[PigletGurl]

awww. if i ever find flirty texts on my bf's cell from another girl ill dump his flirty butt.

 

[WDWtraveler27]

Today my sister found out that her soon to be ex boyfriend was being flirty with his ex. D: