Right after we left WDW last Oct, their answers were
DD9 - 'Ohana, Cape May, Chef-Mickey's breakfast, 50s Prime Time (the last two due to the desserts)
DS7 - 'Ohana, Cape May, 1900PF dinner
DS5 - 'Ohana, Sci-Fi, Chef Mickey's breakfast
Asking them now for this next trip, they've changed it some...guess they hold some longer-term attachment for different places...
DD9 - 'Ohana, Chef Mickey's, Le Cellier
DS8 - 'Ohana, 1900PF, Le Cellier
DS6 - Sci-Fi, 'Ohana, Le Cellier.
Seems they all remember the bread-sticks fondly at Le Cellier, and love 'Ohana for the games (and gummy worms), and shrimp. mmmmm!
Depends on if your kids are on the shy side ('Ohana..active, but they can just watch the activity and enjoy that, or participate in a big group...Sci-Fi would be good too), or like to interact with characters/waiters (CP, Chef Mickey's, 1900PF, 50sPT, WCC). Mine were tentative starting the week...then were more and more interactive. Even at the end of the week, they still didn't have the guts to go to the 'kid pit' at Biergarten until their 2nd beer.
(j/k)
Have a great trip!!