I really can't work this girl out...what does your experience tell you?

[Pinky166]

Sounds like you've made the right decision if you feel free & happier today.

The right person will come along when you least expect it.

 

[bronny]

I've come to a conclusion (goodness knows it's taken me long enough)

I really don't care! I don't want to have to deal with all that drama and what happened on Saturday night was so incredibly rude, whatever the situation is nobody deserves that. I'm just going to leave her be. If she wants to be a friend, I'll talk and be friendly but all that other emotional stuff...I can't be doing with it. I've never been a game player, just give me someone straight to be point and honest and i'll be happy...

I'm feeling very free today and I think that says alot

Thanks guys, you all helped a lot...now back on with my life

Stu

Gotta agree with Joolz again! You seem like a decent bloke - you were concerned enough to put yourself out there with a bunch of people u don't know! Good luck with everything.

Bronny

 

[joolz1910]

Gotta agree with Joolz again! You seem like a decent bloke - you were concerned enough to put yourself out there with a bunch of people u don't know! Good luck with everything.

Bronny

Looks like me and Bronny should work for Relate.

 

[StuZioCardyni]

Thank you everyone...I do try and be a decent guy. Maybe I was overly respectful and it made me put out confusing signals. Better luck next time ey.

Go for it, relate need people like you two

 

[bronny]

Looks like me and Bronny should work for Relate.

Innit! Good on u Stu and you'll be fine. You've got ur head on straight. Wishing u loadsa luck....and if u ever need any help me and Joolz are here. Lol.

 

[joolz1910]

Innit! Good on u Stu and you'll be fine. You've got ur head on straight. Wishing u loadsa luck....and if u ever need any help me and Joolz are here. Lol.

Perhaps we should find someone nice for Stu, Bronny.

Don't stop being a nice, respectful guy, Stu! I married a nice guy, and I'm one hell of a catch.

 

[StuZioCardyni]

lol who needs arranged marriages when you have bronny and joolz...you two beat batman and robin any day...and look way better in tights of course

 

[joolz1910]

lol who needs arranged marriages when you have bronny and joolz...you two beat batman and robin any day...and look way better in tights of course

We are so great, we can even carry off 'pop socks'.

 

[StuZioCardyni]

gosh you'd cause quite a stir if you did!! I'm not sure the hospitals could cope with all those poor men passing out and hitting their heads (for the most positive reasons of course)

 

[bronny]

gosh you'd cause quite a stir if you did!! I'm not sure the hospitals could cope with all those poor men passing out and hitting their heads (for the most positive reasons of course)

Lol. What a charmer, you'll be fine! Me and Joolz will put the world to rights!

 

[StuZioCardyni]

Oh not charm at all...unavoidable truth is what it is

I hope you've had a good day, joolz too if only I could find her. You two really ought to start going round together if you're going to be match making super heros

 

[joolz1910]

Oh not charm at all...unavoidable truth is what it is

I hope you've had a good day, joolz too if only I could find her. You two really ought to start going round together if you're going to be match making super heros

Hi there, the match-making superheroes are always around when you need them. We are always on the lookout for moody potential girlfriends who might be upsetting the good citizens of the Disboards.

 

[StuZioCardyni]

Hi there, the match-making superheroes are always around when you need them. We are always on the lookout for moody potential girlfriends who might be upsetting the good citizens of the Disboards.

Talk about leaving a path of destruction...no moody ones please! Just kind, loving, pretty, smart and funny ones...that's not to much to ask is it?

 

[joolz1910]

Talk about leaving a path of destruction...no moody ones please! Just kind, loving, pretty, smart and funny ones...that's not to much to ask is it?

Perfectly reasonable.

 

[StuZioCardyni]

Perfectly reasonable.

but close to impossible

It's amazing though, since I made the decision to stay well away I can't really seem to remember what attracted me in the first place! Kinda scary lol I knew I could never trust my judgement

 

[joolz1910]

but close to impossible

It's amazing though, since I made the decision to stay well away I can't really seem to remember what attracted me in the first place! Kinda scary lol I knew I could never trust my judgement

Like I said, you just needed to get a bit of perspective on the relationship.
How old are you? My guess is 25.

