On a mommy and me trip:
ADR: they are reservations for dining, available at all table service, and can be booked online, on the phone, or at Guest Relations in the park.
Plan a princess breakfast (Norway is cheaper than any of the others), or do the Princess Tea Party at the Grand. Gotta do at least one girl thing (as long as she's a girly girl).
DON'T go commando style... you should at least wait for your hubby to do that. Make more about all the special things Disney has to offer, then when you go as a family you can experience all the rides and other stuff that you've probably planned out for 2011.
Full Day 1: Magic Kingdom: I really do like the Move It, Shake It, Celebrate It mini main street parade they do. It happens like 3 times a day, 2 in the morning time and once at like 5. It's an audience participation parade like the former Family Fun Day Parade. So any where around the castle hub you'll be able to join in the fun.
For Wishes, I'd ride the monorail around to the Poly, and at the food court (first floor, off to the left behind the gift shop) is Captain Cooks food court. There, they have self serve Dole Whip... I can pile it a foot high in one of those little cups. Just be careful, the pineapple only is really really sweet, I go for the pineapple/vanilla swirl.
Full Day 2: Epcot
Check the times guide for the Candy lady in Japan, and be sure to watch one of her shows. Be there extra early if you want to be right up front and you might get called on.
If you have a Disney Visa card, there's a special meet and greet for members, and you receive a free photo.
Don't forget to try a Koki Gori that they sell in Japan (it's to the left of the pavillion heading towards America). It's so yummy. They also sell funnel cakes in America (and the only other place is sleepy hollow in Liberty Square at MK). These are two of my favorite treats. Both cheap, the funnel cake you can split and the koki goris are cheap enough.
My favorite spot for Illuminations is right between world showcase shops (the two shops as you enter into WS), if the wind isn't bad, they open up the front area in front of the planters. It's sitting on your butt only, but you're close enough to feel the fire. Norway is another good spot.
Take your time exploring Innoventions... it's often overlooked and rushed through. I love the Waste Management game.
And Seasons is highly yummy food court, it's inside the Land. not the typical burgers and fries, and the portions seem a lot bigger than other places.
At the Land, they also offer the Behind the Seeds tour. It's like 15$ per person or something like that. Short walking tour of the green houses, and they usually let you pick something growing to eat, like the tomatoes. It's different, off the beaten path, and relatively cheap in comparison to some of the other tours.
If you love ice cream, it's a very short walk over to the Beach Club resort, and there they have Beaches and Cream, an old fashion soda shop.
Full Day 3: Resort Hop. There's so many cool things that each resort has to offer, it can take a whole day to check it out. This will definatly have to wait for a later post (cause it's 1am... and too much for me to think right now). And a good opportunity to do the Princess Tea Party. There's also an afternoon tea party that isn't quite as much.
that my mind went to a naughty place. In my defense, my DH is deployed so maybe I am easily swayed. 
that is if I actually get to go sooner than later.
