I'm feeling a little blue.

[minniesBFF]

I've just had a huge argument with one of my friends and decided she's not really a friend that I want to keep around. She doesn't really make the best choices, and she uses my friendship to get out of trouble because people know I'm a good person. And long story short, she just ruined one of our friend's relationships with his fiance and she has dragged me into it when I was not involved at all.

I'm sort of feeling alone right now, because this girl is also rubbing in my face the fact that all of my friends have started hanging out with her more than me. I guess I'm in a transition stage, finding out who my real friends are and getting rid of my high school friends so I can start making new ones that will last.

I just wanted to let that out, because it's been making me feel really sad. I'm just glad I can come here and know there are people who understand what I'm feeling

 

[~Serenity~]

I've just had a huge argument with one of my friends and decided she's not really a friend that I want to keep around. She doesn't really make the best choices, and she uses my friendship to get out of trouble because people know I'm a good person. And long story short, she just ruined one of our friend's relationships with his fiance and she has dragged me into it when I was not involved at all.

I'm sort of feeling alone right now, because this girl is also rubbing in my face the fact that all of my friends have started hanging out with her more than me. I guess I'm in a transition stage, finding out who my real friends are and getting rid of my high school friends so I can start making new ones that will last.

I just wanted to let that out, because it's been making me feel really sad. I'm just glad I can come here and know there are people who understand what I'm feeling

Aw I'm sorry!
I went through the same thing a while back. A realized the friendship was more toxic than helpful. It'll be better now that' you've got it figured out and won't have to deal with her being a jerk anymore.
It'll hurt for a while but once you start making newer better friends things will be good again.

 

[froggy5657]

Aww It's all for the best, and we are all here for you. As the Spice Girls say "Friendship don't last forever, but DISBoards never ends", well maybe not exactly but it is true anyway

 

[SilverSynchro919]

minniesBFF, are you in college already or are you an incoming freshman? Or neither? XD

Either way, college is an AMAZING time to meet new people and make new friends. I have met some people that I think will be my friends for the rest of my life, and for the most part, I've stopped talking to almost everyone I graduated with. There are a few people I have chosen to stay in touch with, and most of them are younger than me. You'll have amazing friends I'm sure, it just takes some time.

 

[minniesBFF]

Aww It's all for the best, and we are all here for you. As the Spice Girls say "Friendship don't last forever, but DISBoards never ends", well maybe not exactly but it is true anyway

xD very nice interpretation of that song. This is why I love the boards so much. I know I have friends here and people who are gonna be here for me.

minniesBFF, are you in college already or are you an incoming freshman? Or neither? XD

Either way, college is an AMAZING time to meet new people and make new friends. I have met some people that I think will be my friends for the rest of my life, and for the most part, I've stopped talking to almost everyone I graduated with. There are a few people I have chosen to stay in touch with, and most of them are younger than me. You'll have amazing friends I'm sure, it just takes some time.

I'm a freshman in college haha. I've made a couple of friends in college, but its hard to really keep in touch with them other than through facebook because I took online classes this semester. Bad choice, I'm going back to campus next semester. I miss the social interaction. The bad thing is that I still live at home so it's kind of hard to get away from those friends from high school that I want to cut ties with.

Aw I'm sorry!
I went through the same thing a while back. A realized the friendship was more toxic than helpful. It'll be better now that' you've got it figured out and won't have to deal with her being a jerk anymore.
It'll hurt for a while but once you start making newer better friends things will be good again.

I know things will be good again, I'm already feeling a lot better. I just got in touch with one of my friends I made through a play I worked in at the community theatre, and it made me realize that I had a lot more true friends around than I thought. It's all gonna be ok.