I'm depressed.

[Tink-a-boo]

So sorry about your loss! Just know that she will always be looking down on you. Pm me if you want to talk.
MY prayers go out to you and your family.

 

[life of the party]

i know there is nothing really that can take all the pain away but there are so many people in your life that can make you feel sooo much better!! talk to the rest of your loved ones and give yourself a good cry.. that always helps me!

 

[zalansky]

I am so sorry for you! I know your pain, my Mom died when I was 29 years old. Not the same because you're younger, but I was still very involved in Mom's life. I had no husband, boyfriend or kids back then. I took it very hard and took some anxity pills for a few weeks to help cope. I immersed myself back into my life and tried to keep myself busy. But when I was alone the pain set in. This sounds awfully corny in ways, but you need to feel that pain. This is how we heal. Here I am 9 years later and I still miss her but it is a different, easier pain to handle. It gets easier, hold on.
I lost my Dad 4 weeks ago on Valentines Day and now I have kids and a husband and that helps enormously. But again I am keeping busy, avoiding the pain, until I am able abd ready to deal with it.
I hope you find peace in your memories and remember, mom is always watching you. Life your life to make her proud.

 

[chexie]

I'm so sorry for your loss i recently lost a loved so i know what your going through. If you need anything everyone on these boards are here for you. And we are snding all of our prayers and love to you and your family.

 

[Belle1997]

Oh so sorry. Just letting you know another is thinking about you.

 

[RoxyTori<3]

omg i cant imagine that i feel so bad!! feel better!!

 

[Deesknee]

Prayers to you and your family. I agree with the others, give yourself time to grieve, but don't live there. Your mom wouldn't want that for you. I know as a mom of 4 I wouldn't want my kids to live in grief. Sometimes we don't realize we are stuck in grief, that's were others come in handy, perferably grief counselors. I sought one out after my brother died. The best advice that was given me was to talk about my dearly departed. To talk about experiences we had together. Sometimes it was hard on other people who were still grieving, but I had to. Today, I laugh about all the wonderful times we had. I still miss my brother, but I live in the present not the grief.

May you find the happy memories fill you on a daily basis soon. But until then let the tears roll. Feel the grief, then you will be more able to allow the happy memories in.

 

[rwrocksme]

oh dear...write if you ever need to talk, okay? i'm here for you--we ALL are!

 

[AngienLuLu]

I'm so sorry.

 

[tinkerbellblondie19]

I am so terribly sorry!

 

[tinkerbelle22]

Oh my God. I am so, so sorry about your mom! This must be an extremely difficult time for you. As has been said, if you ever need someone to talk to, I'm here, we're all here. I'm sorry sweetie

 

[jimmytammy]

We are so sorry for your loss. We pray that God will give you strength and peace for the coming days.

 

[EeyoreFan1]

Oh honey! I'm SO sorry!! Pm me if you ever want to talk!

 

[Jasmine45]

My prayers are with you. I know my aunt had breast cancer. but she made it through. This year me my mom my sister and my brother are working for a camp good days charity. It supports people with all kinds of cancer

 

[BeachBabi0]

first of all, im really sorry that all of this is happening to you. second, i believe that everything happens for a reason. maybe this is meant to make you stronger. maybe you are being taught what its really like to be on your own for a while. i dont know, but i do know that everything is going to turn out just fine. really. if you wanna talk, pm me any time.