i want to ask my aunt for a date

[famofsix]

This thread is hilarious!

Ok OP here is my opinion: Don't ask her out and don't move her in with you. You'd be the "rebound" man and she'd regret it and dump you!! Give it a year or two or ten!!

I'd say give it a "never"

 

[ginna74]

maybe you should ask her kids for her hand in marrage?

 

[Piglets Mommy]

I'll take 400 for Ways to screw up your kids, Alex.

Oh Tag Fairy.....

 

[Microcell]

Yeah... I havent been to the Community Board for over a year.. and I decide to catch up with some old friends... and I see this... back to the safety of the budget board!

 

[tink20]

If this is "for real", then NO, you cannot ask her out. Its an unspoken rule. Just like you wouldn't go out with your friend's ex. I would be so upset if my DH's nephew ask me out (if we were getting divorced) Plus, she is going through a rough time, the last thing she wants is someone making her life harder than it is now. FIND SOMEONE ELSE!

 

[klynn]

Is your cheating uncle your mom's brother or your dad's brother? Why don't you ask them what they think of you asking your aunt out? I'm sure they would have more insight than any of us.

 

[ginna74]

yes maybe you should ask mom and dad for her hand in marrage along with uncle too. Make this a whole family affair!!!

 

[shouldiask]

I know everyone's insinuating that this is a "southern situation"... but I'm thinking the OP is from up north... there aren't many "townships" in the south. I think some in Louisiana, but none I am aware of in TN, FL,GA, etc...

you are correct. im surprise no one has asked by now

 

[shouldiask]

Is your cheating uncle your mom's brother or your dad's brother? Why don't you ask them what they think of you asking your aunt out? I'm sure they would have more insight than any of us.

mom's half brother

 

[Disneyfreak616]

ummm...this is so weird! Your cousins would be so creeped out by you dating their MOM!!!!!! I say NO. There has been a TON of cheating and divorce in my whole family and everyone just gets over it and moves on with their lives. They don't all date each other to fill the void! My goodness! This is kind of hilarious though. If your username weren't "shouldiask" i would think it was all a biggg joke.

 

[tvguy]

I think there should be a rule. NO controversial threads unless you have at least 500 posts. Enough of this "posting under an alias" nonsense. If what you have to post is SO controversial that you are embarassed to put your name to it, then you have no business posting it on the net.

And how do we define controversial? There are people who think a post comparing Coke and Pepsi is controversial.
But, back to the OP.......as an old foggie I can tell you two things.
First, the more bizzarre something sounds, the more likely it is to be true.
Second, if you have EVER done any genealogy on your family, you will be shocked at what some of your ancestors have done. This case, with non-blood relatives, is pretty tame.

 

[alaskagirlchrissie]

Guess you forgot about capitalization since then, huh?

what's the point of being overly critical? wow.

 

[Kat77]

And how do we define controversial? There are people who think a post comparing Coke and Pepsi is controversial.
But, back to the OP.......as an old foggie I can tell you two things.
First, the more bizzarre something sounds, the more likely it is to be true.
Second, if you have EVER done any genealogy on your family, you will be shocked at what some of your ancestors have done. This case, with non-blood relatives, is pretty tame.

So true! (Where o' where is that tag fairy?!)

 

[Jennasis]

I'll tell you what OP. You come clean and start posting under your REAL name and not your sock puppet alias, and maybe just maybe I'll take you seriously.

No more monkey business.

Ah this thread has been good for a laugh.

 

[pixiechick]

I'll tell you what OP. You come clean and start posting under your REAL name and not your sock puppet alias, and maybe just maybe I'll take you seriously.

No more monkey business.

Ah this thread has been good for a laugh.

well, he would, if society would stop judging his feelings.

judging the replies, do you blame him?

somewhere, there's a middle aged man ( a factory worker who makes a good salary, I'll have you know,) mooning over his maybe, soon-to-be divorced aunt by marriage.

For once people, can't we just embrace the romance in that?

 

[Magic Mom]

well, he would, if society would stop judging his feelings.

judging the replies, do you blame him?

somewhere, there's a middle aged man ( a factory worker who makes a good salary, I'll have you know,) mooning over his maybe, soon-to-be divorced aunt by marriage.For once people, can't we just embrace the romance in that?

HALF-Aunt. Get your family dynamics straight.

 

[JessicaR]

mom's half brother

Just have at it - who cares what others think.

 

[pixiechick]

HALF-Aunt. Get your family dynamics straight.

clearly, I suck at this. my apologies.

wait, I was on his side. I think... maybe.... he wants to date his who?

 

[Liberty Belle]

im a factory worker. but i probaly make more than most of you. 26.21 an hour. when bush was in office two years i made over 100 most of the time it was in the 90's. since obama has been in it its been in the 80's alot less overtime. so what is wrong with my grammar is it because i dont captialize my i's?

Like I wasn't depressed enough, already.

 

[boyob13]

I'm thinking this is real now, with what the OP's posted.

Look, your obviously aren't taking our opinions unless they support your own, but you really should talk to someone in your family about this. They'll know much better than us on what will be appropriate in your family.