


Mine are 4.6 and 9...and yeah they pretty much do plan the trip.
I ask them each to give me a restaurant they want to eat at there, then I pick the rest but only pick the ones I know they'd like. We have them each write dowm three rides they must do per park, we then decide how to tour from that. When we have free time we ask them what they want to do.
Honestly I never even thought about planning a trip without making them 100% involved.

(Yes, I'm proudly raising nerds!) The next day would be spent at the Studios watching the Indy and Lights shows during the day and Fantasmic that night...and riding Star Tours, The Great Movie ride, and Toy Story Mania repeatedly. The next day we would spend alternating riding Buzz and eating cinnamon rolls at the Main Street Bakery. 
My boys (who were just shy of 3 and 5 during our trip last year) would split their time evenly between the Boneyard and Tom Sawyer's Island. I still giggle that we spent 3K+ for them to play in a fancy sandbox last year, but that was their favorite thing, so we visited it a couple of times! --Katie
