I have been called many things in a mansion game when I try to go play in alone. I am simply awful and ppl get mad at me for not doing things, getting in the way, not catching ghosts right in front of me.....I'M TRYING!!! I have friends who have invited me to play and on occasion I do so that I can try to improve, but I feel exactly the same way as you to in pirates when I am in mansion. And let's not talk about quests when it comes to mansion.
There are "work arounds" in pirates. Your team can win for you. You can play against an AI. In ghosts, you have to do it straight or you're done when it comes to quests.
Those same comments you get in pirates, I have received in mansion. Followed by a player who quits on me, leaving me without a game. I believe they should put the same pay to play feature in ghosts as they have in pirates to avoid this.
Sad that VMK players in ANY mini-game feel the need to be rude instead of helpful when playing with someone not as skilled as they are. I will welcome you on my boat anytime, Astro, quest or just for fun - yep, pirates for fun! hehe