I'm not perfect, are you?

TigH

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You know, losing weight is NOT easy. Having this forum has made it MUCH easier for me, but only because I feel comfortable posting here because I feel like I can relate to everyone. For whatever reason, we have gotten out of shape and have some health issues to deal with as a result.

Some of us want to lose weight to look better and feel better about ourselves. Some of us have diabetes and want to get it under control. Some of us have high blood pressure and want to get off blood pressure medication. Some of us have joint problems that prevent us from doing any kind of strenuous exercise, but we still want to lose weight. Some of us just want to improve our overall health. Some of us have other health concerns that I completely missed, I'm sorry!

Whatever the reason, this board is responsible for some remarkable changes in our lives. I am still trying to comprehend that I have made two of my goals. I still have to shed that "fat" me that I am carrying around in my mind. I know several other WISHers have the same problem. Before I started the WISH challenge and before I started WW, I felt like a big fat, waste of life. I had no confidence, I felt like a moron, a dork, someone who did not fit in. I knew I had potential, but I held myself back because I felt UNWORTHY.

I have come to know so many people here just based on the limited contact I have had through the posts I have read. I have so much in common with so many of you, because we share many of the same limiting thoughts about ourselves. What I have come to realize through WISH is that I HAVE WHAT IT TAKES to gain control over my life and feel good about myself.

Nobody is perfect. I don't expect anyone here to be perfect. Many of us will face days filled with stress and we'll turn to food or drink to help us through the stress filled times. Many of us will beat ourselves up for the "bad" choices we make. How is that healthy? What we need to do is realize that we are ALL HUMAN. We will have to face tough days and we will eat the foods that aren't on our plan and we'll feel guilty and THEN we'll get back on track. Maybe we'll have PMS or sprain an ankle or just feel too blue to exercise. SO WHAT? That doesn't mean it's the end of the world!!!!

Every day we have a chance to make new choices. Every day that we put our best foot forward and work to reach our goals makes us a better person. But if we need a break from this routine once in a while, that's ok. Rome wasn't built in a day. We need time to adjust to the changes we are making.

I applaud everyone here!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! If you have signed up for WISH and are lurking or if you post every day, it doesn't matter. The fact that you are even reading this message means you are a winner in my book. You WANT what is best for you. Do yourself a favor and put YOU first.

xo TigH. xo
 
Could never have said it better Karen.

Thank You!

"The only thing about me that is perfect, is that I am perfectly human"
 
I am so far from perfect, but I am loved and that is something to be thankful for!!!!

Thank you Karen my beautiful friend, your posts and wonderful pm's have meant the world to me today. :)

So, starting tomorrow, no more goals, no more pressure, no more feeling sorry for myself. I will be Inspired to Stay Healthy in both body and spirit. Sure, I will have my ups and downs but, I am not going to let it win! I WILL win this time because, although I am NOT perfect, I AM worth it.
 
Excellent post, Karen! Very emotional for me!! Thanks so much for posting this!! :):)
 

***Glup***
...Karen, you really are one of the people on these boards that when I see your name (tigh) I make it a point to see what you have to say. You are an incrediable woman, and I really do value everything you have to say. So I wanted to take this opportunity to say Thanks to you...you always seem to know the right things to say, are always encouraging, and inspirational and motivational!!! Thanks for your words of wisdom (once again)

Tracy
 
I am going to have that tag changed again to "WISH mind reader extrodinaire" You always know exactly what to say when it is needed the most. I am so happy you are here on this board TigH...you are one of the people that make this board what it is, and I thank you.


Lots of hugs my friend.....I wish I didn't miss you by a few hours this weekend :(
 
Well said Tigh. Your timing was perfect as well. I'm sure that you boosted a lot of people's moral. Including mine.

I am far from perfect & you put gracefully put into words what I couldn't.:p

Have a healthy day, all of you!
 
I Love it!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! ANd since I have been far far from perfect for the last 8 or 9 days I need to have a good day today!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! Just a side note

You guys know I love you all right!!!! I could never have gotten this far without you!!!!!!!!! THank You!!
 
Seems like a perfect post though doesn't it?

Thanks for picking us all up.
 
Thanks for the inspirational words, Karen. I SO can relate to feeling ugly and worthless when I get too big. Once a month I get together with a group of old friends. We've been friends since junior high and high school. They probably range in height from 5'1" to 5'4", and their weights probably range from 105 lbs. to 125 lbs. I am NOT exaggerating. They are sweet and petite. And then there is me! I often feel big mamma when I'm out with them. ;)

I can't wait to get to GOAL!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
 
Karen-Thanks so much for that post. I have to agree with everything you said. We are not perfect and never will be, but we have to make the most out of life. We are helping ourselves as we are all here getting healthy and will be a better person because we will feel better. Thanks again for your inspiration.:D
 
I haven't been posting here that much but I do read a lot. One thing that I have noticed about you is how you are ALWAYS so incredibly upbeat and positive. You certainly are a "Tig".
 
Karen, this was just the right thing for me to read this morning as I'm just about to head out to WW. I've had such a slump this week - - not going out of my point range but just not exercising and eating way too many "comfort" foods to get through stress. I won't be at all surprised if I post my first gain today since starting WISH. This little reminder that none of us are perfect and if we slip and slide now and then its still okay really hit home. :D
 
I specifically requested a "perfect" PM buddy and nothing less!

Oh, but you are that aren't you, just because you are you and nothing less :)

That's why I love ya so much, whenever I confess you help me remember that this is a journey, with rises and falls. Thank you for such a sweet inspiration post!

and, I have never thought you could've been a reformed moron! :eek:

hugs to you Karen, you've lifted alot of spirits and cushioned the fall of many so we can pick ourselves back up and embrace the gift of a new day tomorrow:cool:
 












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