I think I'm going to cry... (HELP!) (Update)

[LUCiD]

Little update here...

ex-friend is treating me like the bad guy still. she wants me to forget about her, told me im basically inferior to her other friends, and is basing our former friendship on the fact that i can't name her favorite shade of green, favorite three animals, etc...

apparently my friendship wasn't enough for her, and, though i won't say specifics, she's a flaming hypocrite.

 

[Imzadi]

Little update here...

ex-friend is treating me like the bad guy still. she wants me to forget about her, told me im basically inferior to her other friends, and is basing our former friendship on the fact that i can't name her favorite shade of green, favorite three animals, etc...

Karma will get back at her.

Sounds like you are better off without her.

On the other hand, maybe be a little bit more attentive in the future to little details with your NEW friends you will have some day. Use this as a great learning experience to grow from on how to be a better friend yourself, and what they might like.

 

[Disneyland1084]

Little update here...

ex-friend is treating me like the bad guy still. she wants me to forget about her, told me im basically inferior to her other friends, and is basing our former friendship on the fact that i can't name her favorite shade of green, favorite three animals, etc...

apparently my friendship wasn't enough for her, and, though i won't say specifics, she's a flaming hypocrite.

She's NO loss! You're better off without her.

 

[Where'sPiglet?]

Little update here...

ex-friend is treating me like the bad guy still. she wants me to forget about her, told me im basically inferior to her other friends, and is basing our former friendship on the fact that i can't name her favorite shade of green, favorite three animals, etc...

apparently my friendship wasn't enough for her, and, though i won't say specifics, she's a flaming hypocrite.

Sorry to hear you're still dealing with this, and at Christmas no less.

Be mindful of not gossiping about her in your circle of friends and classmates. I know you're talking about her on here where it's somewhat anonymous, but be careful in real life. How you react to this situation will speak volumes about your character.

 

[PollyannaMom]

...Although give it time, I'm probably just going to go crawling back with my tail between my legs. Begging for uneeded forgiveness like the dog I am...

Please don't think this way about yourself!! You are the bigger person for not wishing ill on the original "mean girl" the argument was about.

...be choosier about who you pick as friends. If you have been picking the same type of people, it's because something about them seems familiar and comfortable to you at first. Something about being around mean people is normal for you. We do have a habit of picking the same type of people and attracting the same type of situations, unless we consciously become aware of it and choose DIFFERENTLY....

I think this makes sense, too. Figure out the kind of girls you want to be friends with, then figure out where that type of girl will be (maybe a volunteer group or something), then go there and meet them.

 

[Wishing on a star]

Little update here...

ex-friend is treating me like the bad guy still. she wants me to forget about her, told me im basically inferior to her other friends, and is basing our former friendship on the fact that i can't name her favorite shade of green, favorite three animals, etc...

apparently my friendship wasn't enough for her, and, though i won't say specifics, she's a flaming hypocrite.

There are better friends out there...
(with friends like that, who needs enemies)

Give yourself time to work thu this and grieve the loss of this friendship.. and I can tell that this is a loss to you.

I hope you have a happy and 'peaceful' holiday!!!!