Gill,
We stayed ( 9 nights) at the Swan this past March on the government rate. The location cannot be beat. The boats to Epcot and the Studios coupled with the ability to walk to the boardwalk and Epcot make it as special as it is. That being said, our experience with the hotel itself was not the best. The rooms were much smaller than we got during our two deluxe stays and we had a few serious housekeeping issues. We also had neighbors ( MOM< DAD< 2 little boys) and we could hear everything that went on in that room, incliding the bathroom.The resort fee brings the rate up. The restaurants are marginal for the price. Go to Deb Wils site (
www.wdwig.com) to peruse menus before you make your choice. The price of food at the hotel can drive the cost of your stay up.
We have stayed in the Poly (7 nights @ $247/night) and the GF ( 5 nights @ 266/night ??????I do not remember!). The POly was our first onsite experience. It is a nice hotel. The rooms are nice and big. We had a pool view. It was fun to see the castle change colors. It was great for our daughter to snuggle with her Dad on a hammock and watch the electric water pagent go by. Did we get what we paid for. Geez---- it cost alot of money and we didn't spend that much time in our room. The GF? Ditto. It is pretty, warm and inviting, but It cost alot of money and we did not spend that much time in our room. And the pool is not themes like at the moderates, the swan/dophin or now, the Poly.
Then there is Port Orleans Riverside. After a couple of trips in deluxes and a pricey experience at the HIlton in Downtown Disney( five nights @175.night), I decided to book our family of three into Port Orleans Riverside( 9 nights @128/night). Oh how I fretted! All the way down in the plane I silently fretted. "They have been to the deluxes. This hotel we are going to is costing me less than half! They are going to hate it. Oh why did I try to save this money?" Guess what. I was completely wrong. WE loved the alligaotr bayou section of Port Orleans Riverside. Loved it. We loved the food court. We loved the grounds. We loved the pool. We loved the ability to take the boat to Downtown Disney. it was a wonderful experience. The rooms are smaller, but suited us just fine. ( By the way, we are Mom, Dad and now 9 year old girl.)
Next Friday we are off for 9 nights at Coronado Springs. ( 9 nights @ $79. night, AP rate) I am getting better at this. With the Ap's from the last trip and the price at the hotel, this trip will cost us significantly less money. That is a good thing, I think one of the keys to going and enjoying is NOT fretting about the money. It is wonderful to go down and eat where you want to eat and do what you want to do without worrying the the Visa or checking account are going to max out. That is what being mindful of the cost fo the room allows me to do. To me the differences between the deluxes , the moderates and the S & D are not so pronounced that the extra money is worth paying. Go for location, menus and what looks pretty to you.
Another good alternative for you is an All Start with a code , 2 adjoining rooms together. they will guarantee you adjoining rooms. The eleven year old gets her own tv and bathroom and is safe with an open door.
Whatever you do have fun.