 

[StuZioCardyni]

Like I said, you just needed to get a bit of perspective on the relationship.
How old are you? My guess is 25.

Yeah 25 and still got a lot to learn lol

 

[bronny]

Yeah 25 and still got a lot to learn lol

My ex is 25 and you sound a great deal more grown up than he was! Good on you. I'm 33 tomorrow and believe me I'm still learning.

 

[Head_in_the_clouds]

Sorry for butting in on your thread . I'm just catching up on it as it always seems to be near the top of the uk community board lol! Just wanted to say that I'm 25 too and I totally understand how you feel because I feel like its impossible to find any guys with any true values now - I guess I am old-fashioned in a way and just want someone who is genuinely good at heart and its got to the point now where if I don't find him I'd honestly rather be on my own. When I look at friends relationships I have to say they really aren't that great and certainly nothing that I would aspire to. The girl you have posted about and the way she has treated you is exactly how my friend behaves with her fiancee. He is the same with her though, they constantly go in moods for no reason with each other and start bickering. I can't keep up with them and to be honest, I think they are both pretty miserable. They got engaged after five weeks of meeting each other and she was pregnant less than three months later so I think they didn't have time to really see each other as they really were until the baby was born. She knows his biggest fear is having their daughter grow up in a broken home so he will never leave her no matter how bad she treats him. And he can be a nightmare too so they are both in a mess.
What I'm trying to say is - you've probably been saved alot of misery! Its great that you are at that point where you can say you don't know what attracted you in the first place. You seem like a nice guy and unfortunately some girls our age can often see that as an opportunity to trample all over someone. Yeah it could have been pmt but still its not an excuse to be rude. It sounds like the stupidest thing to say but if you just keep being yourself and don't stress about it too much then you will eventually find the person you were meant for - you just have to believe that and then get on with your life. When the time is right, you'll meet the right girl !

 

[joolz1910]

Yeah 25 and still got a lot to learn lol

I'm an old nanna of 38 and still learning every day.

My ex is 25 and you sound a great deal more grown up than he was! Good on you. I'm 33 tomorrow and believe me I'm still learning.

Happy Birthday Bronny!!!

Sorry for butting in on your thread . I'm just catching up on it as it always seems to be near the top of the uk community board lol! Just wanted to say that I'm 25 too and I totally understand how you feel because I feel like its impossible to find any guys with any true values now - I guess I am old-fashioned in a way and just want someone who is genuinely good at heart and its got to the point now where if I don't find him I'd honestly rather be on my own. When I look at friends relationships I have to say they really aren't that great and certainly nothing that I would aspire to. The girl you have posted about and the way she has treated you is exactly how my friend behaves with her fiancee. He is the same with her though, they constantly go in moods for no reason with each other and start bickering. I can't keep up with them and to be honest, I think they are both pretty miserable. They got engaged after five weeks of meeting each other and she was pregnant less than three months later so I think they didn't have time to really see each other as they really were until the baby was born. She knows his biggest fear is having their daughter grow up in a broken home so he will never leave her no matter how bad she treats him. And he can be a nightmare too so they are both in a mess.
What I'm trying to say is - you've probably been saved alot of misery! Its great that you are at that point where you can say you don't know what attracted you in the first place. You seem like a nice guy and unfortunately some girls our age can often see that as an opportunity to trample all over someone. Yeah it could have been pmt but still its not an excuse to be rude. It sounds like the stupidest thing to say but if you just keep being yourself and don't stress about it too much then you will eventually find the person you were meant for - you just have to believe that and then get on with your life. When the time is right, you'll meet the right girl !

You're not butting in. I agree with you, many people settle for an unhealthy relationship because they don't want to be alone. I have friends who seem to thrive on a volatile relationship. Each to their own. Sometimes the perfect person for you is right under your nose. I met my DH when I was a student working in a factory. He liked me and I thought, 'What the hell - he's not my usual type and he's a bit quiet but I'll give him a chance.' 20 years and 3 kids later.....