Sorry but I want to get this off my chest. When we were in WDW my sister and I were planning on taking a day and driving a couple of hours to see my Grandmother and my fat lazy Aunt. Well when it was time to go - my Sister decided that she didn't want to take my nephew away from FUN for a day to sit in a car. So that was fine - SHE called my fat lazy Aunt and told her... ( I wasn't making that call LOL). So I spoke with Grandmother since and she understood, although she would have loved to have seen us. So yesterday I searched and made flight arrangements to go and see them for a weekend. I'm leaving on Friday 12/6 Morning and comming home Sunday Afternoon. ( Monday is Chris' Birthday). So I just got off the phone with my Fat Lazy Aunt and she's not very happy that I'm only staying a couple of days!!!
1st off - it's better than staying for a few hours, as would be the case 2 weeks ago.
2nd - I don;t have much Vacation Time left.
3rd - She really pisses me off sometimes! It was HER decision to move and take Grandmother away from ALL of her Grandchildren / Great Grandchildren here in NY / NJ / CT.
Lastly - My Fat Lazy Aunt commented before I made the reservations that I may never see Grandmother again, cause she's getting weak. She is 95 God Bless Her!.
So yes - I fell for the guilt, although It's always a pleasure to see Grandmother. And sometimes my FLA too, but she's so selfish! UGH!
Thanks for letting me vent!
1st off - it's better than staying for a few hours, as would be the case 2 weeks ago.
2nd - I don;t have much Vacation Time left.
3rd - She really pisses me off sometimes! It was HER decision to move and take Grandmother away from ALL of her Grandchildren / Great Grandchildren here in NY / NJ / CT.
Lastly - My Fat Lazy Aunt commented before I made the reservations that I may never see Grandmother again, cause she's getting weak. She is 95 God Bless Her!.
So yes - I fell for the guilt, although It's always a pleasure to see Grandmother. And sometimes my FLA too, but she's so selfish! UGH!
Thanks for letting me vent!
It sounds like your fat lazy aunt is very manipulative, but it also sounds like she loves you a lot.

Family wouldn't be family without one. 
