I'm depressed.

[Goofyluver]

Honey, I'm so sorry about your mom. When we lose people we love, it's okay to feel whatever feelings come to us. Cry if you need to, it'll make you feel better. Surround yourself with people you love. Talk to anyone you trust. Sometimes it helps to talk. If you think it would make you feel better to see someone outside of your family, do that as well. Make sure you take time to rest. And, no feelings are bad feelings. I'm sorry for your loss. You and your family are in my prayers!

 

[minniesBFF]

I am so sorry about your mom. prayer and pixie dust to you and your family, and stay strong through this difficult time in your life. Just know that you have us to talk to if you are feeling down.

 

[Mackey Mouse]

I am so sorry this has happened to you in your young life. Have you spoken to someone in your immediate family about this, you might need to talk to someone other than family about how you are feeling. It is very hard to lose a parent, even when you are older, so what you are feeling is very normal....Please reach out to someone to get some comfort for yourself.

In the meantime, you have reached out here and I will keep you in my thoughts.. Hugs to you..

 

[ktbutterfly2011]

" Those that we love, and those that love us never really leave us. They stay in our hearts forever." - The Prizoner of Azkaban

I'm so sorry. I can't imagine what you're going through. Please PM me or anyone else if you need to talk.... we'd be more than happy to talk. Don't worry about bothering us because you wont be!

Prayers and Pixiedust for you!

 

[EyoreFANS12]

No doubt I can help you with your hard time pm for any help Sorry

 

[Babyjustrun]

I'm really sorry, I hope things get better.
Right now, it's okay to grieve and feel awful. It's perfectly normal. You just lost your mum, and it's going to be tough. Your friends are just worried that your grieving is going too far. How long has it been since.. you know?
In time, you'll be able to smile again, and think of her and cry not because you miss her so much, but because she was an amazing woman you cared about so deeply and all the good times you had together.

But if you still feel like this, say in about 4, 5, 6 months, you really should be trying to get some help. It's not good to keep your feelings bottled up.

Again, I'm very sorry for your loss and I hope things turn around for you and your family.

 

[BandGeek911]

 

[Steffi]

Oh, honey! You're in my prayers, you and your family.

It's normal for you to feel the way you do right now, it's part of the process. I know that doesn't help, but just know that it really does ease with time.

One of the things sick moms worry the most about is leaving their children behind. Your mom is up there somewhere watching you and loving you and wanting what's best for you...make her proud. Her heart would break to see you so unhappy because of her.

I'm so sorry you're going through this. Take care of yourself and remember that you have friends if you need to talk.

 

[lajones81]

I'm depressed. Why you may ask? I am depressed because a week ago my mother was sent into the hospital. She had breast cancer a year ago. Apparently it had come back and now she's gone. I feel like I'm going to cry just typing this. I really miss her and feel really depressed. My friends say they're worried because i act really sad and i already have a broken ankle. My life is not going well at all. Although I have a boyfriend who is sweet but can't take away the pain. I miss my mom and want her back and I feel so depressed. If anyone could say something that might make me feel a little better I would appreciate it. I miss my mom and want her back. this how i feel:

I am really sad about this and miss my mom.

Depression is a very scary thing, as is losing your mom! I am so sorry for your loss! Please let us know if there is anything we can do!

 

[Hollister]

 

[RrCoAsTeR]

I am so sorry.

This is still new, and teh hurt is fresh. Cry as much as you need to. I can't imagine how you. Love from all of us, and you are in our prayers.

PM me, or anyone, if you need ANYTHING. We're all more than happy to listen.

 

[Christine]

I'm so sorry to hear about your mother.

I am a mother myself (I have a 15 year old and a 12 year old). I had several breast cancer scares this past year. I was so worried for my children and me leaving them behind.

As a mother, I can tell you that I am sure that your mom's 100% concern through her illlness was YOU. It must have been horribly heartbreaking for her. This probably isn't making you feel better, huh?? But please know that your mother loved you more than you could possible ever realize and, if it is indeed true, she is looking down on you and she will always be with you in some way.

