Changing the metering mode can make a huge difference in the exposure; if there is just one bright thing with a lot of dark around, you will want spot metering in order to get accurate exposure for that. Worst case, you can manually set exposure compensation.
If your camera has a two-second timer, you may want to use that - on mine, it automatically does mirror lock-up and turns off the IS in 2-second mode. Very nice to tripod shooting.
Your next step is probably to play with white balance a little - ideally, shoot in Raw and adjust it later; if you're not ready to do that, try setting WB to Tungsten for your night photos and see if you like that. Your shots are a bit "yellow" which is usually when happens with most DSLRs when presented with tungsten light (like indoors without a flash) - changing the white balance will give you much truer colors.[/QUOTE]
Thank you so much, that is so true about the yellow in the pictures. I looked twice on my WB last night and was just not sure so I set it to Auto. I think tonight I am going to be brave and try mirror lock, I am going to have to find a new shot I'm sure that everyone is tired of seeing the same shot

. I will change my metering as well. I don't know why I was thinking that if I used spot metering that it would only really focus on that one thing.
I really am learning, I promise, sometimes I think I am learning so much at one time and then forget to put into practice when I'm ready to take the picture:rotfl2.
One more request please, we are going Bowling on Thursday and I am sure that I will need a faster shutter speed to get some action shots, but the lighting in there will be horrible I'm sure. Can you send me in the right direction for some how to "In a Bowling Alley{
