i want to ask my aunt for a date

[ChrizJen]

I was willing to s-t-r-e-t-c-h and give you the benefit of the doubt before, but after reading more of your posts, you're just selfish, sick, and wrong! You have serious issues, and you should probably seek counseling BEFORE you try to enter into a relationship with anyone. If you are indeed who you say you are, and you're as old as you say you are, then you need to take a step back and take inventory of your life. There's at least one teenager here on this thread who has more sense and decency than you do.

Just to be blunt and honest, there is not ONE person on this thread who seriously thinks you should do what you're proposing doing. And as for the spelling and grammar, it's not something that can be covered on a discussion board. If you can't figure out what's wrong with your spelling/grammar, then you should probably look into taking a class...

 

[Agri]

Let me tell you a story:

Cousin Ann comes to visit Cousin Brad (first cousins). Cousin Brad is more than 5 years older than Cousin Ann. Cousin Ann has had a rough time and moves in with Cousin Brad's family temporarily. Cousin Ann is emotionally vulnerable. Cousin Brad and Cousin Ann end up making with the love on several occasions.

Years later, I am dating Cousin Brad who calls me up and tells me there is a huge problem in his family. Cousin Ann has told everyone what has happened as she has been in therapy for years(!!) following what Cousin Brad did to her. Cousin Brad doesn't know what to do because his family is upset with him, but he doesn't think he did anything wrong because "Cousin Ann wanted it."

Cousin Ann was 15 when it happened, Cousin Brad was 22.

I no longer have any communications with Cousin Brad after that bombshell.

Lesson: Don't make with the love with relatives - blood-related or not - because it won't go well and will eventually cause a lot of heartache and drama. And you don't want to be like Cousin Brad, alone and forever known as "Cousin-boinker".

 

[LondonUnderground]

I definately agree with the above, about counselling.

Sorry if my spellings are bad to you guys, I'm British, haha. So we spell things differently

But surely by saying 'I'm a factory worker, which is why I can't spell because I don't get payed as much' would lead people to believe that no factory workers can spell or punctuate correctly? I know that's getting a bit OT but whatever...

 

[manning]

I know things can get tough out there but...........

 

[pixiechick]

Lesson: Don't make with the love with relatives - blood-related or not - because it won't go well and will eventually cause a lot of heartache and drama. And you don't want to be like Cousin Brad, alone and forever known as "Cousin-boinker".

Now there are words to live by.

 

[It'sWDW4me]

This is WAY more entertaining than the New Year's Eve thread from last year. C'mon WallE1 - is this you? This can't be real - noboday could possibly be this....... amazing.

 

[shouldiask]

I definately agree with the above, about counselling.

Sorry if my spellings are bad to you guys, I'm British, haha. So we spell things differently

But surely by saying 'I'm a factory worker, which is why I can't spell because I don't get payed as much' would lead people to believe that no factory workers can spell or punctuate correctly? I know that's getting a bit OT but whatever...

someone asks what i do for a living so i told them

 

[LondonUnderground]

Check out my tags, one year old on NYE Long live WallE-1's thread!
THAT WAS SO FUNNY, OH GOSH.

 

[Agri]

Now there are words to live by.

Of course, we use a word that rhymes with sucker instead of boinker, but the sentiment is the same.

I'll throw in another freebie - Don't eat the paste. Everyone remembers who ate the glue in school.

 

[Kat77]

This is WAY more entertaining than the New Year's Eve thread from last year. C'mon WallE1 - is this you? This can't be real - noboday could possibly be this....... amazing.

Oh, Dear... You are so very lucky to have never met any of the amazing people out there. I can take you to a few little towns in East Texas someday for good, fiesty adventure. I am not knocking East Texas, I grew up there and love my state. There are just some places where you seriously wonder if it's safe to bathe considering what must be in the water...

 

[scotlass]

Is your Aunt Countney Cox ??

Not that that would change my view but I could maybe cut you more slack.

 

[DisGirlAllie]

OP, don't knock the south when you have difficulty capitalizing your 'i's and using apostrophes.

 

[LondonUnderground]

Trust me when I say, teenage girls have a lot more on their plate to be worrying about than mummy running off with cousin. The years of boy troubles, coincidentally (;

 

[scarscar93]

I'm sure that this has already been touched upon, but I'm too lazy to go back and read through every post. If she has just gone through a divorce, her girls are already going through a lot: Their parents' marriage ceasing to exist, having to go back and forth between houses, getting used to not having both parents around all the time, and living with the knowledge that their father was unfaithful (if what you say is true).

It would be really selfish of you to impose on them the awkwardness of their mother dating their uncle by marriage, especially so soon.

 

[shouldiask]

it seems to me that 90 percent of you think you have a perfect life. Im glad for you i hope your life remains perfect. at one time i thought my life was perfect.

 

[scarscar93]

I know I'm certainly not in that 90 percent, I was just speaking on experience from my own parents' divorce.

 

[HelenePA]

it seems to me that 90 percent of you think you have a perfect life. Im glad for you i hope your life remains perfect. at one time i thought my life was perfect.

perfect? nahhhh OP instead of working so much OT maybe its time to start looking for a nice gf (outside of your relations that is) get a hobby, go to a bar, play pool, movies.. maybe you do all those thing I dont know but isnt there any other girls your interested in dating besides your aunt?!?!

 

[LondonUnderground]

I don't have a perfect life? My aunt has been through divorce, and is perfectly happy by herself, with one son and 2 grandchildren.

 

[Agri]

it seems to me that 90 percent of you think you have a perfect life. Im glad for you i hope your life remains perfect. at one time i thought my life was perfect.

I don't have to have a perfect life to know that asking someone I'm related to for a date is a dumb idea that is going to cause a lot of problems. Even if you're not blood-related, you are still related through her children. Would you want to tell someone the guy your parent is dating is also your cousin?! Can you imagine that getting out to everyone in school? Jeebus.

And really, asking out someone who is going through a divorce is just in extremely poor taste - especially if they haven't show any inclination to dating or any slight hint of being interested in you. (That's not even touching on the fact that this woman is family.)

And honestly, if having the hots for an aunt is the biggest problem you have right now, you're darn lucky.

 

[LondonUnderground]

I don't have to have a perfect life to know that asking someone I'm related to for a date is a dumb idea that is going to cause a lot of problems. Even if you're not blood-related, you are still related through her children. Would you want to tell someone the guy your parent is dating is also your cousin?! Can you imagine that getting out to everyone in school? Jeebus.

And really, asking out someone who is going through a divorce is just in extremely poor taste - especially if they haven't show any inclination to dating or any slight hint of being interested in you. (That's not even touching on the fact that this woman is family.)

And honestly, if having the hots for an aunt is the biggest problem you have right now, you're darn lucky.

Absolutely agree with this. Think of the families for instance that have members serving abroad in the armed forces?