I want to thank everyone here for the tremendous outpouring of love and support during my DMIL’s time in the hospital and all your heartfelt condolences upon her passing.
We had her funeral in Hawaii last Friday, and had a more intimate farewell ceremony on Saturday. The turnout amazed and humbled us. My DMIL lived a very ordinary life, but so many family and friends who we hadn’t seen in a long time came from all over the island and flew in from the neighbor islands, and all her old colleagues from work came that we swore they must’ve closed the office for the day. And they all shared stories about how strong my DMIL was, because even though she battled a chronic illness for much of her later years, she never complained, and always radiated optimism and positivity; and most of all, how much she loved her daughters and granddaughter. Being surrounded by so much family and friends last weekend really helped start the healing process. We couldn’t have asked for better weather, too. Hurricane Lane lashed Oahu with heavy winds and rain a week earlier, but there was no sign the storm had even happened. The morning of the funeral started out with some passing showers that gave way to a rainbow, and it was sunny and breezy the rest of the day. We said our final goodbyes off a small beach that’s meant a lot to my wife’s family, where her parents had many dates, and the family enjoyed picnics, potluck, and fishing. That afternoon was beautiful. But as soon as we finished, a sudden sunshower came out of nowhere and drizzled on us for a minute. We took that as a sign from mom.
We’re still trying to get back to our routine, and you can all go back to our regularly scheduled program. To bring it all back to churning, I had to book four roundtrip tickets between SFO and HNL this summer and went through about 77.5k HawaiianMiles, 22.5k United miles, about 36k UR points, and a few dozen dollars in fees. Not too bad, considering most of the travel was booked last minute or just a few days before the long Labor Day weekend. I do not want to have to go through this again. But I'm thankful to have a diverse and deep enough pool of points and miles that we didn't have to worry at all about last minute travel costs.