I'm so sorry that you had to go through this. No matter what your friends might say or how worried they are, it is very normal for you to feel the way you and you will probably feel sad for a very long time. One day the sadness will lift a bit and you will start remember all the happy memories that you and your mom shared and the grief will not dominate you life.

Hang in there and know that we are always here at the DIS.

 

[Ampris]

How terrible. ... that must be heartbreaking. I hope, hope HOPE that you can find someone kind to talk to and ease the pain, I can't even imagine what that must be like. You have every right to be depressed, y'know, as long as it doesn't do any harm, it's only natural. Find someone you can cry to, tell them how you feel. I wish I was there to help you...

Just remember that she's in a better place now, and try to be happy for her. I hope you feel better soon, and please don't stay depressed forever. Remember your mother forever, how much she loved you and all the time you had together, but don't grieve endlessly, you deserve to be happy again.

And I'll always be here whenever you need someone to talk to, okay? My PM box is yours.

 

[StephaBabe50]

I'm so sorry to hear about your mom :[
Things will get better though, its just really hard at first.
A couple of years ago my friend's dad died. She went to a camp that was for kids who had lost a parent. Maybe you could check that out, I'm sure it would help if you're feeling sad to know that other kids around you know exactly what you're going through...
We're all here for you

 

[2HOT2touch]

babe, I am sooo sorry to hear about your mom, but I know what your going through, and I am going to tell you right now you are alot luckier than I was. My dad died when i was 5! so I only had 5 years of memories but you have so many more of your mom. All I can say is think of all the memories it will hurt, but it deffinately helps. I know it could be hard to talk to family members about it, It has been 11 years since my dad died and I still can't talk to my mom about it. And your lucky that you knew what was going on, when my dad died to me it seemed like he just left me, becase I had no idea what was going on, one day he was there and the next he wasn't. and not to make everything worse but I don't want to lie to you, your gunna have your good days and your gunna have your bad days, but the hurt never goes away. Still to this day random things will make me think of my dad and I will just burst out crying, but I promise you will get through it and you have people that love you and your mother loved you and she is still looking after you. If you EVER need anyone to talk to PM me or IM me at ilikeurboyxo on AIM. I am so sorry to hear about your mom.

 

[jenny_disney]

I so sorry to hear this. It must be such a sad time for you right now.

(My aunty is currently having treatment for breast cancer. Fingers crossed she's going to be ok)

 

[DramaGirl]

I am so sorry for you and your family. I am always here to talk. I just lost someone who was like a grandma to me to breast cancer, so even though I know I can't even begin to imagine losing my mom, I understand.

 

[C.J. Sparrow]

I'm depressed. Why you may ask? I am depressed because a week ago my mother was sent into the hospital. She had breast cancer a year ago. Apparently it had come back and now she's gone. I feel like I'm going to cry just typing this. I really miss her and feel really depressed. My friends say they're worried because i act really sad and i already have a broken ankle. My life is not going well at all. Although I have a boyfriend who is sweet but can't take away the pain. I miss my mom and want her back and I feel so depressed. If anyone could say something that might make me feel a little better I would appreciate it. I miss my mom and want her back. this how i feel:

I am really sad about this and miss my mom.

I'm so sorry. Losing someone you know very well (not just relatives), especially your mother, really hurts. No one deserves to feel that pain. No one.

 

[CrazyChik]

i'm soooo sorry

i dont know your pain so i wont say i understand but im hear for you if you want

 

[luvsmickeymouse]

First of all, I am so sorry that you have lost your mom. Come on over to the coping and compassion board whenever you would like, we will all welcome you with open arms. See a bunch of us are there for one reason or another, and its a safe place to go and cry if you feel like it, or just write something to get it out. Its a great place to go and just read what others, myself included, have written.

Here are hugs for you

We are always praying for each other.

No one judges over there and you can feel free to be yourself.

Again, I am so sorry about the loss of your mother.