I'm a little sad now

[simba928]

Sorry, about posting this. My mom will just be like "oh well, your young, you'll get over it." And I don't want to bring it up with any of my friends because they'll start crying too.
My friend, "J" is moving to Lousiana tomorrow. It didn't really sink in that she was moving until on the bus today. Another friend of mine, "K", started crying. Then J teared up a bit and then I started. I am sitting here right now crying. I am a little upset now and I have band tonight for 3 hours. Don't really want to go.

 

[mickeyboat]

Hugs, hugs, hugs.

I am sorry you are feeling so sad. I moved a lot growing up, the worst time was after 9th grade. I had a boyfriend (who is today my DH) and a lot of great friends, and it was so hard to say good-bye.

Keep in touch with your friend. She will really appreciate your calls and letters while she is coping with all of the changes she is facing. Maybe you guys could plan a visit some day.

Denae

 

[Stitchfans]

So sorry losing a friend can really hurt. Maybe the two of can keep in touch by writing back and forth.

 

[LoveWDW]

It is natural for you to feel teary and unhappy. Wash your face in cold water, and go to band even though you don't feel like it, if you possibly can. It may help take your mind off the sadness for a while. Let yourself cry as much as you need to. In time, you'll enjoy keeping in touch with your friend. Good luck, and hugs.

 

[ADisneygirl]

It is perfectly normal to feel sad when our friends are moving away, no matter how old we are. I am probably old enough to be your mother and I am teary-eyed because a close friend of mine is moving out of state and I will hardly ever get to see her anymore.

It will be difficult for awhile, but you should try and keep busy and keep your normal routine, like going to band practice. Keeping busy keeps our mind off sad things. You will cry from time to time, but that is part of having feelings for others. Don't feel bad about having normal human emotions. Promise yourself to keep in touch with "J" and keep busy.

 

[pattyT]

oh sweetie -
i know it is soo hard...

will you be able to chat online?
when I was a kid we didn't have computer and I don't know what happened to my friends now just do your best to keep in touch...

 

[tarmand]

You know what? When I was a kid, I was always so jealous of other kids who had friends in other states. To me it was so cool to know someone somewhere else. Just think of how much fun you guys can have when you go and visit her!

 

[AmazingGrace]

I'm sorry you're going through this. I'm losing alot of friends right now. A bunch are leaving and we're leaving in a month and half. I wish that there was something i can say to make this better for you.

 

[simba928]

Thanks yall. She is going to call me when she gets there and maybe sometime in the future, we can visit eachother or something. I am sure she'll come back here occasionally. We will definitly keep in contact through IM, though.